As a newer Montreal Hobbyist, I find there is a disturbing lack of candour when it comes to disclosing an SP’s age. I am not entirely sure if this is “how things are done” out here or this vocation is a victim of the regional dishonesty. It has been my experience that some agencies display a modicum of truthfulness only mildly fudging the numbers, while others blatantly lie.
There is an SP who I encountered four months ago who I am quite fond of. Usually, I am not particularly keen on Frenchwomen however there was a certain twinkle in this girl’s eyes. Regrettably, out here the selection of English ladies is quite limited and I have hence repeated with said girl about a dozen times. Having built up somewhat of a rapport we exchanged emails, talked on MSN, etc.
I probably should have respected her privacy, but curiosity got the better of me and I Googled her (she had given me her real name) and found out she is only 18; she had told me she was 22. Even more importantly, the first time I saw this young lady, and I do mean young, the time would have been disturbingly close to her 18th birthday. While I am not accusing her of working when she perhaps shouldn’t have been, it is tremendously unnerving all the same.
Inversely, I had an incident awhile back where I had arranged a “rendez-vous” with a companion who billed herself, rather the agency did, as 29 years old. When she arrived, she had to have been in her early-mid 40s! Although she had a certain MILF attractiveness about her, excuse the vulgarity, it was incredibly awkward; this woman was old enough to be my mother (I am 25). I did not want to be rude and received a rushed massage (I was the one rushing) and finished in a record 5 minutes. Sufficed to say I hurriedly showed her the door shortly thereafter citing an early breakfast engagement.
In lieu of given information, what do Merbites (and agencies if they care to respond) think an agency’s / service provider’s responsibility (moral, legal and otherwise) is to openly and transparently disclose age? I would also welcome any feedback as to which agencies hobbyists have found to be most and least forthcoming in this respect.