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    Question Repeat or not to repeat?...

    It is the first time I post in the lounge. There is something I would like to know: what do you think about repeating with a MP or a SP? I tend to stick to a regular for massage and basic option. For MPs with more opened options or SPs, I never repeated except with one girl with whom a friendship developed.. Do I miss something?... Thanks, I think it might be interesting to share about this.

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    I think repeating with a SP or MP you had a good time with provides a likelihood that:

    1. You will have a good time in subsequent meetings
    2. The SP or MP will appreciate your repeat meeting and give you an even better time
    3. You develop a friendship with the SP or MP. I am not saying that it will get beyond the SP / client relationship, but you may share some light moments together
    4. Repeating with good providers you enjoy lowers the chances of bad experiences
    So when will Hillary go to Prison?

    Only the Democrats would have a potential CONVICT as their Top Presidential Candidate. Simply Pathetic

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    I appreciate your answer and the fact that it comes from someone with experience. I sure understand ( share?... ) your point but, with a well made TDL and sure recommandations, it postpones or makes you miss meetings with other girls that might be very enjoyable too... Not repeating, the plus could be the novelty or discovery aspect. On the other side, the turnover there is in that industry might be a reason for repeating while a girl is still available.. For me, there is a dilemna there... That is why I would like to know from experienced people if, in real life, they think they got more benefit by repeating or by not repeating..
    Last edited by Mod 11; 12-14-2012 at 02:24 PM.

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    It depends what you look for in the hobby, if you want to experience as many different sexual stimuli as you can while you can either physically or financially,then go for the notches on your pistols, you if want to enjoy the facsimile of a relationship without the hassle of seduction and dealing with pms moods like in a real life relation, then go for the repeat, both have their appeal...it really depends of you...

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    Moi je prefere avoir une reguliere, le booking est plus facile, elle me connait deja, il y a plus de chimie, c'est plus agreable, plus amical, plus comme relation fuckfriends mais avec $$$, les conversations sont plus agreables etc... c'est plus GFE/BFE. Je trouve qu'il a une grande difference que quand on change regulierement de SP, pour moi il faut que ca clique entre les 2 sinon ce ne sera pas aussi satisfaisant.

    Je suis en couple mais c'est comme avoir une maitresse mais sans les sentiments amoureux.
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    Exactement! Mais chacuns est différents et je suis sure que c'est la meme chose pour les sp, celles qui sont la juste pour faire de l'argent vite sans chercher a connaitre leurs ''amis'' vont probablemnt trouver plus simple de rencontrer des nouveaux qu'elles oublient après ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by p90sert View Post
    .....c'est comme avoir une maitresse mais sans les sentiments amoureux.

    Je pense qu'à bien des niveaux, c'est mieux que d'avoir une maîtresse, tu es sûre qu'elle ne t'appelleras pas chez-vous, entre autre... ou te fera des exigences de quitter ta femme ou autre...

    C'est bel et bien une des plus belles ententes entre hommes & femmes où il se passe le moins de bullshit.
    C'est très honnête de part et d'autre. On sait où l'on s'en va et ce qu'on attend un de l'autre.




    Apprenti:

    Fais-le comme tu le penses, puis rien ne t'empêche t'avoir une "régulière" et de butiner de temps-en-temps aussi...

    La vie est remplie de possibilités.

    Last edited by Maria Divina; 12-14-2012 at 11:41 AM.

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    Je lui dit bien souvent, je suis fidele avec ma SP
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyForYou View Post
    It depends what you look for in the hobby, if you want to experience as many different sexual stimuli as you can while you can either physically or financially,then go for the notches on your pistols, you if want to enjoy the facsimile of a relationship without the hassle of seduction and dealing with pms moods like in a real life relation, then go for the repeat, both have their appeal...it really depends of you...
    Thank you, Lily. As usual, you bring an interesting point. For me, time is a factor ( late fifties ) and I got out not so long ago of a very unsatisfying relation ( I assume it, it was my decision to stay to long ). I've been with a lot of women in my life ( probably close to 150 ), most of them before hobbying . I would say 1/3 of them through the hooby in the last 5 years. I know that I don't want a facsimile of relation, like you wrote. Maybe I would involve again in a relation, door is not completely closed, but I can't with a woman who doesn't attract me. So, from your point, conclusion is go and have fun...

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    Apprenti: Fais-le comme tu le penses, puis rien ne t'empêche t'avoir une "régulière" et de butiner de temps-en-temps aussi... La vie est remplie de possibilités.

    Merci à toi aussi Maria. Pleine de sagesse, je l'avais déjà remarqué... Un problème, bien réel par contre, c'est qu'il est arrivé assez régulièrement que je trouve les demoiselles bien attachantes. Pour moi, la chimie est un aspect important de la rencontre mais qui peut s'avérer dérangeant ensuite. Je sais, détachement, mais pas nécessairement toujours évident...

