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    A mistake filled evening

    Hey guys,

    This post is a sort of baring of my soul of what was one of the shittiest nights I've ever had in my life.

    There's a girl that I get massages from and I always joke with her, hey, we should ditch this place, book a motel room and have some real fun. Well this week, I got my chance and I thought it was going to be a blast. I could not have been more wrong.

    So, I decide to meet the girl at a metro station and we walk back to my car. Already this was a bit frustrating because she wasn't where we were supposed to meet so we both froze our asses off. Once we finally met, we walked arm in arm to my car and it looked like we were off to have a great time.

    So we pull up and the motel and I ask her if she wanted to come in while I booked the room. She said sure. This was probably a mistake.

    We get to the counter and while I'm booking the room, she starts asking about getting a bigger better room with jacuzzi etc etc. I cave in because I want her to be happy so my motel bill is already higher than I wanted. Then she wanted to get a bottle of champagne. Ah man, just tell me next time. For 30$ I ended up getting a lousy bottle of Henkel that is probably 10$ at the SAQ. I'm also not much of a drinker so this didn't seem necessary to me.

    Already, I find the girl kinda acting weird. She's worried the room will smell, etc so we had to walk to the room to check it. So we do that, then go back and book it. Meanwhile, all she wants to do is go to the room. THis is normally good but I just need to park the car. She starts giving me a hard time that they should have a valet park it. I'm like "It's a motel at midnight", I don't think they have valet. Then SHE wants to park my car. At this point, I start to become suspicious that she's trying to punish me for something and trying to make me uncomfortable in every way possible.

    Anyways, car parked, and we finally get to the room. Yay! but wait...

    I pop the champagne start up the jacuzzi. She's pretty happy but she tells me she's going to show me something no other man has seen. So, I'm actually pretty excited about this. Another mistake. She comes out of the bathroom without her wig on and her hair is all other the place. I don't mean like an afro, I mean like tweeker hair in every direction. She repeatedly asks me if I like her hair...I'm like sure but she doesn't believe me....getting awkward.

    So we ended up in bed and having a pretty good time for a while. But suddenly, I notice her words are slurring pretty bad. I take a look at the champagne bottle and it's fucking empty! I've probably had like 2 glasses tops and she is completely tanked. I don't like where this is going so I decide to call it a night. At this point, the alcohol is hitting her hard. She can't even dress herself so I had to dress her from head to toe like she was my preschool daughter or something.

    Now that she's dressed, I begin to walk to the door to find she tripped and fell on the floor. FML, I pick her up and we stumble to the reception and turn in the key, 90 minutes after booking. The guy behind the counter looks at me like "WTF did you do to her?" I just told him the champagne was a terrible idea. I practically carry her to my car and I have to take her home.

    At this point, she is completely F*cked. I try to get her address to take her home but at least she still has her survival instincts and wont tell me. I explain to her that she is too drunk to get home on her own and if she doesn't tell me where she lives, I'll simply call a cab and he can take her whereever HE wants to take her. (really, this should have been my move)

    Finally, she explains where her neighborhood is and I take her home. Even then, she was so drunk she couldn't even undo her seat belt so I had to help her out of the car and walk with her. Even this was a chore because she insisted on walking in the middle of the road. I pull her to the sidewalk and this is when she decides she wants to move in with me and that she loves me. I get pretty pissed at this point and tell her I'm going to leave her sitting on her ass on the sidewalk if she doesn't show me her building.

    Finally she relents and points to her building (I hope), and I take her. At the door, she insists on me going upstairs. I am so terrified of this girl at this point that I basically told her I to work soon so she had to go to bed. At the door, I try to pay her (I know really) and she takes the money and throws it in my face, saying how she's not taking my money, that she loves me etc...all while looking like she's about to collapse and or vomit. Apparently she was offended that I was counting the bills in my bill fold before handing it to her. I wish her a good night and leave.

    I'm not the toughest person but I was so emotionally exhausted from dealing with this person that I practically broke down and cried. That's when my god damned cell phone rings and it's her. She's telling me she loves me and that I should come upstairs to her. I told her she was completely hammered and needed to sleep. 5 mins later, phone rings again, same conversation. "Good night" and I turn off my phone.

    The next morning, I had like 4 texts from her. For crying out loud, she couldn't put on her socks but she sure knows her way around an iphone!!



    However, treat my tale as cautionary.
    1) You never know just how stable a person might be
    2) Never let the girl influence your choice for a room.
    3) Never get a full bottle of champagne when you plan on leaving 2 hours later
    4) Never let a girl drink 3/4 of this bottle in less than an hour
    5) Don't pay the chick when she's drunk.
    6) Just don't do any of the stuff I did because I feel like an idiot.

    The girl was lucky I wasn't some sort of psycho too.


