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Turn on or Turn off ?

Just_Jay

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When a wife, girlfriend, or lover choses to help herself reach orgasm by using her fingers, is this a turn on or turn off ?

It can be considered a turn on because
-it shows that she is comfortable enough with you as a partner to play with herself while having sex.
-that she is in the moment and wants to achieve the same rush that most men achieve with less effort.
-that she wants to move with your rhythum and cum at the same time.
-you get to experience her convulsions of ecstacy that are more real than any acting could provide

It can be considered a turn off because
- it may be considered a selfish act as she focusses more on herself than on you as a couple
- it can be humbling, because with all your best efforts you are failing to hit maximum results for her
- it seems ackward and distracting to have her fingers massaging herself while you are having intercourse

Feel free to give your opinion or add any other pros or cons.
 

Siocnarf

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I like it. It shows she's taking an interest in what's going on.
 

spicylove

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Definitive turn on for me. It's a sign that she is confident with her sexuality and confortable with you. I would rather be with a woman that is helping herself reach orgasm with her fingers than with a someone who is faking it.
 

Ricky bonds

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i love it when a girl does that..
it increases the glide factor, and adds to the overall pleasure of the ordeal.
what i hate is when a girl trys to play with my umm...balls while im working away. that is a total turn off for me.
 

janhammer

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Turn on. She's looking at me, doing the same. The session just gets hotter and hotter.

I like to think that she's rubbing herself ONLY because she's so turned on by my nude body. :)
 

oldbutartful

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Watching her stroke herself is a good turn on, better still you both stroking each other until you both climax is even better. If your not comfortable seeing her playing with heself then I guess she doesn't turn you on in other ways either. Its all about mutual enjoyment.
 
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