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    worried and paranoid - first time with sp

    So I went to see my first sp the yesterday. She is well reviewed here on MERB and I got a CBJ with a quick doggy everything SAFE. I just wanted a CBJ but got carried away. But Now I'm worried and will definitely going to get tested.

    I just wanted to ask, what are the chances I might have caught something. I feel fine, no rashes, itches, fine urinary track, no pimples, nothing - plus she's well reviewed here which I'm sure she wouldn't be if she was a walking STD.

    Am I been too paranoid and worried? Everything was safe and I do feel fine, the condom did not break for sure - i checked - I cleaned up at her place and again as soon as I got home - I just hope nothing has been caught - what do you guys think?

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    10% chance you will catch a cold - that’s the worst I've picked up.
    Unless you have immune system issues you shouldn't have to worry.
    Most girls are more worried about cleanliness and hygiene than you are (well maybe not more than you).

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    You shouldn`t get too worried, as you get more mileage hobbying your concerns will slowly go away and you`ll enjoy the company of an SP more, instead of just worrying.

    I use to worry when I first started hobbying and always asked for CBJ. But as my worries went away so did the CBJ and then it was just . The feeling is just so much better. The last time I worried was probably when I rimmed an SP for the first time. She offered it to me and I didn`t think twice so I didn`t have time to worry.

    You just have to realize that nobody is immune to anything. One of the risk of hobbying is catching something and you just have to deal with it whenever it pops up. Don`t be nieve to think you will never catch anything.

    Lucky for me I never caught anything, or nothing that I know of.
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    So who was it?
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    Am I been too paranoid and worried?
    Yes, you are too paranoid and worried. If you get yourself tested after every encounter, you're going to go broke and drive yourself mad. Everything you did was rubberized, so what's the concern? No symptoms = no cause for concern. Keep using condoms for everything and you should be fine. Jellydo is on the mark in writing that the worst you'll probably get is a cold, which reminds me of a time a SP e-mailed me two weeks after an encounter and mentioned to me that she had been hospitalized with the swine flu. This was a bit disconcerting, given the fact that we had swapped spit. I never got it, though.

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    Wellllll .... Lol,
    I'm glad to see that after a full years worth of questions.., that you finally took the plunge, and popped your John cherry.
    Can I know who the lady is..?
    And was your buddy illiterati there ..? ( for support )
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    Quote Originally Posted by oldgame_newplayer View Post
    So I went to see my first sp the yesterday. She is well reviewed here on MERB and I got a CBJ with a quick doggy everything SAFE. I just wanted a CBJ but got carried away. But Now I`m worried and will definitely going to get tested.

    I just wanted to ask, what are the chances I might have caught something. I feel fine, no rashes, itches, fine urinary track, no pimples, nothing - plus she`s well reviewed here which I`m sure she wouldn`t be if she was a walking STD.

    Am I been too paranoid and worried? Everything was safe and I do feel fine, the condom did not break for sure - i checked - I cleaned up at her place and again as soon as I got home - I just hope nothing has been caught - what do you guys think?
    If ``everything was safe`` how did you get carried away? Do you mean or BBFS?

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    Was illiterati there ?
    And what does illiterati think of all this ?
    Thanks
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    Quote Originally Posted by Turbodick View Post
    If ``everything was safe`` how did you get carried away? Do you mean or BBFS?
    I had the same confusion trying to sort out the true meaning of this post. Either the guy got ``carried away`` and had BBFS a la Orallover (in fact, if I recall correctly, ``I got carried away`` may have been the language used by OL, I will need to go back to the BBFS thread and check) or he is extremely paranoid over nothing, and probably should stick to a lifetime of masturbating with surgical gloves while breathing purified air in an oxygen tent safely located in an underground bomb shelter.

    There are lately an enormous number of cryptic posts and frankly someone who wants real advice should put up a real post that sufficiently explains exactly what is under discussion. Otherwise, the Mods should delete such posts as useless bullshit posted in violation against the board rule of posting bullshit. These kinds of posts lead to endless speculation about the behavior under discussion and unless there is clarification the discussion is pointless and worthy of deletion by the Mods. The OP can then put up a sufficiently clear post if he wishes.

    We have also seen these kinds of cryptic posts put up as the beginning of an effort to discredit a particular SP or agency. Too much detail leads to refutation rather than negative speculation which defeats the agenda of the OP. These posts should and have been deleted for the same reason. In fact, I seem to recall the Mods posting a warning the last time a thread like this was put up. Here is what Mod 8 wrote:

    ``I suggest that if you are so worried about contracting HIV or any other STD that you have a long talk with a health professional or simply leave the hobby. Any more threads started by you on this topic will lead to a long suspension.

