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    Asking a MP provider to be a sex friend

    hey everyone

    Typically, I don't have any interest after I get the massage + options with an MP but I am hooked on a particular one.

    Now, I don't want to ask her out in a relationship, I just want to have sex with her, like a fuckfriend.

    Anyone have experience asking an MP about that? What's the best approach?

    I have seen her once already but we bonded. I want to put the question out there to her.

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    Coming from a member with 7yrs on MERB and 500+ posts, your question is a bit puzzling.
    You have seen a particular MP once and want to ask her to have sex with you, as a fuckfriend (for free??).

    You DO understand that the typical MP is in it to make money? You've seen a lot, so you know. She gave you a good service because you paid her to do it. She might have been a great person, friendly, caring and affectionate but bottom-line she was there for the income.

    That being said, from my point of view, the notion of "fuckfriend" does imply the "friend" part (versus the "one-night-stand" variety). Unless you establish the "friend" part, forget about the free sex. If you really want to try the "friend" angle, ask her out for coffee or something. But, realistically, prepare to be disappointed.

    No-strings attached sex is more like what you would get from an escort.
    So, ask her if she escorts and offer her $$$ to have sex with you.
    If she says no, call a real escort...

    Good luck my friend!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reppy View Post
    hey everyone

    Typically, I don't have any interest after I get the massage + options with an MP but I am hooked on a particular one.

    Now, I don't want to ask her out in a relationship, I just want to have sex with her, like a fuckfriend.

    Anyone have experience asking an MP about that? What's the best approach?

    I have seen her once already but we bonded. I want to put the question out there to her.
    Well, good luck to you. Having "been there and done that" with a fair number of ladies. IMHO.......you're chances are less than good. I won't put a number on that (percentage) but bottom line is "their making money offering sex with their bodies".

    I did luck out twice having them as Fuck Friends but that won't last for long. Even made short porn flick with one, we were chemically matched and the sex was just so raw.We could have even made a full flick and made $$$...thats how great we were together.

    They spend a lot of time and energy fucking for dollars so it's really a large part of their life that they don't lack in. How often and how many encounters would they have before getting bored shit with sex? They really don't need a fuck friend on the side. Maybe as a friend with no sexual commitment will work....maybe. Because even that will be tough, they are always offered something better than you can offer and the temptation will always be there as long as they work in this field.

    Good Luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sigma69 View Post
    Coming from a member with 7yrs on MERB and 500+ posts, your question is a bit puzzling.
    You have seen a particular MP once and want to ask her to have sex with you, as a fuckfriend (for free??).

    You DO understand that the typical MP is in it to make money? You've seen a lot, so you know. She gave you a good service because you paid her to do it. She might have been a great person, friendly, caring and affectionate but bottom-line she was there for the income.

    That being said, from my point of view, the notion of "fuckfriend" does imply the "friend" part (versus the "one-night-stand" variety). Unless you establish the "friend" part, forget about the free sex. If you really want to try the "friend" angle, ask her out for coffee or something. But, realistically, prepare to be disappointed.

    No-strings attached sex is more like what you would get from an escort.
    So, ask her if she escorts and offer her $$$ to have sex with you.
    If she says no, call a real escort...

    Good luck my friend!
    I agree she's in it for the money and she's already getting all the sex she needs and getting paid to do it.So either find another fuck friend or keep going with escorts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reppy View Post
    Now, I don't want to ask her out in a relationship, I just want to have sex with her, like a fuckfriend.
    I have become "friends" not fuckfriends with several MPs. You have to realize that work and personal life is very different to them. How they act towards you at work may be very different than outside of work. Sex is not what they are usually looking for, unless she really has a soft spot for you. They do however need someone to talk too and do activities as friends. Very often their work is hidden to others and having someone who knows what they do so they can talk with them openly is great for them. I usually stop seeing them at work if we become friends. So I think that your chances of this working out are slim at best, you can ask but be prepared for the answer. Good luck

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    I agree with most of what the responding posters have said: the girl may like sex a lot, and she may like you a lot as well. But: you met her in a sex-for-money context, and its' not like she is hurting for sex currently .

    I have made "friends" with some of the girls to varying degrees of success: spending time at my place or out on the town, talking about things they don't have other people to talk about with, etc. A retired agency escort who became my friend told me: "you are the only client I would like to keep after", and she only charged me what the agency was paying her. Believe me when I say I made sure to treat her extra-nice. A couple of times, some asked for my professional expertise and hopped in the sack with me for free after to say thanks (I had not asked). But even then, it was understood this was an exchange of services.

