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Muncus

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Hi guys. I just turned 20 and like the title says, I still haven't gotten laid. I need your advice. Is it a bad idea for your first time to be with an escort? Please, I'm at whit's end here. Thanks
 

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No, it's not a bad idea. Why are you asking? What are your concerns? It's not like any girl you might end up with in the future has been saving it for you. It's not 1950. Girls don't do that anymore. She's probably getting drilled right now by some douchebag and has probably already done the equivalent of a hockey team. Go even the score so you don't feel like a total loser the first time you're with someone you actually like. Besides, the fact that she will have been with more people than you will most likely bother you and make you feel emasculated. Better to get the kinks out with an SP or two or ten and build your confidence. Women like confidence. Just don't ever admit to having been with SPs, otherwise you'll probably get the boot. Women just don't understand that free sex is a lot harder to come by for Average Joe than it is for Average Jane. You waited long enough, and it just didn't happen. Time for Plan B.
 

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Hi Muncie .. Or muncus......
It's great to speak to a virgin... I'm so used to talking with old pervs...
First of all before you embark on this journey I'd like to leave you with a quote young dragon

' may you let your inner dragon.. Suck on the blood of chickens, until the egg is left without yolk'

now for your question.....
If you choose the right girl it could be better than any of your wildest , most perverted dreams..!
If you make the wrong choice:...? Well let's just say you might lean towards men when the smoke clears...!!

I might pm you a few names to check out...
Don't be ashamed in telling the lady that it's your first time...
Think hard about how you envision the moment..?
Would you like something sensual, slow and more passionate..?
Or do you want something more hard and intense.. Something you'd see in a movie perhaps..?

Ultimately on this realm, with all due respect .. Your the boss.!
You can get it any way you want it..and any style of girl to fit your desires..
you just have to know who to see for what..
 

Kareem Justin Cider

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Muncus, I'm glad you asked this question at the beginning stage of your adult life. There are 2 paths you can take to lose your virginity. One is to have a girlfirend either around your age or younger and lose it with her. Or two, hire an sp and easily lose it that way.

There are pro's & con's to both paths.
Girlfriend approach: PRO- you can get comfortable with her, she would understand it's your 1st time
- you can continue having sex with your gf as many times as you want after
- you'll always remember your first
- costs you little or nothing, just your time and effort.
- you will gain more experience when you get older with other encounters

CON- she might not have a enough sexual experience that would make it amazing
- you might not feel self confident about this first sexual experience with her

SP approach: PRO- you can choose any hottie you desire to break the ice
- The sp is more sexually experienced
- she will try to make you comfortable, it's her profession
- it will only cost a one time fee, depending on rate & time

CON - "YOU MIGHT GET ADDICTED"
- You might fall into a bad experience, which happens half the time, it's a HIT & MISS.
- In the future when your friends ask you how you lost your virginity and you respond with a hooker, it might not be memorable.

I could be wrong but this is my opinion, take it or leave it, If I could go back in the past, I would slap myself. I won't tell you why. You be the judge of your on destiny.

Time out.
 
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sweetwater

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Hi guys. I just turned 20 and like the title says, I still haven't gotten laid. I need your advice. Is it a bad idea for your first time to be with an escort? Please, I'm at whit's end here. Thanks

Sounds like me from the seventies

I agree with red, Aeolus, and Ricky. Good advice from all of them. The only thing I might add is to just remember that seeing an SP is a Girl Friend Experience, she is only your girlfriend while she is with you. Go for it, Muncus, you are way overdue. Welcome to MERB.
sweetwater
 

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No problem losing your virginity to an SP. I lost mine at 22 to an SP and back then there was no MERB it was just an ad out of the newspaper. Lucky for me it worked out fine and the girl was really sweet.

I agree with everything mentioned above. But beware that once you get your hands in the cookie jar for one cookie you'll want them all!
 

