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    Cool Musings on costume and role play

    Well, I recently decided to try something new and had a costume role-playing date. I wrote a review of it here.

    When a new agency opened up with an emphasis on costumes and role-playing, I have to admit being somewhat of a skeptic, but a few things convinced me to give it a go:

    • I noticed that my current favorite girl looked really fetching in a maid’s costume, so I thought to myself that the worst that could happen was that it would end up like buying the girl some lingerie. Since I already liked that part, I figured there was no risk involved.
    • I have long noticed that of the two sexes, women are definitely the ones who get into role playing more. It would seem that assuming a different persona than their own frees them to do things they would not otherwise consider. If you want proof, just go to a Halloween party full of young women and tell me they are not at their randiest that night, in costume…
    • I may not have role-playing experience per se, but I have orchestrated a lot of duos. One of my fantasies in duos was to watch the girls have intercourse with a strap-on dildo. The first few times, I was always shy to ask, but also noticed that the girls almost invariably fought for “the man role”. I then realized that women much more than men, enjoy playing roles, breaking taboos and will try many more things than men, when it’s done in good fun.

    With this in mind, I booked my date. I have to say that the result surpassed my expectations by far. I booked for 2 hours, but only intended for the role-playing part to last 30 minutes. My date saw it another way and made sure we stayed “in character” the entire length of the date. We knew one another well, but I saw a whole new side: she seemed to use her role to push the envelope farther than ever before. We were still doing all the things we do together that I love, but she made sure to take me down new roads. It didn’t take me long to get her gist and I reciprocated, using my “character” to tell her frankly what I liked about her, what I liked doing with her, but like her, ask for and do things I never had the nerve to try.

    I found this whole experience exhilarating and liberating. I am not saying that I will change my hobby habits totally and only have costume-fantasy dates, but I certainly am not a skeptic anymore. What a rush!
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    Turn ons : Leather, nylons, sexy lingerie.

    Turn offs: Cheezy undies that have been through the wash too many times and have cotton pills.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sapman99 View Post
    Well, I recently decided to try something new and had a costume role-playing date......I found this whole experience exhilarating and liberating. I am not saying that I will change my hobby habits totally and only have costume-fantasy dates, but I certainly am not a skeptic anymore. What a rush!
    My ultimate sexual fantasy is to have sex with a girl dressed up as a mummy.

    What i can i say? I grew up watching old-time horror flicks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sapman99 View Post
    Well, I recently decided to try something new and had a costume role-playing date. I wrote a review of it here.

    When a new agency opened up with an emphasis on costumes and role-playing, I have to admit being somewhat of a skeptic, but a few things convinced me to give it a go:


    • I noticed that my current favorite girl looked really fetching in a maid’s costume, so I thought to myself that the worst that could happen was that it would end up like buying the girl some lingerie. Since I already liked that part, I figured there was no risk involved.
    • I have long noticed that of the two sexes, women are definitely the ones who get into role playing more. It would seem that assuming a different persona than their own frees them to do things they would not otherwise consider. If you want proof, just go to a Halloween party full of young women and tell me they are not at their randiest that night, in costume…
    • I may not have role-playing experience per se, but I have orchestrated a lot of duos. One of my fantasies in duos was to watch the girls have intercourse with a strap-on dildo. The first few times, I was always shy to ask, but also noticed that the girls almost invariably fought for “the man role”. I then realized that women much more than men, enjoy playing roles, breaking taboos and will try many more things than men, when it’s done in good fun.


    With this in mind, I booked my date. I have to say that the result surpassed my expectations by far. I booked for 2 hours, but only intended for the role-playing part to last 30 minutes. My date saw it another way and made sure we stayed “in character” the entire length of the date. We knew one another well, but I saw a whole new side: she seemed to use her role to push the envelope farther than ever before. We were still doing all the things we do together that I love, but she made sure to take me down new roads. It didn’t take me long to get her gist and I reciprocated, using my “character” to tell her frankly what I liked about her, what I liked doing with her, but like her, ask for and do things I never had the nerve to try.

