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    To Women!

    Hey Merbites! I invite anybody that wants to join this thread (hobbyist, agencies, sps, even the mods lol) to take part in it. Feel free to add, discuss, question anything you read in that post, just do it with love.

    The year's getting to an end and I feel like making a tribute to the main reason why where here as a community : Women!


    I love women and I think we all do. Women can make us go through all the emotions. From love to hate, from extasy to anxiety, from wonder to repulsion, women are powerful. I think it's important to take a fresh look at them with the new year coming up.

    With the nature of this buisness, I find it unfortunately leads us to talk about them like products. Granted, they provide a service that we pay high money for, but it's not all about them. It's great that a site like this helps us exchange with the agencies, protecting us of bad choices, helping us orient our sessions towards something that will suit us, protecting the girls too.

    However, I'd like to take a step back and look at how we treat this hobby in this time and age. It's cliché to say, but we're definitly in a time of consummation. It affects both us and the sps, in different ways. As consummers of this era, we're more and more picky than in the past. We want the the bang (that's really the case here lol!) for our buck. We have access to all sorts of ressources, like this site, consummer reviews are everywhere. We also have more means because there's more middle and upper middle class people. I think it's great in many ways. However, there's a big problem related to that. As consummers, we get fed what we see in the media and society at the expense of crictical thinking and culture. And sps are humans too that buy into that system, they want money and material like everyone else.

    How this affects our relationship to sps seems obvious to me from reading many reviews, we tend to treat them like objets. We forget that what we exchange with an sp is basically emotions. And although we'd probably never end up in bed with some of these beautiful ladies if we weren't paying for it, sharing this kind of intimacy involves a lot on both parties. As hobbyist we'd like our needs to be met, or exceeded. I believe that, although we pay for this service and therefore meet an important need of these ladies, it's important to consider their needs in the encounter. I've read quite a few times that some hobbyist are disapointed after a session with a very good looking sp because she's in it only for the money and they feltl it. I'm glad this is mentionned because it sucks if the girl's not into it, period. It must also suck for the ladies if we are only focused on our pleasure during the session, but they are good at not making you feel it, it's their job.

    One could say, but Wallseye, can't you see in the reviews that a lot of guys love doing DATY to an sp, isn't this an indication of wanting to please the sp? And my answer would be, technically yes, but there's a major problem with it. DATY is a service (mark my words) offered by the sps, like BJ, FS, and all the others you can think off. Why? Because some guys, myself included, love to be as close as possible to this flower of pleasure, tasting it, kissing it, etc... The main thing to about DATY I notice in many reviews something along those lines : Daty was good, she was responsive, she tasted fresh. From meeting a very popular sp that many said that about her, I was really disapointed in that part of the session. Granted she was responsive, tasted fresh, but she was faking like crazy. There's not way in that session where she allowed me to give something to her, she was completely focused on giving me service, thinking I'd be happy believing I gave her an orgasm in 1-2 minutes of eating her. It's nice of her to try, but that's not what I seek in an intimate encounter with a lady, sp or not.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm not accusing all of you to be insensitive egoistical sex addicts. I just want to point out that it's important to try to be as sensitive as possible with the women we're with. I seek true intimacy, and sex can be easily deprived of intimacy if not done properly. I respect the gentlemen that don't seek the same thing as I do, that just want pleasure for their money. After all, they are service providers, so it's all good. I also love a lady to take care of me, but to me it has to be an exchange of love. I'm not talking bf-gf love, but love for thy neighbour, love for the intimacy, love for the sex, love of the moment.

    I love women. They make my smile, they make me cry. They piss me off, they make me hard. I'm a romantic. I wish I could cook for all of them, make them happy, be a listener to them. Unfortunaly, the buisness side of things takes some of the romance appart. However, with the right sps, you can get as close to the real thing as possible, considering the context.

    Maybe I'm just green. I admit that I'm very new to this hobby, and hopefully for my own sake I won't be involved in it for too long, but I felt like sharing my love for women and exchanging ideas. To me, sex is the art of intimacy and I do it with love and passion.

    All the best, I wish everyone here happy hollidays with lots of love,

    Wallseye

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    Nicely put wallseye..
    I as well will come back with more in depth comments.
    But off the top, i dont pay for emotions. It is a strictly physical thing, and my heart is completely seperated from my penis.
    What i exchange isnt emotional, its purely physical, and animal.
    That being said, i treat them with respect, and not like an object.
    The animal side of things is mutual, and they know they are going to get something intense with me, and not a cuddly.. Encounter.
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wallseye View Post
    The year's getting to an end and I feel like making a tribute to the main reason why where here as a community : Women!

    I love women and I think we all do. Women can make us go through all the emotions. From love to hate, from extasy to anxiety, from wonder to repulsion, women are powerful. I think it's important to take a fresh look at them with the new year coming up.

    With the nature of this buisness, I find it unfortunately leads us to talk about them like products. Granted, they provide a service that we pay high money for, but it's not all about them. It's great that a site like this helps us exchange with the agencies, protecting us of bad choices, helping us orient our sessions towards something that will suit us, protecting the girls too.
    Women...can't live with them...can't ship them all to the moon.

    No I don't think like that. It's just an allusion that reflects the depth of the maddening frustration that is part of truly loving women. Looking into the eyes of a beautiful woman makes me forget all of the bad and start dreaming of going through all the tribulations again just for the chance of enjoying the possibilities...EVERY TIME. I can't see how any real man cannot feel that way.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wallseye View Post
    How this affects our relationship to sps seems obvious to me from reading many reviews, we tend to treat them like objets.

    I believe that, although we pay for this service and therefore meet an important need of these ladies, it's important to consider their needs in the encounter. I've read quite a few times that some hobbyist are disapointed after a session with a very good looking sp because she's in it only for the money and they feltl it.

    One could say, but Wallseye, can't you see in the reviews that a lot of guys love doing DATY to an sp, isn't this an indication of wanting to please the sp? And my answer would be, technically yes, but there's a major problem with it. DATY is a service (mark my words) offered by the sps, like BJ, FS, and all the others you can think off. Why? Because some guys, myself included, love to be as close as possible to this flower of pleasure, tasting it, kissing it, etc...
    Nope. I've never felt that I ever treated any lady, escort or not, like an object. Of course I've set up the encounter to fulfill my need for pleasure, but much of my pleasure has always been the enjoyment I may give the lady. Her delight in our intimacy has always been far more stimulating than what I alone may feel. Seeing and feeling her enjoyment increases my own and the most unsatisfying possibility is when she doesn't share in the pleasure of it all.

    I don't consider daty a service, though being without it is a great disappointment. Even if I am paying my delight in daty comes from her own and is my gift to her. There are few moments more fulfilling than the responsiveness of her body, the squeeze of her legs, the pull of her fingers, the final shudder of her thighs...and her genuine satisfaction...all give me pleasure. When that doesn't happen it's me who is more disappointed.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wallseye View Post
    ...it's important to try to be as sensitive as possible with the women we're with.

    I love women. They make my smile, they make me cry. They piss me off, they make me hard. I'm a romantic. I wish I could cook for all of them, make them happy, be a listener to them.

    Unfortunaly, the buisness side of things takes some of the romance appart. However, with the right sps, you can get as close to the real thing as possible, considering the context.

    Wallseye
    Yes, women can be maddening. But you only lose that which is the best we can feel between the sexes by treating them like products...and that is a tragedy.

    Cheers,

    Merlot

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