Waydown

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i was also wondering if it's a good idea to lose your virginity to an escort. i'm 21 and im also a virgin. Well i have a fleslight lol thats it. i'm a nice guy and all but i'm too busy to have a girl friend and i'm pretty shy. I'm open for suggestions, i need someone slow, passionate and very sensuel. Not someone intense.

thanks alot guys.
 

Ricky bonds

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For my French friends

Salut Muncie .. Ou muncus ...... C'est génial de parler d'une vierge ... Je suis tellement habitué à parler avec pervs vieille ... Tout d'abord avant de vous lancer sur ce chemin, je voudrais vous laisser avec un dragon cite jeunes peuvent vous laissez votre dragon intérieure .. Sucer le sang des poulets, jusqu'à ce que l'œuf est laissé sans jaune 'maintenant à votre question ..... Si vous choisissez la bonne fille ça pourrait être mieux que n'importe lequel de vos plus folles, les rêves les plus pervers ..! Si vous faites le mauvais choix :...? Eh bien, laissez-moi vous dire que vous seriez peut se pencher vers les hommes, quand la fumée se dissipe ...!! Je pourrais vous h quelques noms pour vérifier ... N'ayez pas honte de dire à la dame que c'est votre première fois ... Réfléchissez sur la façon dont vous envisagez l'.. moment? Souhaitez-vous quelque chose de sensuel, lent et plus passionné ..? Ou voulez-vous quelque chose de plus dur et intense .. Quelque chose que vous verriez dans un film peut-être ..? En fin de compte sur ce domaine, avec tout le respect .. Votre patron.! Vous pouvez obtenir n'importe quelle manière que vous le voulez .. et tout style de fille pour répondre à vos désirs .. il vous suffit de savoir à qui s'adresser pour ce ..
 

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Here is my thinking on the Matter. No it is not a bad idea to have your first experience with a pro. Get the other guys to help you out to find a gentle SP for sex or a masseuse to have you first massage and HJ experience. Tell the lady that it is your first time and you want to learn from the experience, just lay back and let her do all the work. Anything else you need to learn will be in future lessons.
 

Steve.

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The difference between a girlfriend and an SP !!!

After a few years of looking around strip clubs and escorts I finally decided to start with SP last January.
I probably saw 6 or 7 different ones so far.
I don't know if I am not lucky or what but each time I find a SP that I found attractive she's rarely at work, she is not available when I call (sick, leave early, ect...), and she does stop working not too long after one or two months.
So I end up with another girl that the agency (places like QOS or Chloe's playground) have available that night :(
From my experiences none of them were my type and most of them didn't enjoy sex like they are advertising (cut the mood, extras, teaching, talking too much, ect…)

Remember one thing… Sex with SP’s will never be the same as being with your girlfriend.
The difference…
With a girl you like you can have sex and being in the mood for 2 or 3 hrs none stop ;)
With an SP her goal is to make you cum once or twice… no mood :mad:

Now it's your choice :p
 
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Ricky bonds

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I'm sorry to hear about that Steve dot...
But thAt's not the way it's supposed to happen...
I have a good friend that's in the same boat.... Always getting ripped off , taken advantage of etc..
I think it has to do with his character around girls...hes soft.
Maybe he's seen as an easy mark..? A quick buck.?
....
 

Ricky bonds

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I understand it's rare to really connect with a sex provider,..*
It doesn't happen to everyone..maybe it's due to looks, hygiene, age*
Or ones ability to charm a lady..?
... But it does happen..
 

Aeolus

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Remember one thing… Sex with SP’s will never be the same as being with your girlfriend.

And sex with a SP will never be the same as sex with yourself.

If this guy had an obvious choice (GF v. SP), he wouldn't be posting here. His choice seems to be jerking off or SP.
 

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Post #3 is a great advice.