    I found this whole experience exhilarating and liberating. I am not saying that I will change my hobby habits totally and only have costume-fantasy dates, but I certainly am not a skeptic anymore. What a rush!
    Very well said Sapman!! I really enjoyed your review of your "outside the box" encounter and am happy to see you had such a great time!

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    Yes it was good. Is there a place in downtown Montreal you can rent sexy costumes for roll play? Hell I would just settle for Stay up black fish net stockings and heals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    Yes it was good. Is there a place in downtown Montreal you can rent sexy costumes for roll play? Hell I would just settle for Stay up black fish net stockings and heals.
    Rent a costume? Who knows what the last person did in it!

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    Do not wear it if it has crusty patches or white stains on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blaupunkt View Post
    Rent a costume? Who knows what the last person did in it!
    LOL...I am hoping they launder them. I just have to say that I do like when girls dress up. A school girl in pig tails or a business woman wearing glasses with her hair pulled back like a librarian or a dominatrix. I once insisted that an escort in the southern US change into her black corset and black thigh high fish nets and stiletto heels. She would not do it until I showed up at the incall hotel and she had her sexy lingerie hidden away in a drawer. Once I proved I was not a cop she went in the backroom and put it on. She did not take off an article of clothing during the entire session. It was mind blowing Montreal type sex. she walked up to me with her hands on her hips and propped one stocking clad leg up on a chair by the bed and looked down her nose at me with a disgusted dominatrix look. I fell to my knees and crawled over to her and licked and kissed my way up her leg starting with her the bottom of her stiletto heel up to her thigh and finally to the promised land. I worshiped this sex goddess from bottom to top.

    Also, the Terma girls in Rio change into sexy lingerie prior to your session. They are dressed iin a sexy outfit in the bar and when you go to session with them they disappear to charge your key # and then they shower and reappear wearing different sexier lingerie. This is not exactly what Sapman is talking about but the point is that clothing makes the session more erotic and sensual and more exciting.

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    Nice Cloudy! but this version is much better

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    The new role play anthem is....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJE28_wTOps

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    LOL...I am hoping they launder them. I just have to say that I do like when girls dress up. A school girl in pig tails or a business woman wearing glasses with her hair pulled back like a librarian or a dominatrix. I once insisted that an escort in the southern US change into her black corset and black thigh high fish nets and stiletto heels. She would not do it until I showed up at the incall hotel and she had her sexy lingerie hidden away in a drawer. Once I proved I was not a cop she went in the backroom and put it on. She did not take off an article of clothing during the entire session. It was mind blowing Montreal type sex. she walked up to me with her hands on her hips and propped one stocking clad leg up on a chair by the bed and looked down her nose at me with a disgusted dominatrix look. I fell to my knees and crawled over to her and licked and kissed my way up her leg starting with her the bottom of her stiletto heel up to her thigh and finally to the promised land. I worshiped this sex goddess from bottom to top.
    Hello Hungry,

    I've never really considered any dominatrix meeting, but I have to say dressed sex has been a huge turn on. The first time with an SP was with one who was just in the mood to be very playful. She knelt on a chair, I pulled her jeans down to her knees, and away we went...ummmm. I tried role-playing way back in 2002 with an agency owner who changed into a French maid with only the apron straps covering her large beautiful breasts. But she took everything off during the sex. That was disappointing. Undressing before the fun begins eliminates the fantasy for me. Some favorites have stayed in role and costume as a schoolgirl, nurse, and some sort of kinky amazon right through the sex, and it's always a most incredibly stimulating performance. Working my hands into a blouse or under a skirt is just the right side of some kinky fun, and one SP said it made her experience intense to do it. There's nothing like it, especially when the lady is as into it as me. I am already checking into the next possibilities for another trip.

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