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    who go with sp at a restaurant after a session?

    Me i often meet a girl at the end of night just to invite an Sp to resto.My experience so far is very good,you can relax take your time and enjoy a good meal and drink.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simonpaul View Post
    Me i often meet a girl at the end of night just to invite an Sp to resto.My experience so far is very good,you can relax take your time and enjoy a good meal and drink.
    With a Montreal agency girl? I never have done this. Once I walked a QC escort back to her car after a session. She wanted to introduce me to her boss. I gave her a kiss and I bid her good bye. We were kissing as she climbed backword intothe car. I had an SP down south stay for dinner off the clock once. but never in Montreal? Maybe it is the 18-21 y.o. agency girls that I am attracted to? They are out making money so that they can afford to go clubbing after work.

    I had a Brazilian Termas girl meet me at the hotel to spend the night. We ate some dinner together and that was fun. She wanted to come back on her day off but for some reason, I gave her the slip. I regret this to this day. I found that it is easy to get the Thai girls to meet you after work as well. Seems like many girls from 3rd world or developing nations are all too eager to meet you off the clock. I fear they all want a shot at the biggest session fee of all...marriage!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    With a Montreal agency girl? I never have done this.

    I had a Brazilian Termas girl meet me at the hotel to spend the night.
    The same thing for me, I never have done this in Montreal. I had churrascos (BBQ) with several garotas however. Sometimes, when you are friend with some garotas, they invite you to the backyard (or the patio) of a privê and they treat you (on the house) with cold beer and espetinhos (BBQ brochettes). I whish they can do this in Montreal...
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    Never done it either. Although it might be fun as part of an extensive GFE session. I'd prefer eating chinese take out in front of the fireplace then going to a fancy restaurant. That way we can stay naked and have a more intimate meal.

    The most I ever did was bringing food for breakfast on a morning session. We had a little picnic on the bed... before the main course.
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    I do not care for restaurant but eating from room service in a nice hotel wearing lingerie is sooo decadent...I love it lolll

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    I have went to a resto with someone i had just seen after 'doing the deed' on several occasions. However, the sp would always be the one suggesting we go out for a bite to eat & it was always an indy or an sp i might be seeing 'on the side' whom i had befriended over time.

    An sp would suggest we go out for a bite, and if i agreed (which was usually 100% of the time), we'd shower together, get dressed, and out we went. It was a good way to get to know one another better & in some cases, friendships developed over these types of arrangements.

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    Actually I use to accept to eat out with my favorite friends ( yes we have favorites loll) but I realized that somehow eating with someone is more intimate than eating someone (sorry the pun was too easy loll) and strangely enough some men reads too much into a escort accepting to do something that strays from the format of encounters agreed at the starts...

    The more I meet and the more I am surprised at the lack of compartmentalization I see from my friends?
    I was convinced that this ability to separate one's actions as a very masculine trait...of course if it was really the case that would make me a man...hum...not true loll ,but I am beginning to realize that the way I juggles all my (many) lives and loves is not that common ...I guess I am really not monogamous ...

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    Hello all,

    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    With a Montreal agency girl? I never have done this. Once I walked a QC escort back to her car after a session. She wanted to introduce me to her boss. I gave her a kiss and I bid her good bye. We were kissing as she climbed backword intothe car. I had an SP down south stay for dinner off the clock once. but never in Montreal? Maybe it is the 18-21 y.o. agency girls that I am attracted to? They are out making money so that they can afford to go clubbing after work.

    I had a Brazilian Termas girl meet me at the hotel to spend the night. We ate some dinner together and that was fun. She wanted to come back on her day off but for some reason, I gave her the slip. I regret this to this day. I found that it is easy to get the Thai girls to meet you after work as well. Seems like many girls from 3rd world or developing nations are all too eager to meet you off the clock. I fear they all want a shot at the biggest session fee of all...marriage!
    I've never had dinner with an escort while she worked with an agency either. But, I have always met the ladies at the beginning of their shifts, so of course there were always the work shift blocking the possibility. Still there have been many times when I've either met ladies down stairs or walked them out discreetly. A number of times there was hand holding and quick kisses in the lobby, brief make out in the elevator, and sometimes snuggling and a few kisses until the car arrived. A few ladies had no issue at all with showing some simple affection in the hotel or outside waiting. It's a very nice feeling.

    I would never meet the boss though. The only time this came up was when the infamous penguin was in the hall way trying to get money from his escort before the session was over. He offered to meet. I said no. LUCKILY.

    ...I realized that somehow eating with someone is more intimate than eating someone (sorry the pun was too easy loll) and strangely enough some men reads too much into a escort accepting to do something that strays from the format of encounters...

    ...I am surprised at the lack of compartmentalization I see from my friends?


    Well, I always love eating that is free of calories and so full of deliciously squirming excitement. "a oui...A OUI! je l'aime...je l'aime.

