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    Virgin Question

    I'm a Virgin about to take a job, move to a new city and turn 29 all in a couple of weeks. I want to get my virginity out of the way and learn a few things in the process before my next dating experience and have decided that this is the easiest way to do it/increase confidence for future social outings etc. I was fat in high school, low confidence in college, did a bunch of travel and once I actually realized I should take care of how I look I find myself 28. I've had two dating experiences end with girls I legitimately liked because I was a virgin. I just need to get rid of it so I can move on.

    I was originally considering heading to Nevada since it is en route to where I am going to end up, but I live closer to Montreal and after looking at the ridiculous prices at brothels in Nevada it seems that Montreal is a better option. It does seem a little daunting going through tons of independent provider websites and posts trying to figure out if someone is worth the time, and the situation seems way more committed - for instance you can go into a brothel take a look around and leave, but I assume if an escort comes to your room you are pretty much stuck even if she looks like she has a horrible meth problem.

    I search the forum looking for similar posts, and while they are out there they seem dated. I was hoping someone might suggest a few ladies they know first hand or have conversed with who may be good with first timers. I'm looking for someone on the younger side (25ish? definitely under 30), fit and cute face, small and natural up top. I'm flexible since most important is that its going to be a fun experience, she keeps me from being nervous and teaches me a thing or two. I've got about 500-600 set aside strictly for the ladies and if I could get 2 or 3 ladies out of it that would be great. It seems that may not be unrealistic based on previous posts I've read.... but in Nevada for someone on the younger side it appears that might be a low-ball offer. I'll continue to do my research, but would love to hear about people active in the area.

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    Aaah, yes, the beginning is a very delicate time…
    Well, look no further: https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...LL-514-9676648
    TingTing is a 25 yrs old Chinese independant who receives in her appartment downtown. A real girlfriend experience (GFE), very friendly, relax and playful. She’s the sweetest woman and makes you feel like the most important person in the world. An incredible value at 160$/h. It’s best to contact her by e-mails at least a few days in advance.
    Read her reviews. Everyone is crazy about her: https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...l=1#post587744

    Whoever you choose, better go with a real GFE. They will probably make you feel more at ease.
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    Thanks for the suggestion. I think based on reading the reviews and looking at her profile that she is not for me. Never was really big into asian girls, would prefer someone a little more petite, and the conversation on the comments regarding single shots on goal makes me a little uncomfortable knowing it will be my first time. I'm assuming theres going to be a breakaway early in the first period.

    Ive been clicking around a bit and found some very strong possibilities on a few of the agency web pages (specifically but not limited to - Angel, Anna, Taly on Angel's Avril, Darcy on eleganza,). Is it suggested that I just contact the agency directly and let them know what the deal is? Something like: "Hey, I'm a virgin looking for a good GFE experience with a petite girl who do you have working next Tuesday, Weds, Thurs that would fit that criteria?" Is the experience overall different going through an agency vs a private worker?

    Also - how does it work at the hotel? It seems to me that some of the girls would be seen at certain hotels all the time.... is there ever any issue with them getting to your room? It almost seems to me it would be better if your room exited right to the outside as opposed to a bigger building that probably doesn't exist in downtown Montreal. Is this point not even worth considering?

    Thanks and looking forward to more suggestions.

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    @Vaxathrax- I'll second Siocnarf on TingTing's recommendation. She is an ideal choice for the case you've raised : very sweet indeed and her attitude should provide you with enough confidence to boot. The only thing I am not too sure about is this: should you be upfront with her about your situation or just let things go and act as if you have been through this b4. I guess it goes down to what you feel at ease with: the 1st time I lost my virginity, I acted as if that was a simple routine. The gal never knew that I lost my virginity to her. There was no particular reason to have acted that way, I just felt comfy with that Modus Operandi. In my case, it really didn't matter whether she was sweet or not as that has never influenced the rest of my sexual nor sentimental life (she was actually of the "very sexual bang bang" categ).
    -Agencies: I don't think you should tell them that you are virgin. This is really private stuff.
    -At hotel: I do not think u should worry about this. Just receive her as you would receive any guest.
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    definitely go with an independent. you'll be able to tailor the experience considering your situation. some of them will welcome virgins with open arms and they'll teach you a thing or two along the way. imo, it's better with them because you can tell about your situation/lack of experience and they'll be mindful of such

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    Quote Originally Posted by montreal_monk01 View Post
    the 1st time I lost my virginity,
    After losing it once, I keep it somewhere safe so I don`t lose it again

    Like themonk83 says, if you want to let the woman know beforehand the situation, it might be better to see an independant. That way you exchange e-mails to make sure its a good match.

    I never used outcall agencies so I can`t say anything about them. You can check out OurAffair which is a group of independants. They share a nice incall place downtown, but many also do outcalls http://ouraffair.info/

    Lily-Anne from OurAffair might be more your style. https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...28OurAffair%29 She`s already de-virginized someone (but he left merb and his posts are gone). She`s less extroverted then Tingting but also sweet.
    “Truth, Justice, Freedom, Reasonably Priced Love.”

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    And also, with agencies you're not sure in advance who's going to be available, whereas with independants, you usually take the appointments more in advance.
    “Truth, Justice, Freedom, Reasonably Priced Love.”

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    vaxathrax;
    Honestly, you are overanalyzing, which is the worst thing you can do. The advantage of Montreal's lower price structure is that you can see 2 girls for the price of 1 in the U.S. Forget about the Nevada brothels; they were once great but now it is a bunch of old women at ridiculous prices. The quality young providers in NV work as independents in Vegas but you are better off with Montreal than a Vegas independent since the screening will freak you out as a newbie.

    Any highly reviewed girl would be a good choice, so spend your time reading the reviews and focus on the ones with lots of good reviews. If I were you, I would try to book one of your sessions with Elena of Montreal Lust. She is a very sweet but passive girl that will make anyone feel comfortable. I have also had a lot of luck with the Eleganza providers and you can book them in advance. You will get so lost in Daryn's giant boobs that you will forget being a virgin. I would stay away from any provider that is descibed as PSE since they tailor their sessions to guys who have seen a lot of providers and are bored with traditional services (personally I hate PSE providers, so that is just my opinion). Be sure you write reviews to help the rest of us.
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