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The Sad Truth: Some Escorts Think We're Losers!

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I got this impression from an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying for something other guys get for free. She even told me I shouldn't be calling escorts because I could probably get pussy for free.

Of course not all escorts have the same opinion. But it is good insight into what a younger SP thinks of us and she probably isn't the only one that thinks this way.
 
Nothing new here..you should have known this.

Do SPs know what ordinary women think of them....? that their the lowest form of female decency on earth. That no matter what, "SPs have no excuse for not earning their money like ordinary women do."
Maybe, this was her way of deflecting her own guilt for having to sell her self, by focusing it on you or us as a negative comment! Where would she be without us? The good looking ones and not so good looking! She relies on our money doesn't she?

What a coincidence had this discussion with my ex today...she was listening to my conversation with a very close friend & SP. Thats her quote above and she sticks to her opinion, which I respect....but don't fully agree with.

I hide nothing and have nothing to hide...enough said on this subject!
 
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I got this impression from an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying for something other guys get for free. She even told me I shouldn't be calling escorts because I could probably get pussy for free.

Of course not all escorts have the same opinion. But it is good insight into what a younger SP thinks of us and she probably isn't the only one that thinks this way.

Ask her to spend the night with you ---- for free. See what she says.

Women give pussy away for a price whether you pay by the hour, or you pay a divorce lawyer after you have been married to her for 20 years.
 

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Having sex is not necessarily the same thing as making love. I would be disturbed if my GF thought I was a loser. If an escort doesn't understand that sometimes even very attractive men hire them to have sex without effort or a relationship or for variety, that reflects on her, not us.

I have had negative thoughts about some SPs also.
With an unattractive one or one with questionable hygiene: When I was younger, I wouldn't have touched this SP for free.
With snotty one: I didn't and don't have to do anything I find distasteful to make more than her.
 
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I got this impression from an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying for something other guys get for free. She even told me I shouldn't be calling escorts because I could probably get pussy for free.

Of course not all escorts have the same opinion. But it is good insight into what a younger SP thinks of us and she probably isn't the only one that thinks this way.

I am still trying to figure out what possible purpose such a backhanded compliment (comment?) between an escort and client serve. Seems a bit mean spirited to me. Sure doesn't make for keeping a positive attitude or even a good sales pitch.
 

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Very true, Don.

I got the same impression as well. If the client is rather young and good looking, they think these guys shouldn't be paying for it and it's strange that they are(imo sps should thank these guys for making their work more tolerable). As for the rest of clients, yeah sps think they're losers.
 
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Next time TheDon... just smile at her and ask if she buys bottled water !
Then.. tell her that you're not paying for sex but for the privilege of not having to hear about her complaints of the day :)

I know me, when I'm in no mood for hearing about her whimps it's "Bing-bang-thank-you-mam" !

I either get free or pay for water, tv, music, movies, internet, medical advice, food, tranquility, massages, etc. the list goes on...
 
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Next time TheDon... just smile at her and ask if she buys bottled water !
Then.. tell her that you're not paying for sex but for the privilege of not having to hear about her complaints of the day :)

I know me, when I'm in no mood for hearing about her whimps it's "Bing-bang-thank-you-mam" !

Like water, music, movies, medical advice, food, tranquility, massages, etc.

I got a better idea.....give it to them real good, maybe then their opinion of you/us might change, it works for me! Some enjoy what they do & what I do to them! I always get my moneys worth and leave a lasting impression!
 

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Very true, Don.

I got the same impression as well. If the client is rather young and good looking, they think these guys shouldn't be paying for it and it's strange that they are(imo sps should thank these guys for making their work more tolerable). As for the rest of clients, yeah sps think they're losers.

How many loser guys do these girls date. I can't tell you how many times a SP would complain about her last loser boyfriend, how screwed up he was. This whole game is not all about looks. A guy can be good looking and treats women like dirt.

I think she thought Don was attractive and she thinks he could pick up some young woman like her without paying for it. These girls have customers who are from their late 20s to their 70s. One SP told me that the oldest one she was with was in his 90's. I asked her how she coped with it and she said that imagined that he was younger, but not that younger like herself. She said she blocks the reality out of her head. Everyone ages. No one in their 40s or 50s is what they were when they were in their 20's.
 

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On the whole I think escorts concentrate on how great we are, even desperately, they look for any redeeming quality they can in that hour and once they leave we are effectively forgotten. I don't think they think we're losers because they don't have time to or even want to think that way.
 

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I got this impression from an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying for something other guys get for free. She even told me I shouldn't be calling escorts because I could probably get pussy for free...

Please, oh please PM me the SP's name + agency. I wanna meet HER!
Nothing better than a contraversial debate to get the temp up before + after service.
Life is sooooo very simple when ur 18Y! :cool:
 

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That's soooo you E! Go for it! :D
I will as soon as TheDon flips me the SP's coordinates... I'm available, ready and waiting... operators are standing by. Seriously...

...an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying... Of course not all escorts have the same opinion. But it is good insight into what a younger SP thinks of us and she probably isn't the only one that thinks this way.
Of course when you're in that 18-25 age range... youre giving it away (and more) for free most of the time not to mention sex drive is like a V10 engine packed into Mini Cooper, excessive horse power + torque inside a body/chassis that is built to be pushed hard.

