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    Question Back to hobbying

    Hi all,

    Wanted to just share my experience with hobbyists. I abandonned these activities back in 2006, cause my wife almost caught me. I posted under the name CryWolf back then.

    When the shit hit the fan, I swore to myself NEVER touch this forbidden fruit again.

    After 4 years, I couldn't resist the temptation and I'm meeting an SP tomorrow.

    Any thoughts on that?

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    That's the problem, i have no regrets. I know i'm a pig but i can' resist this urge.

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    Roland i guess you are single?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roland View Post
    No.
    Been there done that...
    And you have the balls to givie me crap

    Anyways, since the cavemen, we men will always have wandering eyes and foreever be womanizers as our friends Tony Parker, Woods, Favre, etc...

    Not looking for excuses but that's a fact

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roland View Post
    You will sort it out.
    Gotta go b4 my fan club gets here. ;-)
    El Nino, far be it from me to offer you advice here. That you'll have to sort out for yourself.

    With regard to the item I've quoted, I think you can ascertain from his own words the kind of respect, or lack thereof, that Roland has earned in these parts.
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by El nino View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Roland View Post
    Yer a dumbass !

    Roland
    Quote Originally Posted by Roland View Post
    No.
    Been there done that...
    And you have the balls to givie me crap
    El Nino,

    You just experienced the FUll scope of that which is Roland. There's nothing more.

    If you don't know already, he's a non-hobbyist (so he claims, but very questionable) who rages against exploiting women, while helping run, direct, and promote members attempting to exceed each other in enjoying their indulgences of male superiority over women on the blue board. "Dumbass", is the depth of his mind and class...conscienceless hypocrisy included.

    OOOPS! That wasn't quite fair. He does have the word "boobies" in his vocabulary. That makes 2.

    Quote Originally Posted by El nino View Post
    That's the problem, i have no regrets. I know i'm a pig but i can' resist this urge.
    Half the guys here seem to be married. You are just part of a very common element in this hobby.

    Fan club,

    Merlot
    Last edited by Merlot; 12-17-2010 at 10:21 AM.

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    Thanks for the heads up merlot, he's just a lurker and ballbuster. Now i know who is his fan club.

    It's tough to eat and dine at the same table for years, i need to taste other meals to get my juice flowing.

    To tell you the truth, i'm not excited by wifey anymore, she' just the mother of my kids.

    She's good in thr sack though.

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    After 4 years, I couldn't resist the temptation and I'm meeting an SP tomorrow. Any thoughts on that?
    As long as you don't bring a disease home to her, and you don't mind if she cheats on you (since she's probably equally bored), I guess there's no harm - other than breaking her trust. But what's that worth?

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    I was part of a long discussion on Terb about this some time ago. I admitted to having an affair during my first marriage... It was emotional, went on for years and ultimately destroyed my marriage. I have since remarried... to the woman who was my mistress. I am very happily married and we have a great life together... We share everything, including your very own Roxanne!

    In spite of all of this, I still hobby. It doesn't affect my marriage at all. Seeing an SP is (for me) just a physical thing. There is no emotional attachment, although I have become friends with some of the girls I've see over the years. I used to be full of guilt over this, but eventually accepted that that's just the way I am. If I wasn't seeing SPs, then I would probably be out chasing other women. In my warped way of looking at things, I see SPs as helping me stay loyal to my wife. My job is flexible so I can see ladies during "business hours", and money isn't an issue. I am extremely careful about STIs etc.

    In spite of my great marriage, the sex isn't nearly as frequent as it once was. She works far too hard and is exhausted when she gets home. Rather than fight over this, I just find it elsewhere.

    Ya, I know, it's fucked logic.
    Last edited by Stoo; 12-16-2010 at 11:14 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stoo View Post
    I was part of a long discussion on Terb about this some time ago. I admitted to having an affair during my first marriage... It was emotional, went on for years and ultimately destroyed my marriage. I have since remarried... to the woman who was my mistress. I am very happily married and we have a great life together... We share everything, including your very own Roxanne!

    In spite of all of this, I still hobby. It doesn't affect my marriage at all. Seeing an SP is
    In spite of my great marriage, the sex isn't nearly as frequent as it once was. She works far too hard and is exhausted when she gets home. Rather than fight over this, I just find it elsewhere.

    Ya, I know, it's fucked logic.
    I don't think this is fucked logic. Very true excpet I fall in love with nearly every Montreal SP I see. However, it is only a momentary imaginary type of love that i can get over very quickly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by El nino View Post
    Hi all,

    .

    After 4 years, I couldn't resist the temptation and I'm meeting an SP tomorrow.

    Any thoughts on that?
    Weren't you the guy who posted on here that your wife went through the computer history and found out about it? Or I am mistaking you with the million other guys who get caught with their pants down (or off)?
    I don't look at MERB or SP sites from any computer that is used by anyone other than myself...that includes the computers at work and the computer at my GF's house. I can't imagine why anyone would for a moment think they could do that without eventually screwing up and getting caught.
    As for hobbying again, I have been an in-and-outer (so to speak) for years. Currently in, thinking of taking another break. Good luck. Do what your heart tells you, and for God's sake don't feel guilty about where your cock goes. There's enough other stuff in this life to feel bad about.

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    Cool It wasn't me

    Quote Originally Posted by Merlot View Post
    Half the guys here seem to be married. You are just part of a very common element in this hobby.
    are u kidding?
    ... it's way more than 50% ...
    would say more like.... 80+%
    lolll
    ...
    But she caught me on the counter (It wasn't me)
    Saw me bangin' on the sofa (It wasn't me)
    I even had her in the shower (It wasn't me)
    She even caught me on camera (It wasn't me)
    ...

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    Hey

    Welcome back . . . you know if you think about it . . . . maybe you never really left.

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    Thank god she doesn't know about about merb.

    As far as the encounter, i got a girl that was really into it at the get go. Very responsive to my digit and oral stimulation. Mpos and msog.

    That was a guilty pleasure.

    In an another thread, i'll talk about online sex i had with a US lady, u wouldn't believe hiw it started.

    I'm definitely having a midlife crisis again and i'll have to be careful so as not to be overcome by it.

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