    Compartmentalization was something I've never lost, though it's gotten a bit weaker at times. I've been lucky enough to enjoy free time with some great Independents, walking through the city, doing a little store browsing, and enjoying generous time at various restaurants. Still, even off the clock I never lost site of the business foundation of the relationship.

    Yes I did enjoy some kissing and very light affection with some of the ladies at lunch or dinner before we went back to the hotel for some vigorous business. But this was a planned off-the-clock then on-the-clock arrangement, not just a friendly sit down. Even so I never fell under the impression it was anything else but business.

    There have been times when it was clearly just a friendly get together, sometimes with other hobbying contacts and associates. In these cases there was never anything but relaxation and conversation over dinner.

    Still Lily, guys can't help fantasizing about what if. I have to admit that keeping it real still doesn't prevent fantasy, and I don't think guys do it any more than women do when they have some sort of basic attraction. Can you really blame someone for fantasizing or wishing something more could be possible when they're sitting across from a lovely lady they've enjoyed sweet intimacy with?

    I fantasized about an escort I saw for several years such as: if only we were the same age...if only there was real mutual attraction...if only this or that...if only it wasn't just business. But it was just natural daydreaming. I didn't cross the line with pestering allusions, make pressuring presumptions, or try to force persistent contact. We had a good time out, a lot of fun in, she let me take her home a few times. All of that never got into real complications. But it depends on the persons doesn't it. Either could cross a line.

    The only time there might have been an issue in my case is if I had taken the trip with her she offered. I was concerned being so close for so long would be too close and generate complicated feelings. So I didn't go, and I still can't decide whether to feel good about that choice or kick myself about it. Hmmm, I have kicked myself many times. But dinners and fun for several hours were safe enough.

    In the situation you describe, guys probably can't help wishing a little. When you've been intimate it's natural. I don't think there's a problem necessarily unless the guy starts pressing for more frequent contact and making more requests that impose on your freedom.

    Good luck,

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    As always it is a pleasure to read you...my problem that it is rare the friend who understand that yes I am in love with them but no I will not be exclusive and no it doesn't mean I will leave my funlife and my real lives... I am really lucky, the way I see it I can have my cake(s) and eat it it too loll

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    I`ve never gone to a restaurant after a session except on 2 occaisions for breakfast after a sleep-over.

    On multiple hour dates I may cook a light meal or order in , but its during the session and in between SOG`s, not after.

    I often took my ATF to restaurants , but again it was during (and not after) multiple hour dates.

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    I'm similar to cloudsurf in that on 2 times an sp slept over and we went out to breakfast the next morning. Needless to say both times I was the last appointment of the day. I've never done the dinner thing but i have twice gone on vacation with different sp's and both times it worked out great.

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    I haven't taken an sp out to a restaurant, but I did order a meal for two through room service to share with one of my encounters. I booked a 2.5 hour session with an independent lady I had seen once before, and we had seemed to click well together previously. My thinking was that it would enhance the GFE to have dinner with her first, and then to indulge in "the good stuff" after a nice meal and some wine. I had explained my plans with the sp when I made the booking, and she agreed. But it really didn't work out all that well. Even though we had really gotten along well on our first encounter, she seemed a little distant during our "dinner date". I'm thinking she might have thought that I was becoming too attached to her, or something. Any way, it was OK, but I haven't done it again.

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    ive never done that...

    maybe as others have mentioned, room service for a breather in between or towards the end of an extended session.


    afterwards, i'm tired ... probably can't focus on a conversation with a girl without looking spaced out, probably thinking of someone else to sleep with, etc.
    but that's just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simonpaul View Post
    Me i often meet a girl at the end of night just to invite an Sp to resto.My experience so far is very good...
    simonpaul, i'm thinking you're meeting indy's because don't most agency girls have to turn over their cash to the boss or driver at the end of the shift??? no??? i don't know, maybe you're the boss or the driver???

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyForYou View Post
    Actually I use to accept to eat out with my favorite friends. Strangely enough some men reads too much into a escort accepting to do something that strays from the format of encounters agreed at the starts...The more I meet and the more I am surprised at the lack of compartmentalization I see from my friends?
    I was convinced that this ability to separate one's actions as a very masculine trait... ...
    Lilly - How do you know it is not compartmentalized? I like to fantasize that I am in love with all my favorite escorts. I am e-mail friends with a few but do not worry. You will never need to get a restraining order with my name on it. You will never meet my family and I am not willing to change my lifestyle. I only want to spend a few hours with you. It is just a fantasy. I would bet that many of the hobbyists out there are in the same predicament that I am. The probability that these guys actually love you is very, very low. In fact I know because I may have led a few girls on. I can't help it. I love the fantasy of it all. I don't feel too bad because I am sure that any Asian or Latin escort half my age that is interested in me probably has an angle.

    So don't worry and just have fun. Go out to eat with him if you care to. Just set some ground rules.

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