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    Quote Originally Posted by p90sert View Post
    Moi je prefere avoir une reguliere, le booking est plus facile, elle me connait deja, il y a plus de chimie, c'est plus agreable, plus amical, plus comme relation fuckfriends mais avec $$$, les conversations sont plus agreables etc... c'est plus GFE/BFE. Je trouve qu'il a une grande difference que quand on change regulierement de SP, pour moi il faut que ca clique entre les 2 sinon ce ne sera pas aussi satisfaisant.

    Je suis en couple mais c'est comme avoir une maitresse mais sans les sentiments amoureux.
    There were 3 SP's I saw many times. One was Karin of LFMJ. She has long since retired, but I was captivated by her beauty. But in repeating with her, I found that she was turned on that I wanted to see her each time. And she became increasingly sensual with me. There was no way she saw me as a potential boyfriend, etc. One, although she spoke English well enough to communicate in simple conversation, she was very frustrated if we discussed any subject that was involved. She felt limited in what she could express in English. Two, she had a guy friend her age from the University she was attending which she did not call her boyfriend, but she "enjoyed" herself with sexually.

    I repeated several times with Karin and the other 2 because I enjoyed them. There were no fantasies of being their lovers. I just felt that the sensuality increased with each meeting. I only repeat because the first meeting went very well, and then subsequent meetings went even better.

    I have repeated with others and if the meetings were about the same or not as good, I would not repeat again. So I think repeats are reserved for those who you experience the best sessions.
    So when will Hillary go to Prison?

    Only the Democrats would have a potential CONVICT as their Top Presidential Candidate. Simply Pathetic

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    Thanks Daydreamer, pretty interesting . Up to now, I really enjoyed reading the comments. I think they also illustrate a mutual respect from both sides.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyForYou View Post
    ...if you want to experience as many different sexual stimuli as you can while you can either physically or financially,then go for the notches on your pistols, you if want to enjoy the facsimile of a relationship without the hassle of seduction and dealing with pms moods like in a real life relation, then go for the repeat, ...
    I couldn't have said this better.

    There's also the issue or "reliability" and making sure you get the most out of your escort dollar.

    If you're into different experiences, then go for a new girl each time.

    But if you want "reliable" experiences where you feel comfortable from the get-go, go for repeats.

    When you repeat with an SP, if you have a positive relationship, then there's a trust/comfort level you have that you just don't have with one-timers. With one-timers, she has to figure out what works for you, you have to figure out what works for her. With repeats, you get to know one another's likes/dislikes and it can make a session go a lot smoother. Plus, you never know if your personality is going to "click" with a new girl. If you choose your repeat wisely, you'll choose someone you'll actually enjoy talking to between SOGs.

    So, in other words, I don't have a lot of cash to throw into this hobby so I like to make sure that when I'm paying for a lady's companionship, that I can be assured that I'm going to enjoy that time as much as possible; as opposed to the crap-shoot you get every time you call a new escort.

    That's not to say you can't have the best of both worlds. Go for your repeat(s) when you want to be assured of having a good time and go for a new one-timer once in a while just to spice things up with something new and exciting. It's your money, you can do whatever you want with it.

    And that's not so say that you have to stick with ONE repeat SP. If you're got the time and money, you may want to cultivate a few of these escort "relationships". The problem with putting all of your eggs in one basket with only one go-to escort is two-fold: 1) If she's booked, you can be left feeling horny and frustrated; and 2) Eventually she might take you for granted and stop making an effort (which is kind of what happened to me a long time ago).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Apprenti View Post

    Merci à toi aussi Maria. Pleine de sagesse, je l'avais déjà remarqué...
    C'est gentil, merci à toi. xx

    Un problème, bien réel par contre, c'est qu'il est arrivé assez régulièrement que je trouve les demoiselles bien attachantes. Pour moi, la chimie est un aspect important de la rencontre mais qui peut s'avérer dérangeant ensuite. Je sais, détachement, mais pas nécessairement toujours évident...
    Alors, je peux te suggérer une autre combinaison: 2 ou 3 régulières.

    1- Tu es plus sûr d'en avoir une de libre au moment où tu le désires.
    2- L'effet d'attachement devrait être plus difficile à se créer.

    Puis, en plus, si tu en connais 2 qui le veulent, tu peux vivre alors des duos avec tes "régulières"...

    Comme je dis, il y plein de possibilités dans la vie...


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    Eventually she might take you for granted and stop making an effort (which is kind of what happened to me a long time ago).
    Thanks PMikey. I had thought of this possibility too. The wife or girlfriend syndrome...

    Merci encore, Maria. Tu es encore tombée dans le mille: je pensais aux duos, quelque chose que je n'ai jamais vécu encore.

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