    Anyways, this was a stupid night on my part. Feel free to comment or post your own stupid night stories.

    Peace.

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    What a night andrew any other man would've probably taken advantage of the situation but you were a true gentleman.Just remember its always best not to mix things.In the past I had a few bad experiences and Ive learnt my lesson.Always stick to the massage places and avoid getting personal with them.Good luck

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    What a night! I think once the immediate emotional impact wears off, you'll look back at this and laugh.
    No one got hurt, although she may have had a bitch of a hangover the next day, but that should be the extent of the real damage.
    If you like this girl, I think you should try again, but tell her in no uncertain terms that this time, it will be on your terms. If she's never done any outcall before, she may have been very nervous and was obviously unable to handle the situation properly.

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    No way! Your funny beyond any reason and the life of the party! Not weird at all, just carefree....

    You had quite the evening andreww770, just be thankful she did not drink so much she had to have medical treatment. How big was this bottle you bought???? Had she been drinking before you met up? Alcohol effects some in different ways also.
    Quote Originally Posted by Alyssa Roze View Post
    Damn!!! i thought i was weird when i am drunk

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    Quote Originally Posted by andreww770 View Post
    1) You never know just how stable a person might be
    2) Never let the girl influence your choice for a room.
    3) Never get a full bottle of champagne when you plan on leaving 2 hours later
    4) Never let a girl drink 3/4 of this bottle in less than an hour
    5) Don't pay the chick when she's drunk.
    6) Just don't do any of the stuff I did because I feel like an idiot.
    -1- so true ... but if u had the chance to know her maybe a little bit more I think its very likely u could have had an idea especially about alcohol

    -2- Yup agree Never let the girl go at desk w u... Did that once w 2 girls... they were drunk and laughing and loud... lolll result was the receptionnist told me ... "Am sorry I dont have any room left" and it was obviously not true ... lolll SO next I was at Chablis St-Jacques and I ordered those 2 to fucking stay in the car ! LOL

    -3- Oh ... hum ... (joke) Nah Henkell is in no way a champagne its only white wine w some bubble gas
    I mean its called sparkling wine... from germany and in no hell germans can do champagne they are only good at beers !!!
    Adam Henkell was an exception as he founded Henkell & co in 1832 to make sparkling wine à la champenoise.
    Depends on you and obviously the girl... And hum yup 3/4 of a 11.5° 750ml alcohol bottle is usually too much for a woman
    All in all at 30$ its not so bad as its 15$ at SAQ (champagne starts at 50$)

    -4- yup ... always have an eye on the bottle !

    -5- You were a gentleman to pay her / to help her / to carry her / to stay calm and so on ... yup despite all this mess !
    Alcohol make ppl do stupid things and luckily for some ... they dont remember next morning but others do

    -6- Bah DONT feel like an idiot !!!
    If only u knew ... lolll
    I had to help a wasted and drunk girl peeing in the middle of the street ... at 3am !
    And I didnt feel like an idiot she would certainly have done it in my car or on herself... At least that time she didnt vomit in the car !

    Thanks for sharing your experience !

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    Quote Originally Posted by THEHITMAN View Post
    What a night andrew any other man would've probably taken advantage of the situation but you were a true gentleman.Just remember its always best not to mix things.In the past I had a few bad experiences and Ive learnt my lesson.Always stick to the massage places and avoid getting personal with them.Good luck
    Well, you know, we were casually friendly with the massages so I thought it would be fun. The truth is that in the confines of an MP, there's very little that can go wrong. Going on a field trip in R/L on the other hand is a crazy thing. I hardly consider myself a gentleman. I mean I was paying her to have sex with her but I couldn't just ditch her either. She couldn't take 5 steps without falling down and she would have ended up dead in a gutter if I had ditched her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HG Hunter View Post
    What a night! I think once the immediate emotional impact wears off, you'll look back at this and laugh.
    No one got hurt, although she may have had a bitch of a hangover the next day, but that should be the extent of the real damage.
    If you like this girl, I think you should try again, but tell her in no uncertain terms that this time, it will be on your terms. If she's never done any outcall before, she may have been very nervous and was obviously unable to handle the situation properly.
    Sorry HG. I'm not repeating with her ever again. I can't tell her how to live her life and her character would not tolerate that either. It just didn't turn out the way I would have liked and I wasn't sure what I was going to do with her had she passed out on me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lgna69xxx View Post
    No way! Your funny beyond any reason and the life of the party! Not weird at all, just carefree....

    You had quite the evening andreww770, just be thankful she did not drink so much she had to have medical treatment. How big was this bottle you bought???? Had she been drinking before you met up? Alcohol effects some in different ways also.

    She didn't strike me as a drinker. You can normally smell that kind of thing or sense it by their balance and speech. The bottle was a standard size bottle but I'm no expert. I called it champagne and it was in fact sparkling wine. She did down a lot of it in a short time though.

