Okay, I want to shoot myself! girl won't date me because
she says I'm too buff and that she feels too self conscious around me, and wants to date an older, heavier guy.
it's not even a lame excuse, it's unfortunately true. I can't believe that working out would have negative consequences! argh!
Dude, maybe this girl is looking for marriage material and you look too much like a player.
From my perspective, alot of my friends who are young professionals like myself would prefer a girl next door type at our age and not a super model when considering a serious relationship. It may be security issue or just being with someone down to earth and doesn't worry about the carbs in their food or how many reps they can bench 200 pounds.
Take it as a compliment and find someone who shares your pride and joy of working out.
But she knows what a dork I am! She's got a great body too! I just don't get it.... argh...
Originally Posted by Keno
bastard! (note to mods: I'm being sarcastic.... well maybe not! I'm gonna lose out to him!)
Originally Posted by Le Cock Sportif
I don't know why she won't date you but it's not because you're too good looking.
It's an excuse silly.
turns out she was kidding.
Originally Posted by Salinar
She went over her concerns with me and was fearing I'm a gym rat, and she said exactly what you said. And I don't dress that way...
Originally Posted by dudemtl
Well, only a couple days until I get to see her.... Hope this works! Though I think it would probably be better to date a girl in my own country............. but she's just too cool...