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Thread: Just got turned down

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    Just got turned down

    I just got turned down by an escort for the first time.

    First I got notified that she'd be 45 minutes late. That's fine, and the contact was much appreciated. She actually arrived pretty close to then, smelling of alcohol. Again, not necessarily a problem.

    She kept asking me if she was OK and if I were comfortable. Perhaps I looked tired, but usually girls get the giggles because they say I smile so much.

    My usual hints about getting undressed failed, but she asked if we should move to the bedroom of my suite. Sure! Once we got there, she asked to be paid up front. That's only happened to me once before in Montreal, but whatever. Not a problem. She kept asking if I were comfortable and I kept reassuring her that I was. I eventually asked if she were comfortable and she said she was not and that she would need to call her booker. My money got returned and she was out in a flash.

    I mean, I am fairly hideous to behold, but a hundred other girls have managed. Oh, well. As the booker noted when texting me about a replacement, nobody can click with everybody.

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    Don't worry about it don't take offense theres better out there

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    I feel your pain. The Asians I visit, the girls get big eyes when I say I want to do Thai massage to Them...


    Quote Originally Posted by THEHITMAN View Post
    Don't worry about it don't take offense theres better out there
    ...larger than ever
    ...but divorce had me lose weight...I can see the tip now!

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    When someone asks you if you are comfortable so much time, it often means that this personn is not comfortable with herself at this moment... From what you wrote about her behaviour, she should have stayed at home today. So really no reason to take offense at all, mate...
    Find what you love, and let it kill you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CantSeeMrHappy View Post
    I feel your pain. The Asians I visit, the girls get big eyes when I say I want to do Thai massage to Them...
    Buddy your mailbox is full can you clear it so we can message you

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    Wow, that must be a first?
    Of course for muffin ,because do not believe muffin when he refer to himself as hideous, maybe intimidating brainwise but I digress...

    But I mean in general, especially from a agency girl, me it is one of my 3 rules: if I walk in a room and I do not care for the guy I would walk out, but being my own boss it is easier done , not that it ever happened since I am indy, I try to pick carefully.

    I would say there is 2 occasions I should have maybe and both were the first few months I started in the hobby and was with a agency ( I lasted 6 weeks loll) : the first he was drunk but I didnt realize it ,and the other he was lame (had had a stroke, and did not tell me) and I felt bad...I am not proud of it but that one was a pity fuck...

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    Look at it from another angle.....

    You just got rejected for sex. So what more of a girlfriend experience (gfe) do you want?

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    That's sound like the time I refused CIM explaining that I was GFE and for me that was Wife experience, and my friend said ''you don't know my wife...'' loll

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    Quote Originally Posted by man77777 View Post
    When someone asks you if you are comfortable so much time, it often means that this personn is not comfortable with herself at this moment...
    Right. That's why I eventually asked her. Something was definitely off.

    Quote Originally Posted by THEHITMAN View Post
    Buddy your mailbox is full can you clear it so we can message you
    Cleared.

    Quote Originally Posted by HeresJohnny View Post
    Getting rejected for sex sounds more like a Wife Experience to me
    Not in my case!

    This was a girl my wife had expressed some doubts about but I booked anyway. She helped me quickly find a really great replacement, so it all worked out fine in the end.

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    Always listen to the pretty one ...kiss her for me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyForYou View Post
    Always listen to the pretty one ...kiss her for me?
    I can't until Sunday, then it'll be a lot more than kissing. But I will, and I'll tell her it's from you.

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    I think that you should be happy that she didn't jerk you around, give you a bad session

    You were free to then spend your dollars with someone who was in a better mood

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    At least she gave all your money back, better to have the girl leave than to stay with a uncomfortable attitude which translate to bad service.
    "Just When I Thought I Was Out.....They Pull Me Back In!!!"

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    Rejected by someone who is in the business in part of having sex with fugly chuds. If that doesn't start a guy cutting, nothing does.

    I had a stripper who seemed to be avoiding me at a strip club once. Managed to catch her and things went fine in the booth. However being a fugly chud myself, it is not unexpected.

    But yeah, that has got to leave a mark on the old psyche.

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    In the 10 or so years I have been reading MERB, when "rejection" threads got started and all the facts were reasonably investigated, the rejections fell into the following categories:

    1. Due to the race or ethnicity of the client;
    2. Poor hygiene of client (breath, scary pimples or lesions, body odor);
    3. Poor behavior of client (drunkenness, weird or scary behavior, excessive drug intake, violent or angry outburst).

    I really don't recall a rejection based solely on looks. Most clients are not great looking guys.

    It is not even clear to me that this poster was rejected. For all we know, the girl got sick, after drinking.
    Last edited by EagerBeaver; 10-25-2012 at 10:48 PM.

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