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    I'm new here & wasn't sure where to post this.

    I'm new here. Anyone interested in why I gained an interest in escorts & strip clubs?

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    You posted in the correct section.

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    I for one am very interested. Please do tell, and if anyone else would care to share their story please do!

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    Well most of my problems I had with girls when I was younger was b/c I was fat in highschool & it didn't change until I was
    15.5yrs old as I was rejected by the football team & started working out & dieting right away. I the following year made the football team & played running back the rest of highschool & played another 5yrs for college.

    But being fat in grade 8 with a 43inch waist for sure caused a lot of social problems especially with girls. I had only a few friends before I started playing football.

    But the girls in my highschool were real b#$ches (excuse the language, but I hated them with a passion)

    They used to pretend to like me & then humiliated me either infront of ppl or alone. There was this one girl who said she really did like me in grade 8 even with my 220lb 5ft7 43 inch waisted body. But I didn't believe her as her friends would make fun of me so I ignored her as I didn't want to get hurt anymore.

    But later in grade 11 this girl came back to me saying she still liked me from before. I asked her is it b/c of how I was looking now & she said no.

    This girl already had 2 boyfriends & the recent one cheated on her so she left him. I didn't think she would want me if anything sexual would happen as I was an 18yr old virgin at the time. I turned 18 halfway through the year.

    So my buddies got me an escort from one named Internationals or something from the local papers going around.

    The escort was this gorgeous Mulatto woman at 5ft10 & about 145lbs proportionate. I had 3 SOG in that hour & I learned a lot in that one hour sexually. I was ready to go out with this hot girl from highschool.

    We went out for about 2yrs until she had to go away to university. I was sad as it was my 1st girlfriend but life goes on.

    I've been with about 8 regular non escort girls/women in my life since my 1st girlfriend. I've had 2 MILF experiences from regular women which I will never forget. When I was 21yrs old my 32yr old Cegep professor invited me over to her house one Friday night for dinner to go over a paper as I was "at risk of failing" but I really got a B.

    The other MILF experience was my boss when I was 23yrs old. She was 41yrs old. She started making me work late most of the time & one night well she made her point & this went on about 8 months until her ex-husband wanted to get back together.

    They were both tall. I have a thing for women about my height (5ft10, 210lbs with a 34inch waist) or as tall as 6ft1 with proportional weight.

    When I was 23yrs old I went to Grand Prix for the 1st time with friends & met one amazing brunett. I ended up going to this club for the next 2yrs 2-3 times a month. Sometimes with friends & other times alone. I was a regular client to 3 of the ladies there & I've gotten together with 2 other ladies there but not as regular as the other 3.

    I was at the point of asking the 3 regular ladies to come & see me at my home but a week after my last visit there I met a girl whom I've been with for 2yrs now.

    But things don't look so good now & we're probably going to break up as the last 5 or 6 months she only sees me once or twice a week after begging me to move from the South Shore to the West Island which I did last August.

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    Sorry for the long reply but it is an intro. I'm just going to finish with it here.


    By the way I just went to Eclypse 2 last night in Rigaud which was pretty good with 10 gorgeous women but it's a bit expensive but reasonable.


    I want to go back to Grand Prix now, but I feel I'm being held back b/c of my girlfriend. The sex with my girlfriend is now & has been for the last 4 months only been ONCE OR TWICE A MONTH. Plus for the last 4 months she's been "joking" around about breaking up.

    I'm at the point where I don't care if I see her one day or not. I'm doing my own thing, but I'm being held back sexually b/c I don't want to cheat on her or anything so I was held back last night.




    Do you think any of the girls who were at Grand Prix 2yrs ago would still be there now?

    One of the girls who I was a regular with said she worked at a club in the West Island with the same set up. Do you any of you know what club that could be?


    Just a couple of small last questions.

    If I asked any of the ladies from GP to make a house call how much do you think it would be?



    & being new to this forum I'm not always sure what I should & shouldn't say or should I use abbreviations to describe services?
    For example anything that happens at Grand Prix, should I saying anything here as opposed to Solid Gold it's just lap dances so if anything happens I was told to keep it a secret?

    Thanks again & I apologize for the long reply.

    Thanks for your time, I just want to make sure I don't say anything I shouldn't say as I don't want to get any places in trouble.

