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    Question Massage Vs. Escorts...

    It's a bit confusing.

    I mean, way back in the days, everyone that wanted a bang for their buck - they would go to their friendly neighborhood escort. Incall had its' advantages being that you have options of half to an hour, you don't need to rent space and the prices were relatively less expensive. Outcalls were mainly titled to higher end, or specific tastes. Usually ranging from one to several hours with girls and costing more.

    Let's hop to the massage side of things. If you needed a good massage with usually a rub and tug in a softer zen-like setting, you would go to your friendly neighborhood massage parlor. Choices in time varied and in some of them you could have different rooms at a different price. Of course, there was the house fee and then there was the masseuse fee.

    Let's not fool ourselves here, that has mostly changed. You can get just about the same services in all those areas today. What is so different, the decor? Introduction? Variety? And prices range just about the same. Incalls at 2 bills, outcalls at 2 bills and MP's at 2 bills (broken down 140$ + 60$ house).

    I just don't get that today. With free ad sites, these girls can go work for themselves (in whatever area they choose), hence cutting out the middle man. You would basically need an internet connection to get your biz up and running. Incalls have shot up big time, in popularity and price. and yet massage parlors thrive and to some extent outcalls have remained the same. For outcalls, there's been some debate about them losing ground where girls can work for their own pay and bosses trying hard to keep girls by giving them a bigger cut and extending invitations to their established clientele. Massages gives a different illusion to its' clients, which usually ends in one "release" - Some may say it's less work for more pay for the girls.

    I for one have gone to all these areas. Found gems and had real good times in mp's with wonderful women. Even was buddy chum chum with some escort owners back in the days. Had a blast with reputed gems on the road. I just don't know if I want to continue in outcalls, incalls or mp's.

    In the end, we men ultimately want the same thing. Evolution did little to change our carnal / sexual desires. Why pick one over the other?

    Jaw

    PS - Strip clubs are becoming a bit of a dying breed. Will one or several of these areas mentioned above suffer the same or similar fates?

    Please keep in mind that this post was written in an unbiased and neutral way, while trying to get this community's feedback. I didn't add any personal resentments to one or the other. Last time I let my thoughts known on this board, I had people judging, criticizing and downright insulting me. Trying to avoid that this time around.
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    - When I go to an MP I want a good massage, no matter what options are available afterwards.

    - Good thing about a MP is you can choose to pay for as much or as little of the extras available. You can get a feel of what the girl is like during the massage and take options depending what mood you're in after. I'm talking more here about massotherapy places with various options rather then thai massage places. With an escort, you pay the price and if you realize you don't like her or you're not in the mood it's a waste of money.

    - It's always fun when you're not exactly sure in advance how far the masseuse will go.

    - Doing it on a massage table is not very comfortable.

    - for 1h massage: 50$ + 100$ minus X for insurance refund, it can be a good deal. An acceptable 1h escorts starts at 120h but at that price, with escort you usually get more sex time and it feels more like real life intercourse.

    -Part of the decision is also which one is closer and how lazy I'm feeling.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jawbone View Post
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    I just don't get that today. With free ad sites, these girls can go work for themselves (in whatever area they choose), hence cutting out the middle man. You would basically need an internet connection to get your biz up and running.
    It is very difficult and dangerous for a girl to work alone. First of all, she will have dozens of phone calls to manage everyday. If she's with a customer for an hour, she cannot take the calls so when the client leaves she has to screen her messages, call back,etc. Some girls end up having to pay for a girl to monitor the phone calls.
    It has happened to me to go see a girl who was pretty indeed and looked as descripted on the phone but had a different voice ! She confirmed to me it was a friend she hired for the phone calls and appointments.

    Working as an indy is very dangerous because guys with bad intentions will target them instead of a girl who works in a parlor or with an agency with drivers and security.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jawbone View Post
    In the end, we men ultimately want the same thing. Evolution did little to change our carnal / sexual desires. Why pick one over the other?
    We know that it is a lot more then that. Humans have built very complicated rituals revolving around this one thing... the art of seduction, foreplay, marriage, to name a few.


