I have been out of the sp game for awhile, exploring ashley madison. I recommned it for people who are willing to put in alittle more effort. My effort have paid off in two very pleasant ways. Downside is the work needed to put in. The game is essentially finding other people who are interested in discreet encounters with other attached people. Of course trying to coordinate two schedules is much harder than calling an sp. The upside is you know both parties are interested in fun and it is pleasant not to hand an envelope to a lady at the end of the session. Has any other hobbyist tried this?