So for sure a young SP is gonna laugh at all the +27yo guys who call for service. Personally I don't care if they want to pity me... that works in my fav too.

The truth lies somewhere between:
"horny-guy-looking-to-get-some-but-'some'-doesn't-come-very-easily-these-days-for-a-variety-of-reasons"

AND

"I-need-'some'-without-my-wife-kids-knowing-nor-the-hassel-of-my-high-maintenance-gf-on-the-side-or-the-energy-to-reciprocate-with-my-FWB"
 

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They're banging numerous guys for money and are having loads shot in their mouth. The "loser" comment can go both ways.
 

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In this business, females want money, men want certain 'activities'...it's a great barter system IMHO.
Personally, i've also been told on several occasions over the years by my regular private SP's the same thing (pussy for free), but to be honest, i don't pay for 'activities', i pay them to leave.

For me personally, i've done the whole dating thing a million times over, and to be honest i've spent more loot on the gentlemanly courting (to get laid days to weeks later and sometimes not get laid) than I would with an SP. Plus all the headaches that come with it.

I go with SP's to avoid the headaches and to explore my intangible nylon fetish...
I've opened up to regular girlfriends about the nylon thing and they've always liked it, but I still had to be temperate and moderate about it. SP's have allowed me to go bonkers with it (stuff that I could never fathom doing to a gf).
 

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I'd agree that there are indeed some 'losers' among the 'johns' population, but there are losers everywhere. But there are many different reasons why some men decide one day to see an escort & continue to do so. The same goes with escorts. There are many different reasons why a young woman (and an older woman) one day decides to start selling her body for money. Some reasons are valid & understandable, others not. However, it's no one else's business since they're not the ones having to live with the consequences. The same goes for the 'johns'. It's their money, they can chose what they want to do with it, the reasons are not always the right ones, but it's no one else's business.

It's actually normal that a young escort who hasn't been in this business very long might be under the impression that most men seeing escorts are losers. After all, most of the men she's known in her short lifetime never paid another person for sex. But what they haven't learned yet is that it's not always about sex. They've also failed to learn that older men don't always have the time (with their busy schedules) to go out & socialize in order to meet someone & possibly get laid....for free. For many 'johns', calling an escort is a shortcut to getting sexual gratification. For others, it's a shortcut to get to meet someone of the opposite sex....someone new. It's a shortcut to intimacy. For others, it might simply be an easy & cheaper way (for some) to get laid. They ask themselves "why should i go out, spend a ton of $$ on someone, not even knowing for sure she'll come to my place at the end of the night? Why bother?"........so they grab the phone, and instead of calling for a pizza, they call an escort. It ain't that much different, right? Except this time, the pizza delivery girl is the one staying for an hour or so, not the pizza.

For many, a couple hundred bucks is nothing. For others, it is & that's why they have to follow a budget & 'hobby' with moderation in order to stay in the game & enjoy it. And finally, it's no big secret that many 'johns' are married men. Many of those 'johns' have been married for years & their sex life has been dead for years. They need to find that spark that will bring them sexual gratification....a human need....something that will bring them pleasure & happiness once again. Something that, believe it or not, might actually save their marriage & family life. So they decide to see an escort once in a while. Who could argue with that?

So to all who read this, the next time a young escort tells you that she considers that men who call escorts are losers, instead of reacting negatively to her comment, simply share your experiences & make her realize that there are dozens & dozens of reasons why men decide to see escorts. Who knows, she might change her mind after your discussion & she might even be more understanding.
 

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How many loser guys do these girls date. I can't tell you how many times a SP would complain about her last loser boyfriend, how screwed up he was. This whole game is not all about looks. A guy can be good looking and treats women like dirt.

We live in an image obsessed society. It is all about appearances. Unless you are not six foot with muscles the hot chicks have no interest and it does not matter if they treat them like crap. These women like these types of men. I hear it all the time. If you look ordinary the hot chicks will not be interested. Sad truth but that is the way things are. But I want the be clear not all of them are like this but the majority of the younger girls in their early 20's are like this and I am referring to the beautiful girls.
 

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I got this impression from an escort that considered guys that called escorts losers for paying for something other guys get for free. She even told me I shouldn't be calling escorts because I could probably get pussy for free.

Of course not all escorts have the same opinion. But it is good insight into what a younger SP thinks of us and she probably isn't the only one that thinks this way.

I cannot blame them for thinking like that. What is one supposed to think about men paying for sex? Most of their customers would have no chance with these hot young girls for sex or dating them. I doubt an attractive six foot stud with muscles would ever resort to escorts. He can go to a club and the girls would be chasing him. I have seen this often in clubs.

But let us look at it from the other side. What do we think of these women? Having sex with multiple men for money? Do we call them whores? They cannot go to school and get a real job? I lot of my group of friends who are not into stripclubs or escorts have no respect for these girls.

I may sound harsh but it is the truth. The moral of all of this is one should not judge if they do not wish to be judged. We all do what we got to do.
 
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