My circumcision has changed me in more ways than one
I am addressing my question to those men who have experience sex both before and after having been circumsized
Because my foreskin was too tight I needed to have the operation done. Sex for me was always very painful. I actually debated doing it and finally decided to do so so I could have less painful sex (it was purely for this reason). Some positions were just impossible for me to do. A member on this board actually had the same problem (its called phimosis) and I was also in part convinced by his story to take the initiative and get it done.
I was scared to do it for a bunch of reasons….actually because I herd a bunch of stories on the net about men who did this and how it ruined their sex life….how they lost complete sensitivity in their penis and got little enjoyment from sex.
Let me just say that i have always been a really horney guy LOL. Yes I am younger than most guys here (late 20s) but on a day that I really feel like it, I can cum 4 even 5 times in a day…easy. But unfortunately I was always been a premature ejaculator (im honest at least).
Well I finally got operated about 3 months ago…..for my particular case it toke more time to heal (or is taking more time to heal then most). I had to wait about 5 weeks to masturbate…I had to do it gentle because it still kinda hurt.
I finally had sex this week. Without the usual pain.
What I noticed is that since the operation it is true my penis is a lot less sensitive. And I don’t get hard with the same ease as I used to. So I guess that kinda sucks. BUT during sex I was able to last longer…..substantially longer (I felt like I had more control over myself and was able control it). Although once I finally cam I wasn’t able to get myself hard again immediately after (I noticed this too when I masturbate). MY PENIS HAS FOR SURE CHANGED! Maybe now im a one shot guy!
Overall I am happy I did it because I don’t feel the same usual pain during penetration + and I can be a lot more ruff during the act without pain…..so im still happy even at the expense of losing some of my libido.
What I noticed is that while I was getting BJ a specific part of my penis was in a little pain (it’s the bottom part of the head of the penis or the part underneath). Also whole part right around the circumference of the head of my penis hurt a little ( which kinda makes sense cause I was cut around there).
My Urologist told me that in terms of sensation and look of my penis would change…..and that the final product will be ….well final in 1 years time. Meaning that my skin will gradually become less hard from the stitches and the look will change and sensation perhaps also.
I was wondering any guys who had this done can relate to what im saying….and can maybe tell me how things are going to change for me in the next few months….
Last edited by slow&steady; 03-24-2010 at 07:11 PM.
Shouldn`t this post be in the Health info section?
maybe, both the lounge and health section are probably appropriate.
Originally Posted by cloudsurf
hey i dont mind if it ens up in there. Anyway we got posts about pussy smell and viagra here + if you search the word circumcision youll see that most of the threads started were in the lounge section....so i figured...
It's not about penis' health, it's about penis' sensations so, the lounge can do the trick.
This may be a silly question..but whatever....
were u diagnosed with phimosis and therefore it was a free procedure? or did u have to pay? if so i just wanna know how much....i've heard everything from $1000 $2000....
any info will be appreciated..thnx
its not a silly question....i wasnt sure myself originally
Originally Posted by thecuriousgeorge
But good news...its actually free (that is its free if you have a condition, not if you want to do it for the hell of it). Do your homework because some docs. will charge you some kind of fee (around $300) if they do this in their office instead of the hospital. Usually that means they dont put you to sleep and they just freeze the area.
Myself personally i didnt want to go through with the idea of some guy operating on my dick while im completely awake freaks me out big time.
The 1st week sucks and obiously their will be a little bit of oozing of blood (its a penis...a penis has viens daaa) so dont be too scared if u bleed a little.
It is very uncomfortable but the pain is actually not that bad...i never felt the need to take pain killers (at all).
Last edited by slow&steady; 03-24-2010 at 11:33 PM.
When I was in the Army, there was an uncircumcized guy who had to have it done for some sort of health reason...this was when he was about 20. My God, how this guy suffered...I don't think he thought about sex for about six months.