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    Anyone receive at home?

    Hey guys,

    Just wanted to ask the board this. I have the house to myself for two weeks. Live in a private residence. Was thinking about receiving at home for a change... it has the appeal of less hassle than renting a hotel, but not quite sure if it's a good idea. Not so much the neighbors, but if things go bad... you know... you just can't leave.

    Anyway, does anyone have any experiences with this? Thought maybe the more experienced guys on the board might have some insight.

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    If you choose to do that, do it with a girl that you have met previously in a hotel or at least a reputable agency that you already dealt with before.
    If you risk it with a girl you never met, or an unknown agency that could be a bait and switch, yes you might have a few problems.
    Remember that these girls don't travel on their own, they're either acompanied by a driver or even a pimp, and if you refuse her services, you could have troubles with the guy.
    They know you are vulnerable, because you don,t want a commotion at your home.

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    Never shit where you eat.

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    I did but like stated above. Use a reputable agency or a girl you know to be safe.

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    Been doing that for years. Never once had even a little problem. You think SP's and drivers want a commotion? I mean they are prostitutes and pimps after all. Just avoid really iffy agencies/Indys and you'll be fine.

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    I did too. However, always with an agency well quoted on the board here - for example often with Eleganza. Never any problem.

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    There's already another thread dealing with the same subject.
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    Hello all,

    Quote Originally Posted by pokerpro View Post
    If you choose to do that, do it with a girl that you have met previously in a hotel or at least a reputable agency that you already dealt with before.
    If you risk it with a girl you never met, or an unknown agency that could be a bait and switch, yes you might have a few problems.
    Remember that these girls don`t travel on their own, they`re either acompanied by a driver or even a pimp, and if you refuse her services, you could have troubles with the guy.
    They know you are vulnerable, because you don,t want a commotion at your home.
    Pokerpro, concerning receiving escorts at home, a friend of mine in Montreal lives in a high rise apartment with other apartments all around the hall. He has had well over 400 encounters with escorts of every rate level there, most often from the most reliable agencies, and has never had an invasive problem with the ladies or anyone else.

    As a person, he is the type of guy who is picky about the figure type of the ladies he meets, but not too demanding about services. He likes DFK, Daty, , doesn`t want or care about any of the PSE stuff (CIM, creampie, swallow, greek, etc) and he`s a very gentle sort. He pays what is owed, gives a small tip when he is pleased with the lady, and when he is not pleased with the ladies performance he handles it with discretionary good sense giving notice, but avoiding creating unnecessary animosity. He has refused services once in a while, but there has never been an issue. In short, if one treats the situation as sensibly and rationally as possible without aggravating any possible disputes there should be no invasive problems.

    However, after a very long chat with a former agency driver last night it`s clear there are always risks because some percentage of the people you deal with will take advantage if they see the opportunity. Those opportunities usually involve clients, who in broad terms, try to get more out of the encounter or the client-escort relationship than is wise or should be reasonably expected. These clients don`t keep the situation straightforward and simple in the business sense, they get demanding and/or personal. On the other hand, as we know there are escorts, drivers, and owners, who one may encounter over time, who will try to exploit the client regardless of what the client does, no matter where the client receives them.

    In an isolated private home reception situation, with no apartment neighbors on the other side of the wall to possibly witness any trouble, you obviously would be more vulnerable to invasive issues...ie...various sorts of exploitation whether you handle everything sensibly or not. There are some extremely devious people on both sides of this hobby, including clients, but regarding client security it is probably more critical to be even more careful and make sure you are dealing with the most reputable agencies and clients in this kind of private home business. If one is sensible, risk will be greatly reduced. Don`t demand more than you have the right to expect, don`t get personally attached or involved, and settle any disputes in the most sensible way that avoids creating greater problems.

    Good luck,

    Merlot

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    Not EVERY SP has drivers and "Pimps"... Some independents do drive themselves. I have been to many upscale residential area's in the West island, Laval(North shore) and South shore. This is usually when discretion is crucial. Things that you need to consider is.... How nosy are your neighbors/what time of day are you calling? How is the lady dressed? What mode of transportation is she using, taxi,driver or driving herself? Is the money be "collected" by a driver?

    Nosy neighbors? If your dealing with an agency or indy with a driver, when booking tell them to make sure the driver does not stay parked in front of your house. I personally have parked 2-3 houses down. If your dealing with someone who does have the money "collected" before hand. If so, invite the driver in(doorway) to pay him so there will be ntransactionon on your front step. Hope this helps...

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    Quote Originally Posted by valarie_curves View Post
    Not EVERY SP has drivers and "Pimps"... Some independents do drive themselves. I have been to many upscale residential area's in the West island, Laval(North shore) and South shore. This is usually when discretion is crucial. Things that you need to consider is.... How nosy are your neighbors/what time of day are you calling? How is the lady dressed? What mode of transportation is she using, taxi,driver or driving herself? Is the money be "collected" by a driver?

    Nosy neighbors? If your dealing with an agency or indy with a driver, when booking tell them to make sure the driver does not stay parked in front of your house. I personally have parked 2-3 houses down. If your dealing with someone who does have the money "collected" before hand. If so, invite the driver in(doorway) to pay him so there will be ntransactionon on your front step. Hope this helps...
    Hello Valarie,

    Time of day and the habits of neighbors who may be out and around when a client may want a meeting are very important.

