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    has this ever happen to you

    hi all
    has this ever happen to you
    i was a at a club alittle while back .i'm a regular at the place and waiting to see my regular girl
    she was in the booth with another one of her regular
    after she left the booth and said her bye to him she came over and sit down with me
    i notice that the guy was stareing at her all the while she was sitting with me
    after a few minutes he came over and kiss her again
    she was going on stage
    he decide to sit and watch her
    after her show and she came back to me and again he was watching her
    we were on the way to the booth and he started blowing her kiss
    i wasn't to thrill about this
    how would you react to this?
    what should the girl have done
    i ask her and she told me
    he gave her money what am i suppose to do tell to get lost
    she said it is her job and that i should understand this
    it didn't make me feel good
    was i wrong to get upset
    like to know your opions
    thanks

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    Get over it, she's a working girl.

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    would you go over to a girl and say hello or bye when she sitting with another guy

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    Let the girl deal with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whitesoxs View Post
    after she left the booth and said her bye to him she came over and sit down with me
    i notice that the guy was stareing at her all the while she was sitting with me
    after a few minutes he came over and kiss her again
    Of course she is not your girl friend, so you have no reason to be jealous. However, it is disrespectful for him to try to kiss her when she is sitting with you and for her to permit it. I would have walked out and left them to fight about of the loss of her income from the anticipated dances with you.

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    My advice is to see escorts instead of going to strip clubs. You always get the lady's full attention
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    Emotions are emotions. Whether it is justified, in a particular situation, to feel one way or another is really irrelevant and subjective. The point is, you felt that way. You like this dancer, who you regularly see, and didn't like the fact some other guy was all over her, especially ON YOUR TIME! Could be a normal response. I think you have a right to be annoyed that this guy wasn't respecting that she was with you at the moment and to give you two your space. If i'm talking with a dancer and am paying her, I would hate another guy interrupting our time, unless he just wanted to quickly say, can I see you after, I'm sitting over there? To be upset, just from the fact that he was all over her, period, is a different story. Her job is one where she tries to get guys to fall for her, so they can give her money. The fact that some guy did and maybe got a little carried away, is part of the package. If you get upset that another guy is paying a lot of attention to this girl, then you will be upset all the time. If you were just upset, because he was kind of interrupting you two, then I think that is normal. It's like wait your turn buddy.

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    Generally speaking, women don't find men attractive at all who crave attention and who shower them with affection, blowing kissess etc like the guy you described. You can therefore dismiss the client and his gestures as insignificant to your regular. On the other hand, women also regard men who are jealous and argumentative as equally unattractive - it means that you're just as needy as that guy who craves attention. It's a safe bet this woman is totally turned off by you and others like the guy you describe.
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    thanks all
    i just not see her at the the we also talk on the phone and text each other
    i thing i didn't like was that he had just spent time with her in the booth
    he had already had say bye to her why did he have to say bye a few minutes later
    i am not upset that other guys pay attention but don't come over when she is with someone else

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    like she told me it is just about the money

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    I hear you. When I used to have regular dancers I saw, before I became a hardcore SP guy, It didn't bother me that they had to work with other guys. My rules were #1, When I was in the club, I expected preferrential treatment, because I was a regular. #2 when I was paying you and we were together, then I deserve your full attention. Your girl did both. There's also an unwritten rule between guys. When another dude is obviously involved with the dancer you like, you wait until they're done and don't move in on them. It's ok only to say, please come see me later. It's the code. This guy obviously isn't experienced or too dumb to know that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gotsome View Post
    Generally speaking, women don't find men attractive at all who crave attention and who shower them with affection, blowing kissess etc like the guy you described. You can therefore dismiss the client and his gestures as insignificant to your regular. On the other hand, women also regard men who are jealous and argumentative as equally unattractive - it means that you're just as needy as that guy who craves attention. It's a safe bet this woman is totally turned off by you and others like the guy you describe.
    I totally agree with this. It sounds like 2 guys exhibiting strange possessive behaviors. The lady is a working girl, what is she supposed to do ignore all other customers? Only possessive types think this way, and women do have radar for the possessive ones and it goes off like a bullhorn in these situations.

    She is working the job to make money, not because she enjoys entertaining possessive men.
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    Hello Whitesoxs,

    Quote Originally Posted by whitesoxs View Post
    thanks all
    i just not see her at the the we also talk on the phone and text each other
    i thing i didn't like was that he had just spent time with her in the booth
    he had already had say bye to her why did he have to say bye a few minutes later
    i am not upset that other guys pay attention but don't come over when she is with someone else
    It sounds like the guy has developed some sort of attachment/possession/obsession anxiety. The chances are 99.999999% (you get it) the lady isn't interested and she's stringing him along for profit, or at worst setting him up for bigger profits. Be careful you don't head down the same road. Even a guy her age should beware.

    But I have found it unique from experience that even guys who are friends can get territorial and jealous over strippers and SPs whose business is to profit from seeing so many men intimately, until the guys come to their senses, hopefully.

    Cheers,

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    Hello Merlot
    so you think i have showing some attachment/possession/obsessin anxiety and that she isn't interest and just stringing me along
    i have been going to see her about 4 years now
    i know it's a job which she doesn't like to do but she has to do it and i know she work a regluar job
    but it would be hard just to stop going to see her

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    Quote Originally Posted by whitesoxs View Post
    Hello Merlot
    so you think i have showing some attachment/possession/obsessin anxiety and that she isn't interest and just stringing me along
    i have been going to see her about 4 years now
    i know it's a job which she doesn't like to do but she has to do it and i know she work a regluar job
    but it would be hard just to stop going to see her

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