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    WTF! - Unblock your number and call me back. ( who is calling the shots here? )

    Again I have encountered another SP that insisted I call back with an unblocked number before she would accept an appointment. I called back with my number blocked, and I told her it was unblocked. She said she could no see my number, I told her too bad, maybe next time. I will not put up with crap like this. Would you?

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    Shoob, it's all about the girl's security. Some will also refuse calls from payphone and some will not even answer blocked calls so, you were in luck she picked up the phone.

    If she fall on a psycho who cause her trouble, she need to have a way to point whoever in the direction of the problem.

    Also, lots of idiots simply book fake appointments, wasting the girl's time and sometime money to go to meetings that the guy never planned to attend to. A phone number cuts down on this since not many jokers will buy a prepaid phone simply to do that.

    It's sad for us the girls have to proceed that way but, they are responsible for their own safety. All we can do is either accept that policy or not. Mentioning this is the girl's policy is ok but, complaining about it isn't doing any good: she set the rules, we accept or not, end of story.

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    I don't think this practice is unusual so I am not sure why you are complaining. Most indies do not deal with blocked numbers for security reasons. If you were in their shoes can you really blame them?
    Last edited by EagerBeaver; 05-13-2011 at 04:21 PM.

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    I do not see how an unblocked number can be any safer than a blocked number. Anyone can get a hobby phone.

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    Jack, a bit of safety is better than none.

    If the buy book with a hobby phone and never show-up, the girl will remember the phone number and it's unlikely the guy will get a new phone for each encounter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shooblegrueber View Post
    Again I have encountered another SP that insisted I call back with an unblocked number before she would accept an appointment. I called back with my number blocked, and I told her it was unblocked. She said she could no see my number, I told her too bad, maybe next time. I will not put up with crap like this. Would you?
    I wouldn't want to do business with someone who is obviously lying, would you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod 11 View Post
    Jack, a bit of safety is better than none.

    If the buy book with a hobby phone and never show-up, the girl will remember the phone number and it's unlikely the guy will get a new phone for each encounter.
    Exactly Mod 11 !!

    IMHO.....Why some SP's refuse to do business with men who call privet...

    -There are men who call your phone every single day, maybe multiple times a a day to ask for "information", have absolutely no intention on booking, to hear your voice, maybe jerk off, mostly just to waste your time... this includes payphones... Payphones you might as well be calling privet, same thing.

    -Some say security, because if anything happens to the lady, the last client number will be on her phone(way to "track" him)

    -Incalls- This is the WORST part of doing incalls.. Guys who call book an appointment, and instead of being a decent human being and calling to cancel, he just decides he's not showing up, Or he never had any intention on showing up in the first place. And sometimes these guys will do this to you over and over and over! Resulting in losing real business

    Calling unblocked is a way for the Sp to know that you are serious about meeting and not some jerk trying to mess around with her time. No SP wants to call you and harass you, or your family. We want men to know that we will take all precautions to avoid Jerks who have nothing better to do then harass us. Most SP's, If you would need to cancel(understandable things come up), just call and do that, you will be welcome to book at a later date.... Don't call to cancel.. and you betcha you will be black listed!
    Last edited by valarie_curves; 05-13-2011 at 09:51 PM. Reason: typo

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    Valerie I could not have express my feeling better!
    note to my friends :I always ask for a number but I no intention of ever calling you...
    it more as safety precaution and in case someone is late...it can be me loll

    and with what happen to me yesterday I will not accept again to meet someone who swear he doesnt have a cell phonef course in this case it is only another reason for me to refuse 35 years old guys:yes another one who booked and never showed up...I waited 15 min and emailed him but never got a return message or apology...
    I know whenever I refuse a younger guy I get accused of ageism(!) but my statistics do not lie: 8 out of 10 young guys are not keeping thier meeting and I am not talking about the ones who has the decency to cancel ,those are not blacklisted but just no-show no calls...as for the over 35 only ONCE in 2 years since I started this ..hum..hobby it happened that I waited for nothing...I am not much of a number person but I can do the math...Ah well..it takes a while but I do learn my lesson... loll
    Last edited by Lily from Montreal; 05-13-2011 at 12:09 PM.

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    by the way my dear shoeblegruber,I hate to burst your bubble but in this as in realife ladies call the shots...when you feel otherwise ...well sometime it is only that the velvet glove is so nice that you do not feel the iron one underneath...lolll

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    Serious callers will never be afraid of giving their phone number. For complicated situation,
    they will leave instructions to when to call if something occurs and the appointement
    can not be done.

    If afraid of doing so, I'm afraid it could not be serious at all, like some cases, without
    mentionning sneaky people calling just to pull out informations that is none of
    their business or other, many other vil reasons !

    If afraid of doing so, maybe you have took a bad shot to unserious escort business.

    Agencies or indy's don't have to pay for past bad choices.

    Who's calling the shot ? We are. If something bad happens, the shot will be called on us,
    us that as to be responsible for the sex workers and, like already mentionned above,
    for the independent, useful tracking.

    Better be safe then sorry.

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    Some people will use credit cards that have their names on it. I do not feel comfortable doing this. I have not encountered many SPs that insist on a unblocked number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shooblegrueber View Post
    I called back with my number blocked, and I told her it was unblocked. She said she could no see my number, I told her too bad, maybe next time.
    Was that a misspell?


    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver View Post
    Most indies do not deal with unblocked numbers for security reasons.
    That was obviously a misspell.

    >>> EDITED BY MOD 11: Brassage de merde effacé. Gugu, il est inutile et déplacé d'attaquer Athana, elle ne t'a rien fait, fout lui patience. Depuis qu'elle est revenue, il n'y a eu aucun problèmes et c'est suffisant pour nous. Elle as droit de participer aux conversations sans se faire sauter dessus. <<<
    Last edited by Mod 11; 05-13-2011 at 10:10 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gugu View Post
    That was obviously a misspell
    Please note that I edited my post to correct what was a typo, not a "misspell."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shooblegrueber View Post
    I will not put up with crap like this. Would you?
    It's pretty much standard practice from my experience and I understand the need from their point of view. I'm surprised she even answered, and considering your following attitude and behavior, she obviously shouldn't have bothered. She hasn't said hello and you're already difficult. Their working conditions can be hazardous so I don't see why you can't give them these bits of reassurances.

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    This is an international practice. Garotas in Brazil don't answer phones calls when they cannot identify the numbers or the caller.
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