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    Why the reluctance to DFK?

    I find it somewhat surprising when reading all of the various reviews that many SPs don`t DFK, even though they have no problem with a . In my mind, a is much more intimate than a DFK, so it surprises me that so many girls don`t DFK. Why is that?

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    I agree. I have always wondered the same thing . I think shoving a cock into a mouth is much more intimate and there is more risk of infection then a DFK.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shivasirons
    I find it somewhat surprising when reading all of the various reviews that many SPs don`t DFK, even though they have no problem with a . In my mind, a is much more intimate than a DFK, so it surprises me that so many girls don`t DFK. Why is that?
    Hello Shivasirons,

    This argument has been covered with much passionate discussion before. I don`t understand it, but the women say kissing is much more intimate and personal than anything else. That`s it. Just accept it.

    Funny though that if anyone forces a kiss on a woman the most she will probably do is slap your face, but if anyone forces her to have sex it`s prison time. Go figure.

    I love DFK, but being without it is not a deal breaker. In fact, there are only two deal breakers I can think of. She has a disease, or she doesn`t turn me on one way or another. As long as she can avoid the first, and accomplish the second, she`s fine with me.

    Cheers,

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    Last edited by Merlot; 07-14-2009 at 05:09 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shivasirons
    I find it somewhat surprising when reading all of the various reviews that many SPs don`t DFK, even though they have no problem with a . In my mind, a is much more intimate than a DFK, so it surprises me that so many girls don`t DFK. Why is that?
    I find it suprising that guys won`t see hot girls who don`t DFK but provide awsome .

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    She's not into you...

    Maybe the sp doesn't find you attractive enough to want to DFK in addition to sucking your dick for cash.
    That, and maybe cuz some guys out there have shitty breath and summa teeth- summa teeth go this way and summa teeth go that way.

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    I'm with Breadman and the Doc on this one... DFK for me = Don't Fucking Kare. If there's no high quality BJ, you can count me out. That's the main dealbreaker for me.

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    I will try to explain:

    Blow jobs are a major part of our business. If we did not give them we would be out of business.

    If we want to keep something special for our boyfriends, for our personal life, the only thing we can save is DFK.

    That said, personally I find that DFK can be a wonderful part of the sexual experience whether with a client of in my personal life.

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    Well I am to the contrary of most of your opinions. I do not give a damn about but for me no DFK=I am not seeing that SP. DFK it the most important part of the session for me and the thing I enjoy the most. To each their own .
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    I never impose DFK on an SP, if she wants to DFK I`m all for it and makes it more enjoyable if SHE wants to DFK you. Otherwise if you force it upon her it`s never feels the same and the passion isn`t there on her part.

    Same thing with a BJ, if she gives a more passionate CBJ then then I`m all for it. It`s all about her enthusiasm of the service that I care about and not her going through the motions.
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    Very wise words Mr. Don,

    I agree. I would only add that if DFK is not enthusiastic on her part, it just means no repeat afterward, that's all...
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    This will not be easy to explain in English but I will do my best.

    First, let's be honest (and a bit blunt!) about something: a cock is a cock. You either appreciate them or you don't. Ok, some are nicer than others but if you like giving blow jobs, you can still enjoy (to a certain extent, of course) doing it with someone who is not really attractive since you concentrate on a very specific area of the body.

    Kissing, it's a whole other story. What do you kiss? A mouth... which is part of someone's face. If that someone turns you off, it's very difficult to make abstraction of it because the second you open your eyes, what do you see? His face. Which will remind you automatically that you're performing a very intimate act that you would rather not be doing.

    Also, kissing involves an exchange of fluids. It can be gross to do that with someone you find unattractive. Giving a blow job does not necessarily mean an exchange of fluids. Yes, there is a bit of precum but it's usually very discreet, so much so that you barely notice it.

    Now, just to be clear, I personaly love kissing, to the point where I'm disappointed if my date is not into it. Most of the time, I'm lucky enough to pick the right partners for me and even when I don't, I can usually find at least a couple of things I find charming about the person I'm with, which is enough for me to feel comfortable.
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