    Thanks again

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    Johnny,

    Your approach to this forum is very candid, and as such, very refreshing. Based on what I read here, I am sure plenty of women around here will be very happy to make your aquaintance, knowing they will meet a guy who is down to earth, honest, straightforward, and gentleman.

    I have to agree with EagerBeaver regarding your girlfriend. If you are saying you see her (let alone sex involved or not) only once or twice a month, she is not a real girlfriend and one has to think about her reasons to be with you. Maybe she feels something for you as a friend and doesn't want to disappoint you, but I hardly see that as a GF/BF relationship. However, if it's only the sex that is deficient and you are with her almost everyday, maybe there are other issues that you should raise and discuss with her.

    I second... Good luck and Welcome to Merb!

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    EagerBeaver

    So I shouldn't name the clubs or anything other than PM's?

    I wasn't sure b/c I saw someone else post about that club & named it.

    But strip clubs that are known for things, I shouldn't advertise other than PM's or e-mail?

    I'm just new to this so I don't know all the ropes yet.

    CoolAmadeus

    Thanks for those kind words. I just wanted to come here as honest as possible with things I've experienced.

    I'm just an honest, average guy with normal needs.


    I do see my girlfriend 2-3 times a week if I'm lucky, but sexually it's on average of only 1 or 2 times a month.

    It used to be much more than that on an average of 2-4 sexual encounters a week & even 6 encounters in one evening at times. But for some reason she's lost her desire.

    She does have a stomach problem (not an ulcer, but inflammation occurs) that requires weekly medication but her condition is pretty well much under control for the most part.

    So I don't know why she has lost her sexual desire.

    I know it's not me b/c I have good technique, a high sex drive (maybe from the weight lifting?), & I managed to keep around 2 older mature women as I've mentioned for more than several months, & size wise I'm just over 7inches long with fairly descent thickness. I was actually recommended by a buddy to get a pump to go to 8inches LOL.

    But I've been for awhile very tempted to go back to these clubs or call an agency.

    I have a thing for tall women say 5ft8-6ft1 with proportional body weight.

    I'll be around later.

    Feel free to PM me.

    Take care all & thanks for the kind words.

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    Gee, isn't too personal?

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    Wow...thats really putting it out there....I can relate since I had similar beginings
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    First, i like to welcome Johnny on this board. I like the way you introduce yourself.

    About Grand Prix, i think it still close but you can see some of the staff at Erotica Bar in St-Athanase.

    EagerBeaver, i don't get your point about FS club. I understand not telling your good millage in a downtown club or lap-dancing club could cause problem for the girl and it's better to keep it without naming the performer. But for a FS, everybody know what's happening there even the management. Grand Prix was known for this even for non-initiated person. My guess is a lady could even get fired if she refuse performing sexual act in the booth instead of the opposite.

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    Gee, isn't too personal?
    Some may think so, but I have nothing to hide.

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    First, i like to welcome Johnny on this board. I like the way you introduce yourself.

    About Grand Prix, i think it still close but you can see some of the staff at Erotica Bar in St-Athanase.

    EagerBeaver, i don't get your point about FS club. I understand not telling your good millage in a downtown club or lap-dancing club could cause problem for the girl and it's better to keep it without naming the performer. But for a FS, everybody know what's happening there even the management. Grand Prix was known for this even for non-initiated person. My guess is a lady could even get fired if she refuse performing sexual act in the booth instead of the opposite.
    Thank you for the welcome.

    I've heard since last year it re-opened & was closed temporarily for some stupid thing. I heard about that 2nd club you mentioned though.

    Bare with me guys as I'm just learning the ropes about what to say & what not as I want to keep ppl's respect here so I now ask if certain things are okay to say or not as I don't want to get anyone in trouble.

    But I was sent a PM saying not to mention club names or girls names where things happen as owners read the board as well & it could mean trouble.

    I was told PMing or e-mail is the best way to discuss amongst eachother.


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    Welcome Johnny!

    I think you are lucky you have lived through these experiences.

    First because there are billions others before you and billion others after you to relate to, and second these are the experiences that make you stronger in life.

    So happy to see you have lived a pretty normal life so far
    Thanks for the kind words they are appreciated.

    Yeah I feel lucky to have experienced what I have but being fat when I was younger really was hard on me.

    My life has been pretty normal so far.



    I was just curious about 2 things.

