View Poll Results: Is Hobbying Cheating?

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  • Absolutely, there is no question.

    69 72.63%
  • Probably but I can somehow justify it as not being.

    13 13.68%
  • Not to me but it would be to her. (I plead the Clinton Clause).

    7 7.37%
  • Absolutely NOT.

    6 6.32%
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Thread: Survey - Is Hobbying Cheating?

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    Survey - Is Hobbying Cheating?

    Having found the last survey interesting I though it time to post my own little survey....

    Is our Hobby considered Cheating (on your spouse, not on your own hand)?

    1) Absolutely, there is no question.
    2) Probably but I can somehow justify it as not being.
    3) Not to me but it would be to her. (I plead the Clinton Clause).
    4) Absolutely NOT.

  2. #2
    • Poll added
    • Moved to the lounge since the question is about hobbying and isn't a review.

  3. #3
    Absolutely

    The only way it wouldnt be cheating is if she knew about it and was ok with it

  4. #4
    Maybe it is. Maybe it isn`t. It`s a grey area.

  5. #5
    well, if you're in a relationship, like you've stipulated, then yes obviously its cheating. pretty dumb question lol. so you got caught?

  6. #6
    Quote Originally Posted by master_bates View Post
    Absolutely

    The only way it wouldnt be cheating is if she knew about it and was ok with it
    Agreed. Isn't cheating about the lying?

  7. #7
    It's so definitely cheating that if it were only a little bit more cheating, it would wrap around and become legit.

  8. #8
    For all of you that are worried about a fellow hobiest getting caught I can assure you that this is not the case... I have not been caught and hope not too in the future.

    If any of us do happen to get caught I hope that they will share the excuse they used so that we can all laugh our ass off just like the wife will do.

    Let me share a story with you ... I hail from Ontario (southwestern Ontario). I came to Montreal on business several times and was enthralled and captivated by the beauty of women here. Time would have me fall head over heals in love with my now current wife. Of course, the ex was unaware of anything going on outside the marriage. (at this point I sincerely hope none of you call me as a cheating prick based on the survey results).

    Anyway, the ex checks my cell phone voicemail one night, (ya ya In know, how the F&^k did she know your password you idiot). She hears the message and the tail end of it says "I love you". Soooooo .. my mind goes to work ... how to explain that one. My answers .... it is Quebec and they are French, everyone says "I love you to everyone else there". She friggin buys it. She does however turn in Kojak and it is only a matter of time before the hammer falls.

    Moral of the story .... if ya get caught admit it, beg for mercy and spend the next 6 months thinking of better ways to beg for mercy and to help relieve the stress go for a massage.

  9. #9
    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones View Post
    For anybody who is married and thinks it isn't cheating then i suggest you share it with your better half
    You share it with your better half. Then tell us.
    I think that it will make no difference whether you tell her you thought it was cheating or not. All you did was hurt her.

  10. #10
    Quote Originally Posted by English_Dude View Post
    For all of you that are worried about a fellow hobiest getting caught I can assure you that this is not the case... I have not been caught and hope not too in the future.

    If any of us do happen to get caught I hope that they will share the excuse they used so that we can all laugh our ass off just like the wife will do.

    Let me share a story with you ... I hail from Ontario (southwestern Ontario). I came to Montreal on business several times and was enthralled and captivated by the beauty of women here. Time would have me fall head over heals in love with my now current wife. Of course, the ex was unaware of anything going on outside the marriage. (at this point I sincerely hope none of you call me as a cheating prick based on the survey results).

    Anyway, the ex checks my cell phone voicemail one night, (ya ya In know, how the F&^k did she know your password you idiot). She hears the message and the tail end of it says "I love you". Soooooo .. my mind goes to work ... how to explain that one. My answers .... it is Quebec and they are French, everyone says "I love you to everyone else there". She friggin buys it. She does however turn in Kojak and it is only a matter of time before the hammer falls.

    Moral of the story .... if ya get caught admit it, beg for mercy and spend the next 6 months thinking of better ways to beg for mercy and to help relieve the stress go for a massage.
    Admit it...and begging for mercy, for only 6 months, man you are good! LOL
    Me, I would rather keep it QT and under the covers...discretion is the ONLY way to go...period.
    Last edited by Jman47; 08-13-2009 at 07:33 PM.

  11. #11
    Quote Originally Posted by English_Dude View Post
    My answers .... it is Quebec and they are French, everyone says "I love you to everyone else there".
    That one is too funny!!!

  12. #12
    Quote Originally Posted by jman47 View Post
    ...discretion is the ONLY way to go...period.
    Discretion is the better part of valour.

  13. #13
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    A woman's perspective...

    Of course it's cheating.

    That being said...

    I think that seeing escorts is not as bad as having an affair because it is purely sexual. If you have a mistress, sooner or later, feelings will get involved and to me, cheating on your partner emotionally is a lot worst than cheating physically.

    Also, I believe that your own well being and sanity comes before any relationship. Being fulfilled sexually is essential to happiness and unfortunately, a lot of people (men and women) are not satisfied with their partner. They have two choices: either they leave or they try to find sexual gratification elsewhere. It goes without saying that on a strictly moral point of view, the best thing would be to leave. But most of the time, things are not so simple and leaving implies a lot of obstacles and heartache.

    Of course, this is the opinion of an escort. It's probably not representative of what most women think.
    "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." - Ana´s Nin

  14. #14
    To me it is an obvious yes, no second thoughts about it. This is why I would actually be more interested in hearing from the few who ansered a variation of NO... I wonder how you guys perceive it!

  15. #15
    Quote Originally Posted by Ariane Valmont View Post
    Of course it's cheating.

    That being said...

    I think that seeing escorts is not as bad as having an affair because it is purely sexual. If you have a mistress, sooner or later, feelings will get involved and to me, cheating on your partner emotionally is a lot worst than cheating physically.
    Now wait a second Ariane. I have fallin in love with every Montreal escort I have ever seen.
    The good news is that it ends when she walks out the door. No...on second thought, my love lives on in my reviews and the beautiful memories in my mind.

    To me an escort is absolutely not cheating but trying to convince a judge is another matter.
    Last edited by hungry101; 08-14-2009 at 06:40 PM. Reason: Typos

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