I'll also add that you'll gain confidence with women in general by having already slept with some of the very attrective ones. You will feel less intimidated, and more comfortable around them. Treat sessions with sps as a practice in a controlled environment where you will and should practice many aspect of the game, from greetings, making small talks, foreplay and to bed....Don't just focus on getting off! I assume $180 can be expensive for a kid your age. So be mentally focused on every aspect of the mating game in the session as mentioned above. You want to maximize the expensive 1hr session so that it will HELP you get pussies the old fashioned way in the future. Do this with a bunch of different hookers. It can help you learn to interact with and react to different types of girls, helps your social skills. Get the gnd types close to your age as they can better simulate the girls around you in real life. Do this a couple of times and you'll feel more confident with girls and won't feel like a loser.

So don't just focus on getting SOGs with sps, focus on learning the mating dance ritual instead. If you don't you're still gonna have problems getting girls to fuck you for free. At your age you shouldn't have problems meeting girls.

Now go get them and good luck.
 
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JH Fan

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I'm so used to talking with old pervs...

' may you let your inner dragon.. Suck on the blood of chickens, until the egg is left without yolk'

Yeah it shows man ! WTF is that ? :)
"Laisse le dragon en toi sucer le sang des poulet jusqu'a c'que l'oeuf n'aye pu de noyau ?" Grrrr fffttt Bwouahahaha !!! F*king hilarious ! :)

Sh*t ! you just gave me the best laugh of the week !!!
Keep it up !

Sh*t I'll learn this one by heart and throw it at the next wedding I go !
 

Muncus

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Wow, I'm so impressed with the responses. I was scared to get laughed at or trolled, but you guys are really kind and understanding. As for my luck with girls, I'm not an ogre, nor am I a shy mess, it's just due to my introverted nature, I never hung around girls that much. I've made out with a couple, but that's it. After reading all your constructive posts, I've come to a preference: girlfriend experience, girl next door type(sweet and gentle), blonde preferably, around my age(20), and like the guy said above, an independent girl(own website sort of) who is in no hurry and will take care of me. pretty is a must and English would be good, I'm willing to go up to 500 maybe more for a good 2-3 hour experience. (in Montreal)

Any suggestions? (you can pm me) Thanks a lot guys, means a lot to me.
 
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Bud Fox

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Don't do a 2-3 hour session with the same sp, see 3 different sps instead.

If you're only looking for a sp to take care of your sexual needs then you're still gonna go back to sex with yourself afterwards.

Like you said yourself and read my previous post, if your problem with girls is because you're introverted, than seeing different sps for 1hy each will allow you to practice more interacting with girls. Social skills are what you need. Learn to chat them up, to flirt....And you don't have to see independents, reputable agency girls are fine, too. Just don't blow all your money on the same girl. See a bunch of them.

Your goal to seeing sps shouldn't be for an instant gratification and a temporary substitute for a gf. Your goal should be to learn and to practice the necessary social skills with sps so that it'll help you get laid for free in the future.

Better yet, ask them to role play, pretend you guys meet in the dorm hallways, library, classroom, cafeteria, etc.....And chat them up, flirt with them, ask them to have a soda with you, go back to your room, etc.....They're gonna say yes. Or ask them to shoot you down at first and you practice being persistent and thick skined. You'll get more used to do this and build some confidence, and hopefully can transfer the skills on girls in real life.

Again, this is very important, if you don't learn and only look for a sp to take care of your sexual needs then you're still gonna lead a life of wanking yourself.

You're only 20! You shouldn't be looking for the same things in this hobby as older Merbites! We're too fucking old to get 20 yr old girls to fuck us for free. God I wish I was 20 again.
 

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Post #3 is a great advice.
Treat sessions with sps as a practice in a controlled environment where you will and should practice many aspect of the game, from greetings, making small talks, foreplay and to bed.......
Now go get them and good luck.

Good point. Before going "big game hunting", you may want to practice at the "target range". You get better control of your "gun" and practice with real hot targets. When you get to the jungle, no lioness, tigress or elephant (if you like them...) will scare you. Confidence in the human jungle is an asset.

Sorry for the childish illustration, but the metaphor works quite nicely!
 
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