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    SPs’ and Agencies’ Honesty about Age

    As a newer Montreal Hobbyist, I find there is a disturbing lack of candour when it comes to disclosing an SP’s age. I am not entirely sure if this is “how things are done” out here or this vocation is a victim of the regional dishonesty. It has been my experience that some agencies display a modicum of truthfulness only mildly fudging the numbers, while others blatantly lie.

    There is an SP who I encountered four months ago who I am quite fond of. Usually, I am not particularly keen on Frenchwomen however there was a certain twinkle in this girl’s eyes. Regrettably, out here the selection of English ladies is quite limited and I have hence repeated with said girl about a dozen times. Having built up somewhat of a rapport we exchanged emails, talked on MSN, etc.

    I probably should have respected her privacy, but curiosity got the better of me and I Googled her (she had given me her real name) and found out she is only 18; she had told me she was 22. Even more importantly, the first time I saw this young lady, and I do mean young, the time would have been disturbingly close to her 18th birthday. While I am not accusing her of working when she perhaps shouldn’t have been, it is tremendously unnerving all the same.

    Inversely, I had an incident awhile back where I had arranged a “rendez-vous” with a companion who billed herself, rather the agency did, as 29 years old. When she arrived, she had to have been in her early-mid 40s! Although she had a certain MILF attractiveness about her, excuse the vulgarity, it was incredibly awkward; this woman was old enough to be my mother (I am 25). I did not want to be rude and received a rushed massage (I was the one rushing) and finished in a record 5 minutes. Sufficed to say I hurriedly showed her the door shortly thereafter citing an early breakfast engagement.

    In lieu of given information, what do Merbites (and agencies if they care to respond) think an agency’s / service provider’s responsibility (moral, legal and otherwise) is to openly and transparently disclose age? I would also welcome any feedback as to which agencies hobbyists have found to be most and least forthcoming in this respect.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ocoq
    As a newer Montreal Hobbyist, I find there is a disturbing lack of candour when it comes to disclosing an SP’s age. I am not entirely sure if this is “how things are done” out here or this vocation is a victim of the regional dishonesty. It has been my experience that some agencies display a modicum of truthfulness only mildly fudging the numbers, while others blatantly lie.
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    What is this crap all about

    Nowhere in the world an SP or an agency will disclose the real age of an escort. What do you expect? Her full name, her birth certificate, her school records? What else! It has nothing to do with your racist slur «how things are done» right here.

    Regional dishonesty????? If you're not happy go back from where do you come from. With your post you showing disrespect to Montrealer of all origins, French as well as English.

    Why is the real age so important to you? Escort agencies are not dating agencies.
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    Protagaras, maybe you could make your points more calmly.

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    You're probably right.

    I was angry because he wrote (even if I doubt that he can really do it) that he Googled her with her real name in order to investigate her age. Beware, stalkers begin like that....
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    Quote Originally Posted by protagoras
    I was angry because he wrote (even if I doubt that he can really do it) that he Googled her with her real name in order to investigate her age. Beware, stalkers begin like that....
    He does not say how he was able to "verify" her age through Google. I am not aware of birth certificates being posted online. For all we know the age he saw online was more bullshit posted in a Facebook account, and her real age is 22. In any event it would seem odd for an escort to say she is 22 when she is really 18. And if it were the case that she was under 18, she would likely say that she was 18, not 22. Escorts are more marketable when they are 18, so what he is telling us is that she or her agency is also stupid. But I am not really buying what I read in this post as far as it goes in that regard.

    The issue of proper disclosure of age/weight etc. has been discussed ad nauseam in prior threads. My own experience is that the major agencies that I have used are usually in the ballpark if not spot on (Eleganza, Devilish, XXXtase, etc.)
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    EagerBeaver,

    Thanks for your lucid answer; it does make sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver
    But I am not really buying what I read in this post as far as it goes in that regard.
    I have some doubts about Mr Ocoq period, reminds me of A glo Ph ck.

    If he isn't the creation of someone whose sole objective is shit-disturbing then he should try to post without consistently denigrating Montreal, Quebec, Francophones, the French language or whatever.

    It's so blatant that I find it hard to believe it isn't deliberate.
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    Hello Ocoq,

    We have already been through this discussion on MERB and I see no reason to re-open it. Agencies and SPs are free to handle their marketing as they see fit. If you are not happy with the lady who shows up at your door, you are free to refuse her and/or complain to the agency concerned. You are also free to include such information in any review you may post.

    Other than that, this subject and this thread are closed.

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