    Mod 8``

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...indy-vs-agency

    The OP should clarify his post or perhaps take the advice of Mod 8.
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    My sense of his post is that all he wanted was a CBJ and got carried away and had covered FS. Go figure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by oldgame_newplayer View Post
    ... I just wanted a CBJ but got carried away...
    Quote Originally Posted by Turbodick View Post
    If ``everything was safe`` how did you get carried away? Do you mean or BBFS?
    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver View Post
    I had the same confusion trying to sort out the true meaning of this post. Either the guy got ``carried away`` and had BBFS a la Orallover (in fact, if I recall correctly, ``I got carried away`` may have been the language used...
    Quote Originally Posted by rumpleforeskiin View Post
    My sense of his post is that all he wanted was a CBJ and got carried away and had covered FS. Go figure.
    Most of us have been getting carried away for years, and we will continue to be carried away. Perhaps the paranoia and worry are more of a result of a guilty conscience. I`m not a psychologist but I did see one on television once.

    Quote Originally Posted by Aeolus View Post
    Yes, you are too paranoid and worried....Jellydo is on the mark in writing that the worst you`ll probably get is a cold, which reminds me of a time a SP e-mailed me two weeks after an encounter and mentioned to me that she had been hospitalized with the swine flu. This was a bit disconcerting, given the fact that we had swapped spit. I never got it, though.
    I might add that if you do get a cold, then take a lot vitimin C, drink plenty of liquids, get a lot of rest, take echinacea, and you will be over it in about a week. Or you can do nothing but blow your nose and you will be over it in about a week.

    I got the swine flu once (not from an SP, i think) and all it did was reshape my weiner into a corkscrew and give me the desire to screw in a mudpuddle.

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    FWIW & just an observation

    oldgame_newplayer was worried enough to start this thread looking for opinions/advice/suggestions, yet not interested enough to bother checking to see if any help was offered...
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    I did check the post and most of the advice/opinions/suggestions are that I did not/cannot catch anything.

    This site put my mind at ease;
    About your concern, here is an interesting link for you:
    http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq...i-risks-chart/

    I feel fine, I did get a cold with a soar throat but I doubt its from her though... as I said still no pimples, no weird looking stuff, my john looks perfect, no rash, small itch on my stomach yesterday but doubt thats anything to be concerned about. I have been showering a little more than usual cuz I still feel dirty from seeing an SP.

    When asking about getting carried away it was in the sense that I only intended to get a cbj and went fs WITH a condom on.

    So my question still stands; what can be caught? Is an itch with some redness on my stomach and a small cold with a soar throat anything to worry about? I know I was being paranoid now I'm not as bad but still want to be safe

    As for welcoming me to the hobby, don't, I doubt I will EVER go back to see an SP again, meaning as in NEVER. I did not enjoy it at all. I didn't have a sense of satisfaction, no chase, no fun, no seduction, much prefer meeting girls on my own. Plus my concern of catching anything topped it all off with an SP just knowing as a 100% fact she just finished sleeping with someone. I'm too young for this hobby and love seducing women/girls, having the guarente takes away from the experience and sense of satisfaction IMO.

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    I have been showering a little more than usual cuz I still feel dirty from seeing an SP.
    You are psychologically not suited for the hobby. Exit stage left. Thanks for auditioning.

    Plus my concern of catching anything topped it all off with an SP just knowing as a 100% fact she just finished sleeping with someone.
    Any woman can be a carrier of disease, SP or not. According to researchers, college girls have more STDs than escorts. So, good luck avoiding something if you troll in bars and clubs. And you'll never know if your GF was once a SP or just an ordinary slut who didn't know the value of her pussy. You can't even go by someone's looks because you can pick a butt ugly woman thinking she's safe, and yet she's seen more dick than a Grand Central Station urinal on account of the fact that many guys have no standards.

    So my question still stands; what can be caught?
    Well, with your bare balls slapping-up against her nether region, herpes and genital warts come to mind.

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    I wonder what illiterati thinks of all this.
    ... I don't know man.. After reading all your posts, your slow introduction to the world of sin by way of massage parlours.. Seemed to excite you.
    You even have a friend ( illiterati ) that you would surf merb with .. Looking at other guys experiences.
    This in itself baffles me.. I wish I could invite some merbites over to my condo.. So we can drink beer, and 'group post' on merb .. Lmfao
    anyways.. All this until you actually go past a hj, or cbj.. And all of a sudden your freaked out about the whole ordeal.
    You should of just consulted with illiterati before the rest of us.
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