    I like the idea of Independents because of less people being involved, but keeping a car from being too familiar in the area would be something to consider.

    I would never pay a driver regardless, and I would absolutely never let any driver come to my door, much less open it to him, which I would make very clear to the agency to avoid if they want future business at all. Adding one more person than absolutely necessary to trust with direct contact is just increasing risks. One driver/agency owner came to my hotel room door and I refused to meet him. He was Tom the infamous owner of the First Time agency in 2002, and he was an addicted gambler, thief, and a blackmailer. You never know, and I think it's foolish to add to the risks by letting people into your own home unnecessarily.

    I'd keep the situation as contained as possible, especially involving a private home.

    Cheers,

    Merlot
    Last edited by Merlot; 08-03-2011 at 10:27 PM.

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    Back in 2007 someone I know generously offered to let me use his apartment in the Plateau over Memorial Day weekend. I saw 3 escorts that weekend, one of whom was later accused on this board of being an accomplice to the armed robbery of another hobbyist. This particular escort behaved very oddly, I thought at the time. She seemed unusually interested in the layout of the apartment. It was a ground level apartment and she somehow managed to locate a small hatch door, on the floor of what looked like a closet, that apparently led to a dark, unseen basement. I was previously unaware of the hatch and the basement, and had no desire to go down there. For some reason she wanted to go down there and see what it looked like. I had her for 2 hours, but eventually convinced her to forget that idea. After the story of the alleged setup/armed robbery came to light a year or two later, I always wondered whether her curiosity was something more than what it seemed.

    I am not so crazy about the idea of receiving in my own personal living space for these and other reasons. Of course, when I come to Montreal, I am almost always staying in hotels, so it is not really an issue for me.
    Last edited by EagerBeaver; 08-03-2011 at 01:37 PM.

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    Hello Merlot, I mentioned the "collecting" because I know some agencies insist on it... and many hobbyist oppose it..Your right, I didn't even consider someone taking something.

    Here's a funny story about a moron, of what not to do.. lol.I have been around as an independent for couple of years now. Always had the same name, obviously not hiding from anything. I have face pic's on my site. So consider myself as a reputable provider. I was in a house in verdun, when I arrived I asked him which way to the washroom. Geeze, he says to me, "just as long as you don't take anything". I looked at him like are you f*cking with me! Asked him what's his issue, he told me an SP stole is GF's ring from the bathroom. This nut ball fallowed me to the washroom at the beginning of the hour and at the end of the hour. And I swear he was hanging outside the door listening to me. Don't have valuables in the washroom! I have to just laugh when i think of it...

    Anonguy..Just like 10-4Roger said.. Just do it!.. So many things can go right. Make sure who ever you call understands that you need them to be discreet. And if It does go wrong, just ask her to leave. I HIGHLY dout she will refuse to leave.
    Last edited by valarie_curves; 08-04-2011 at 12:28 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by valarie_curves View Post
    Hello Merlot, I mentioned the "collecting" because I know some agencies insist on it... and many hobbyist oppose it..Your right, I didn't even consider someone taking something.
    No reputable agency that i have dealt with in montreal collects the money upfront. If a driver comes to the door to collect the money you are probably dealing with the wrong agencies. I would not let anyone come to the door and collect the money.

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    I never had a problem. I almost always receive at either my cottage in the west island or at my private condo near downtown Montreal. I only do outcalls, very rare do I go to see an incall chick. I have dealt with every kind of pimp in this city, from the major outcall agencies to the haitian pimps operating on annonce123, and many other kinds. If you look like Bill Gates and speak like Noam Chomsky then do yourself a favor and only deal with the major outcall agencies, otherwise u might get pimp slapped and robbed and this is no fucking joke. Some people just command respect and know how to deal with people from all walks of life, others just don't. Be smart folks, it's a cold world!
    Last edited by Lovemaker; 08-04-2011 at 09:21 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver View Post
    Back in 2007 someone I know generously offered to let me use his apartment in the Plateau over Memorial Day weekend. I saw 3 escorts that weekend, one of whom was later accused on this board of being an accomplice to the armed robbery of another hobbyist. This particular escort behaved very oddly, I thought at the time. She seemed unusually interested in the layout of the apartment. It was a ground level apartment and she somehow managed to locate a small hatch door, on the floor of what looked like a closet, that apparently led to a dark, unseen basement. I was previously unaware of the hatch and the basement, and had no desire to go down there. For some reason she wanted to go down there and see what it looked like. I had her for 2 hours, but eventually convinced her to forget that idea. After the story of the alleged setup/armed robbery came to light a year or two later, I always wondered whether her curiosity was something more than what it seemed.

    I am not so crazy about the idea of receiving in my own personal living space for these and other reasons. Of course, when I come to Montreal, I am almost always staying in hotels, so it is not really an issue for me.
    To quote from memory from the Ice-T song, I always wanted to be a ho.

    What if a john has long cash?
    Thats when I call the brothers with the black ski masks.

    Of course if you don't actually own anything, you live la vida monk, it isn't a problem. Ditto if you have your valuables in a room she will never enter.

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