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    Markings On My SP

    I'm a little naive but my SP had markings on the inside of her forearm. I got a quick glimpse at it before she turned her forearm over. She had like 6 perfectly straight scars on the inside of her forearm one on top of each other like lined paper. Are they gang markings?
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    One of my exes starting hurting herself after we broke up. She started cutting and burning herself, in semi-hidden areas (flanks, near armpits, and inside the thighs) trying to "relieve the mental pain with physical pain".
    Now maybe they're gang marking, perhaps, but if they looked like scars, they probably were and if perfectly aligned, sounds like a psychological disorder to me ...

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    They are like notches on a gun....1 per kill.
    Be afraid....be very afraid !!!

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    TheDon...Quite possibly, or could also be what Guitarplaya describes as well. Went out with a girl that one day in bed i noticed a scar on one of her wrists and asked her if she had tried to commit suicide, she started crying if that tells you anything. She also had small "cut scars" here and there which you would not really notice unless looking for them as she was a beautiful girl. We had a long talk about things, her past, and she has the reminders forever about how bad she had it once and how far she had come, for the good. I say a prayer for her ofton.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDon View Post
    I'm a little naive but my SP had markings on the inside of her forearm. I got a quick glimpse at it before she turned her forearm over. She had like 6 perfectly straight scars on the inside of her forearm one on top of each other like lined paper. Are they gang markings?
    They are almost certainly self-inflicted and not particularly uncommon. Girls who cut are typically calling out for attention and help, not genuinely trying to kill themselves. It's more a sign of depression than anything else, an disease far too common among young and old.
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    here's another opinion...

    tribal type markings, a step up from tatoos.
    there's an african tribe that uses 6 lines... but on their forehead.


    anyway, sounds like an interesting girl. curious to hear the confirmed ans.

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    Maybe the Liposuction Gang...

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    Any marking, self inflicted or artificial is a turn off for me. Tattoos. piercings, cut marks, ughh! I butt boffed an SP with a full back tattoo, I could feel myself going soft!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ichiro Honda View Post
    I butt boffed an SP with a full back tattoo, I could feel myself going soft!
    Depends whether it's a nice looking one and/or tastefully done I.e. Stacy from Angel escorts has a beautiful full back tattoo of a geisha ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Possum Trot View Post
    Good link, PossumTrot.

    The way the first poster describe it it looks to me like a manifestation of self-mutilation (self-harm or self-injury). There are several ways to express anger or uneasiness (or even worst afflictions), what we call nonsuicidal self-injury (NSSI) is a type of behavior that seems to fit the above description.
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    Blue Oyster Cult had a creepy song called "Unknown tongue" about a girl like this.

    Then she took her father's razor
    And watched it cut into her palm
    She put her hand up to her mouth
    To taste the blood so holy and warm
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    Hello all,

    Quote Originally Posted by rumpleforeskiin View Post
    They are almost certainly self-inflicted and not particularly uncommon. Girls who cut are typically calling out for attention and help, not genuinely trying to kill themselves. It's more a sign of depression than anything else, an disease far too common among young and old.
    I've seen this happen for attention, rebellion, various self-identity reasons, usually indicating some form of response to difficulty fitting in, family issues, or other personal troubles. Sometimes it's combined with other signs of personal issues such as social withdrawal, hyper sensitivity, irrational outbursts, etc. Depression mixed with anger is a very common foundation.

    Quote Originally Posted by lgna69xxx View Post
    She also had small "cut scars" here and there which you would not really notice unless looking for them as she was a beautiful girl. We had a long talk about things, her past, and she has the reminders forever about how bad she had it once and how far she had come, for the good. I say a prayer for her ofton.
    It helps a lot just to have someone listen, anyone. Everyone needs reassurance someone cares, more so someone who is going through what we are presuming here. A good word about them can help a lot.

    One guy I knew had somewhere just under or over 30 parallel cuts on his arm once. It seemed to be related to much of the above and trying to fit in among others of like mind. For him it turned out just to be hard growing pains and he is fine now. For others...

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    They are like notches on a gun....1 per kill.
    Be afraid....be very afraid !!!
    ..great anwser indeed.

    ive known a few girls that used to do this, they were stress cuts.
    every time that she would be depressed, or stressed out..she would take a razor..and slice in lines.
    self-mutilation is way more common than we would like to think.
    i would assume that gangs prefer tattoo...open wounds as gang markings isn't the most convincing marking.
    it also automatically leads to questions..where as a huge tattoo in black old english script that says 'dog's bitch' on her lower back..automatically leads to anwsers.
    (true story, 'dog's bitch' is around st-laurent downtown..and im also assuming that 'dog' isn't far from there either..lol.
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    I wish I could examine her entire body in order to confirm whether this is a case of self-mutilation or something a little more sinister.

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