    The whole medical treatment side was worrying me but she was just going down, not turning green from alcohol poisoning.
    I was so relieved to get her home. I was worried I was going to drive around the city all night with her with all those cops on the road.

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    Andrew you didn't break any laws and nobody really got hurt. You did what many of us have fanasized about doing with a MP that we really liked and got along with.
    I think that she should be given the benefit of the doubt. She could of been taking antibiotics for a cold which becomes a toxic solution when mixed with alcohol. She's only human and gets to mess up once in a while like the rest of us. She impressed me when she refused your money.
    Maybe she deserves a second chance ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alyssa Roze View Post
    ...telling him some unspeakable things i would do to him in a single sms..lol
    Oh yeah,

    You can speak them to me. I'm far from Montreal and could use some inspiration. Just a little PM. Especially in German. There's something about dirty talk gesprochen in Deutscher sprache von einem wunderschönen Blondine that is so exciting. WOOF!

    Quote Originally Posted by andreww770 View Post
    ...what was one of the shittiest nights I've ever had in my life.
    This reminds me of a combination of nights and events. What is it about some women that the more ridiculous they act and the more you try to get away from them the more they seem to want to be closer? The worst the situation becomes the more they cling onto you...in some cases.

    Yeah, later on you will laugh and shake your head over this. If she gets this weird over some light weight drink, considering how hard it was on you maybe you don't want to see her again. Otherwise keep as much control of your decisions over being around her as possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by Guido View Post
    She could of been taking antibiotics for a cold which becomes a toxic solution when mixed with alcohol.
    I made the same unknowing mistake once and ended up puking from a car. That sucked huge.

    Quote Originally Posted by Guido View Post
    She impressed me when she refused your money. Maybe she deserves a second chance ?
    If she did it consciously, not in a drunken emotional haze little knowing what she did.

    Good luck,

    Merlot

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    Except in England, you rarely see drunk girls in Europe, but in North America... Ouch... I spent a quarter in an US University, and alcohol was really one of the best way for boys to convince girls to have sex with her... I think there is a lot of taboo about sex in this continent, thats probably why alcohol and sex are sometimes linked (need to drink to Disinhibit)..

    Anyway, maybe it could seem a little bit old school but I really hate girls who dont know her limits about alcohol, and there is nothing more pathetic than a drunk girl. A feminist would say, "hey dont you think guys are pathetics when they are drunk ?" I would answer that I dont think progress for women mean having the right to be as pathetic as a men or do exactly the same stupidities, women deserve better than being a copy of men..
    Find what you love, and let it kill you...

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    And my opinion about what happened is that this girl wasnt ready to have sex for money. SHe tried to find all the possible excuses to make you say "ok stop you piss nme off !" before having sex (car park, exigeances about the room, hairs undone), when she understood it was to late, she drank to forget, and when it was time to pay she told you she didnt want your money and convinced herself it was like a date (thats why she said "I love you" when drunk).. This girl wasnt ready, and maybe you should have spot all the subliminal warning she sent to you...
    Find what you love, and let it kill you...

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    She knew what she was getting into if she over drank and started tumbling falling I would've left her there wasted your time and money the worst thing is she didn't even bother to call you the following day to ask what happened if she remembers?No apology for acting stupid and ruining the evening or thanking you for taking care of her times have changed not like how it used to be sigh

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    Quote Originally Posted by THEHITMAN View Post
    ...I would've left her there wasted...
    The only problem with that is if she damaged the Motel room, he would've been held responsible.

    Andreww, putting her in a cab and giving her cab fare would have been what most guys would do.
    The fact that you stuck with it to ensure that you got her home safely, proves what kind of stand-up guy you are.

    I did that with a co-worker one time who had too much to drink at the office X-Mas party. She wouldn't take cab fare from me, so I rode with her on the metro and made sure she got on her bus safely. I would have gotten on the bus with her but she absolutely refused.
    Did she appreciate it and say "thank you", the next Monday at work? Of course not. She was creeped out and thought I was trying to go home with her (despite the fact that I knew she still lived at home with her parents.

    The moral of this story? No good deed goes unpunished.

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    Hitman, I would be agree if we talked about a 40yo guy with a stable life... But here we talk about a young girl who provides massage to win money... IMO when you convince such an amateur girl to have sex in a hotel, you have to be prepared to spend this kind of night.. (Even if Andrew finaly react like a gentleman)

    Girls girls girls... Sometimes they want something but say no, sometimes they dont want but say yes, you have to be aware of the subliminal message they send.. For me this girl sent a huge amount of subliminal messages to him before getting uncontroled : she clearly didnt want to have sex for money...
    Find what you love, and let it kill you...

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