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    Premature Ejaculation

    Hi everyone,

    i have a question for all you guys, my sexual experiences are very limited, maybe due to the fact that i think i cum too fast. is it because the lack of experiences? still too young?

    so how long does someone have to last before exploding his load?

    is there somethign to do to prevent you from ejaculation fast?

    share you experiences and advice,

    thanks

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    i wish i could cum fast :/..... i gotta give a good pounding for 30-45 minutes before i can even think about coming.

    I've heard that male enhancment pills like viagra make it harder to orgasm so quick, maybe that could help?

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    Quote Originally Posted by picaron
    i wish i could cum fast :/..... i gotta give a good pounding for 30-45 minutes before i can even think about coming.

    I've heard that male enhancment pills like viagra make it harder to orgasm so quick, maybe that could help?
    thanks for you reply picaron,

    one question though, has it been like this for you all the time, or does the ejac. time increase with age and experience?

    thanks

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    For me, at ~16-20, sex was all new and I would explode in a matter of minutes at the slightest touch from a woman. Now, the excitement is "less pronounced" and I can take my time. Been there, did that... There are still hooties that get me really close to firing first, asking questions later but mostly, when it's a close call, I try to divert the girl's attention to something else than my little boy. Even better, when it's getting risky, redirect the pleasure towards the girl so YOU make her cum, without involving your dick! She will love you for this, you will look good and you'll control when you cum.
    Of course, if you see a girl and you didn't cum in weeks (or days if you're young!) then, you're asking for trouble as far as being a "fast trigger". Hey! That pressure got to get released!
    Anybody remember the movie "There's something about Mary" with Cameron Diaz and Matt Dillon? The guy decide to jerk-off before he meet with his date so he doesn't blow-up too fast. That's not only true in movies!
    It reminds me of a joke:
    The guy haven't been with a lady in ages and finally decide to call an escort. About about half an hour before the appointed time, he gets his dick out and jerk himself to completion. After he's done, while he wipe the mess off, he says to his dick: Now you had your fun, better let me have mine for the rest of the evening and wait till I'm ready!"

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    My experience is similar to metoo4, but for guys concerned about premature ejaculation, drink some wine and it will cure this problem.

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    i've been like that all my life.... heck im not an old at all :P. I think part of the reason is im circumzised (no, im not jewish), so the sensitivity is lost.

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    guys any medicine ...or sth like that for delay?

    any medicine or something like that to prevent this problem ..viagra just help u to get erection...anyone knows any godd stuff?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.President
    any medicine or something like that to prevent this problem ..viagra just help u to get erection...anyone knows any godd stuff?
    On a personal level, i can say that alcohol consumption (moderate and higher) has worked for me, especially taken when i'm particularly tired or concomitantly with a pill against anxiety like xanax for instance.

    Another solution that i've heard of is to apply a xylocaine-based (or its equivalent) ointment near the base of the glans penis (termed corona? i think) which should decrease sensation due to its local anesthetic effects therefore delaying orgasm.

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    There are also condoms available with a desensitizing lubricant on the inside.

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    Good discussion,
    In my experience, the practise of starting-stopping works for me, but the girl doesn't like the up-and-down - most seem to generally prefer none-stop action. I guess, it's a bit of a trade-off in a way...

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    It a matter of training yourself.

    When I was 20, I was able to hump about 5 or 6 times per hour with little problem. ( my maximum capacity was never reached as I was not able to get a test subject to atempt this ) The girls would often comment on my special abilities.
    When I was 35, and started to see SPs. I wore some out when they offered 1 hour service. I was able to preform continuously for the full hour. This did not please them as I was told that some other clients were finished in minutes.
    The last few years, I have been in a relationship where the rule was "Come on, lets get it over with" has caused my accomplishment time to diminish.
    I think that if you trained yourself, most people can double or tripple their ejaculation time easily. What MERB hobbyist need is a sex surrogate therapist, specializing in the specialty of ''training" or "rehabilitating " sexual preformance.

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    I agree with much of what has been said above. I might add that age explains a lot:
    - In my teens and early twenties, I had a hard time lasting more than a few minutes.
    - In my thirties, I managed to control myself with the "stop and go" technique.
    - Now in my forties, the challenge has shifted from lasting to MSOG...such is life

    Some other factors I noticed had a bearing:
    - Position: mish cums faster, all other positions are easier to control
    - Emotional involvement: its easier to last with an SP than with a GF.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J. Peterman
    The last few years, I have been in a relationship where the rule was "Come on, lets get it over with" has caused my accomplishment time to diminish.
    Great comment, which is worth a thread in itself. It appears that both SPs and wives/longtstanding partners have an interest in having men cum quickly, "to get it over with" so to speak. Does this mean only GFs in the early phases of a relationship want us to last?

    Sad...

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    How to cum slower.

    Desensitising spray works, however it tastes awful, so after putting some on, leave it there for a good 5 to 10 minutes then wash it of very well. Go into any sex shop and ask them to reccomend something to prolong erection.

    Extra strength condoms also help.

    Also when you feel that you are about to cum very soon, pull out and think of some of the least sexy thoughts you can (ex.: dead dogs, ugly toothless naked grandmothers, income tax audit) until the feeling passes. Then go back for more. With practice you will then be able to try not pulling out but just "freezing" or stop thrusting and tell her not to move either, until thew feeling passes.

    With practice you can learn to prolong your erection.

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    but they will never forget the way you made them feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joeblow
    I agree with much of what has been said above. I might add that age explains a lot:
    - In my teens and early twenties, I had a hard time lasting more than a few minutes.
    - In my thirties, I managed to control myself with the "stop and go" technique.
    - Now in my forties, the challenge has shifted from lasting to MSOG...such is life

    Some other factors I noticed had a bearing:
    - Position: mish cums faster, all other positions are easier to control
    - Emotional involvement: its easier to last with an SP than with a GF.
    I completely agree with this analysis. My only regret is that I do not have the sexual potency now that I did when I was 18-22 years old and could go forever. It is sad that when we finally get to the age where are making some good money and we can afford to pay to see SPs, our sexual prowess is in decline from what it was when we were younger. Seems almost unfair.

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