    The 1st being that there seems to be restrictions on how long an individual PM is to someone? How come? I've been to other types of forums that allow an endless PM. Here if you have a lot to talk about you're cut short & would have to send ahother or more PM to chat?


    Also I've seen ppl write about their excperiences with different escort agencies & actually named the escort. Is this okay to do here? I just want to make sure.

    Thanks again.

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    If any of you want to share any specific information about places or whatever, feel free to PM me.


    I was wondering if any of you sometimes get sick of regular girls/women b/c many I've found play games & screw with your head or use you?

    This is part of the reason I've always been into escorts at different times. & with the way things have been going with my current girlfriend, I'm started to become very interested. & my girlfriend is really attractive but as I've said has lost her sexual desire.


    Again, I'm new here & trying to learn the ropes of what to say & what not to say as I don't want to get anyone in trouble.

    Thanks again.

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    Cargo, if you go back and read my post, my comments were confined to clubs where extras were not endorsed or permitted by management. By definition, my comments would not apply to a FS club. As I understood Johnny`s original question, he was looking for general guidance on posting and I gave that to him.
    So than would you say it is okay to name FS clubs such as the one Cargo named or others known for that activity?

    I just want to make sure as I see ppl naming escorts & talking about their experiences here, but even if it is an FS club such as the one Cargo mentioned, would it then be okay to talk about the club & experiences there & so on? I`m guessing even if it`s okay to name the FS club, it probably wouldn`t be a good idea to name any of the ladies?

    For example here in this post they name the club & ladies for a known FS club. Here is the thread.

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...&threadid=4394

    This is exactly what I`m talking about. I`m not sure if I should be doing or saying things like this at a known FS club?


    But one thing I do have common sense for & wouldn`t do or name or whatever is say I got lucky at a regular club like Solid Gold or Club Downtown where it`s supposed to be a lap dance club only. I`m guessing it wouldn`t be a good idea to talk about an experience that`s more than lap dancing? Should it be discussed even through PM`s?

    Again I`m just new here & I don`t want to say anything that would get anyone in trouble.

    That`s why I want to make sure that if it`s a known FS club like mentioned in this thread & the link I provided.

    But I`m guessing that naming girls & incall/outcall escort agencies & talking about experiences is okay?

    Please be patient with me as I said I`m just learning things around here which is why I`m asking a lot of questions. I say it`s better to know what to say instead of causing any problems.

    Thanks again all.

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    Do any of you guys sometimes get fed up with regular non dancers or non escort girls/women I mean just normal women like students or ppl who work in an office or something?

    That's part of the reason I became interested in clean FS clubs & clean known escort agencies.


    As I've said I've been with about 6 regular women & I've had some bad experiences that I think we've all had.

    I've been used before & sometimes w/o sex but for rides or taking them out w/o sex. Or I've been used just for sex (not always a bad thing except if you're at apoint of looking for a long term relationship).

    I was inlove with this girl for about 1.5yrs in college who I went to highschool with. She'd always call on me wanting to go somewhere & I thought she was interested in me. But after a year or so I realized she was only calling me when she needed me to do something for her or take her somewhere. She ended up going out with a good friend of mine.

    But he got screwed by her to. Every summer her family stays in their house in Europe for 3 months. My friend decided to go & see her & have a European vacation & he had relatives in Rome. As soon as he got there for some crazy reason w/o explaination she dumped his ass. I saw her recently as I went to see her brother & she was leaving for Europe the following week & she was trying to call her boyfriend over there that she's been with for a long time. That means she was screwing around with this guy in Europe before my friend arrived which is why she dumped him as soon as he arrived.

    Another buddy of mine just the other night told me that he met this 18yr old girl who was really hot & he got to give her oral sex only. But this girl has a boyfriend who was away somewhere. If I was that girls boyfriend & I found out that she let some other guy eat her out, I would show her the side of the road. That's not cool at all.

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    Welcome to merb!

    I for one appreciate you honest, open, candid introduction. Your experiences are entirely normal. Most people do not share such personal details (and I am not only refering to here on merb) which leaves some people wondering if their experiences are normal.

    Your honesty and candor will prove helpful to many...most likely those who are too shy to post in the 1st place.

    As for what can be said and what cannot, read the reviews in each section and you will get a better idea of what is acceptable.

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