    One of the friendships I enjoyed the most was years ago, before web-based advertising: my lady friend at the time would come to my place a few times a week and wait with me for calls to come in while we'd socialize. If I felt horny, all I had to to was ask, and the "clock $" would start ticking.

    If you are nice, non-judgmental and easygoing, its' relatively easy to befriend ladies in the business, they are just like anyone else.

    The bottom line is that like with any professional, friendship is possible, but business is business. Mix in the very personal aspects of sex, sense of self-worth and the way you initially met, it makes for very careful going. Of course, if the lady begs for you to stop paying, that is another thing altogether. But it is my belief it should always come from her.
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    After reading all this and taking time to warp back to life, you are all right. I let the emotions take over my brains.

    Thanks again!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reppy View Post
    I have seen her once already but we bonded.
    I've heard this one from hundreds of guys over the years.

    The best sps are the ones that make you believe you've BONDED with them. That's how they manage to get people to see them again. Regulars.

    Don't be surprised if she stops seeing you the moment you pop the question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    I've heard this one from hundreds of guys over the years.

    The best sps are the ones that make you believe you've BONDED with them. That's how they manage to get people to see them again. Regulars.

    Don't be surprised if she stops seeing you the moment you pop the question.

    That is so true!

    But it's so hard at times not to mix fantasy with reality!
    "Just When I Thought I Was Out.....They Pull Me Back In!!!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    I've heard this one from hundreds of guys over the years.

    The best sps are the ones that make you believe you've BONDED with them. That's how they manage to get people to see them again. Regulars.

    Don't be surprised if she stops seeing you the moment you pop the question.
    That's the game that they can play. There's another name for SP's. That's hookers. It's the psychological game which SP's play that makes you believe that you may be the different one. Although there's no definitive orgin of the name, here are some possibilities:

    1. Is Colear's Hook in New York, where there were lots of incall houses where sailors went.
    2. There was Gen. Hooker of the Civil War, who had a lot of ladies but it probably not where the term originated.
    3. There is some evidence to suggest that it really comes from a much older British low slang term for a specialist thief who snatches items using a hook. In 1592, in a book on low-life called The Art of Conny Catching (conny or cony, the old word for a rabbit, was then a cant term for a mark or sucker), Robert Greene says that such thieves, “pull out of a window any loose linen cloth, apparel, or else any other household stuff”. The implication is that the hooker catches her clients by similar, albeit less tangible, methods.

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    If a SP or MP wants to be friends, she asks you. You can not ask her. Has she suggested an outing somewhere?

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    Point three seems unlikely to me. Traditionally the Brits didn't use the term hooker for a prostitute. It's very American. Most Brits would understand a hooker to be the guy right in the middle of the Rugby Football scrum. I always assumed the term came from the way a SP hooked her clients like a fisherman catches fish. Dangle the bait, hook the fish and reel him in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by daydreamer41 View Post
    That's the game that they can play. There's another name for SP's. That's hookers. It's the psychological game which SP's play that makes you believe that you may be the different one. Although there's no definitive orgin of the name, here are some possibilities:

    1. Is Colear's Hook in New York, where there were lots of incall houses where sailors went.
    2. There was Gen. Hooker of the Civil War, who had a lot of ladies but it probably not where the term originated.
    3. There is some evidence to suggest that it really comes from a much older British low slang term for a specialist thief who snatches items using a hook. In 1592, in a book on low-life called The Art of Conny Catching (conny or cony, the old word for a rabbit, was then a cant term for a mark or sucker), Robert Greene says that such thieves, “pull out of a window any loose linen cloth, apparel, or else any other household stuff”. The implication is that the hooker catches her clients by similar, albeit less tangible, methods.

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    consider both point of view :
    for you, sex is a pleasure
    for her, it's a job

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    Quote Originally Posted by eyme View Post
    consider both point of view :
    for you, sex is a pleasure
    for her, it's a job
    And may I add that she gets to jerk off thousands of customers a year and her income is affected on how well she makes her clients feel about their time with her.
    Barmaids, strippers, Sp's, and MP's are in the business to make you feel happy while you are spending your money on them. Enjoy the experience and the moments of pleasure that they provide for a fee.
    Many a poor soul had been emotionally hurt by the pain of a "Reality Check".

    Good luck with your hobbing.

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    my 2 cents- i agree with most of the responses. i think many of us have learned the hard way that you should avoid getting too emotionally entangled with your favorite mp/sps. enjoy the moment and the variety. focusing too much on one mp/sp may not be the best thing in the long run.

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