    Quote Originally Posted by jawbone View Post
    PS - Strip clubs are becoming a bit of a dying breed. Will one or several of these areas mentioned above suffer the same or similar fates?
    Not really however the market for tity bars are shrunk considerably since there is so much more competition now coming from massage and escorts. There are still many guys like me that enjoy tity bars more then escorts and massage. I find that whole concept so boooring and too much like calling for pizza delivery. Not my thing at all. Now trying to get more up to take out from strippers is soooo much fun and far more satisfying. But that is just me and there are many more guys like me also. I doubt I am the only one.
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    Not all massage places are sex/escort type. And I still enjoy massage and feminine company. What is missing today is interraction,this is what I like about some MP, Maison Massage,Mascarade,and now on a larger scale Espace d'O. I feel like I am going to be romanced in an exotic,remote island.The quickies and the rub and tug type don't compare to that experience. As far as motel escorts or other incalls,not for me,and escorts to fill my needs are rare,I like the pretend part and the intimacy,conversation...For a quick hand job I can serve myself better and cheaper and just sex I can have with my ex.....I miss dance clubs of the past with teasing,good shows and $5. table dances. I could go with out of town clients without shame and we had fun.


    >>> EDITED BY MOD 11: This person is in fact a representative of a massage parlor who use MERB to boost it's popularity and denigrate it's competitors. All that was EVER written by this person must be considered a lie since that's the way they operate. <<<
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    If you're willing to spend between 120-160 range, MP's can be nice, especially with (some) indy's - the better ones are either in Verdun area or Laval/South shore.

    Incalls are basically indy's that just let you know ahead of time that for that 160$ you'll get more than a bodyrub & hj.

    Incalls for me are harder to book, there's just one girl answering the phone, usually you'll book even a day before. Same day often is a no-go, unless you reach her early in the morning, right after she's posted on A123 or CL (having a date-time is useful on those ads).

    So the MP's have the "fun" of being spontaneous. A sudden break in the day where you can be gone 1.5 hrs, lots of different girls, is fun. A MUST for me is a private room with a shower for MP's.

    As for strip bars, some in Laval, open during the day (lunch hour), have "extended" services, like a cbj for 100$. Not a great deal though, as she'll get you off ASAP. If you have a spare 100 and less than an hour, it can do in a pinch.
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    dumb question, and I apologize to mods if there are threads and threads covering this... but how do you know up front which extras are available with an MP? If I want FS and a massage (which is what I always want), with SP I am at least guaranteed the FS, and I've only been denied a massage once. Although I've had some fantastic massages and some horrible ones with an SP. Sex of course is illegal with an MP, so not going to talk about that... but I presume every place has its own extras list, with its own prices (and maybe varying per girl)... and I also presume it's extremely YMMV and you have to ask and not get upset if it's a "no." Because you just can't call and ask. This is the exact reason I've never been.

    It's funny because there's a place right near where I live, and I pass it... and I'm tempted to go in... but then what? Do I walk up to the hostess and say "hey what are the extras?" She doesn't know who I am -- maybe I'm a cop or something. I have no idea how to negotiate that transaction. So SPs just seem like less of a headache... I know what I'm getting, and all the parameters up front. Although maybe you guys find an MP place and are regulars, etc, etc.

    And then sometimes I am on backpage or wherever and I find a girl, and theres a number... I google the number and it's to a parlor. I look up the website, and it's extremely classy/professional and talks about therapeutic massage. What's up with that? Then I'd have no clue what to do if I go in... go in and say... "Does this place give massages or massages?"

    How do you guys navigate that minefield?

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    I never ask anything before hand. I let them do the massage and see where it goes. Part of the excitement for me is not knowing what I'm going to get in the end. But if I'm more looking for sex then massage, I prefer an escort.
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