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    Is language a barrier of some sorts for you guys?

    Im just curious...you can say maybe its my imagination but i would like to know since most of you guys are english speaking as first language...

    I saw 2 english escorts so far... out of my 20 different escorts... and one was a below average experience, the other one was ok but so mechanical.... (like... ok you paid for cim/swallow, so tell me when your to cum so i know...pay first then sex and no kissing, no friendly attitude, yet very good sex) so honestly im starting to think chemistry is hard with english speaking escort or i dunno... Not saying i had just SUPER GOOD experience with quebec girl, but i felt it was easier to chat... and sometimes i see you guys reporting a bad chemitry maybe because of the language barrier... So im just asking... could this really be a role...?

    Im starting to think i should avoid english speaking girls... even tough i can hold a conversation, of course im more natural in french... i would like to know what you guys think about it and maybe know if it can be a factor why some of you have meetings below your standards(maybe because you don't speak french)
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    I stick with English speaking SP's, I like to have some sort of conversation before the meeting starts even if it is for only 10 min. I had a SP that spoke zero English and with my minimal French it was not too good of an encounter, for a 1/2 hour quicky and go it may work.

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    I'm still very nervous when I visit with SP's. I think a severe language barrier would push it into creepy/exploitative realm for me, and I don't find that arousing at all, so I ask for English speakers On the other hand, I can still see the appeal of communicating strictly through other means.

    In the U.S., there are a lot of reviews of the "geisha experience" with Asian SPs, where the whole time is scripted and both participants pretty mush know how it goes from steps 1 through 10. I still don't know if that would work for me.

    BTW HMike: Your written English is very, very good. I had no idea it wasn't your first language!

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    I am indeed not bad at writing it, but speaking it is different, i know the words and all, but sometimes im searching my words and i got that GSP accent too(well maybe not as bad :P). I was better before as i was speaking it more, lately not so much. In any case i find it easier to chat with a full french quebec girl when i open the door...
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    Mke my french has gone down the tubes...after a weekend in Montreal it comes back a little...I do better reading than speaking as I can take my time....I enjoy a bi lingual sp...like to practice my francise..

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    I speak very little to no French but some of the best encounters that I have had have been with SP's that speak very little to no English, I don't know what it is but I seem to connect with SP's when there is a language barrier.

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    I speak very little to no French but like my escorts to be able to communicate in English even if French is their 1st language. I am not a wham bam thank you Ma'am kind of a guy and I prefer longer dates with ladies who can at least hold a conversation in English.

    I have had some very good experiences with native Anglophone escorts in Montreal, among them ex-Hannah of FKS (2011), Brittany of XXXtase (2010), Emely of Eleganza (2006), and a few others. There is another girl from FKS I saw last year, can't remember her name, mixed race, also an Anglophone who was very good. I recall Emmanuelle of Eleganza (2007) speaking excellent English but cannot recall if she was a native Anglophone or Francophone.

    My last trip to Montreal I met (socially at a GT) Melye of Good Girls, a French Canadian lady who spoke good English and impressed me to the point where I want to book her multi hours when I return to Montreal. Her ability to communicate with me in English has been tested, and she passed the test with honors.

    It really does not matter as long as they can communicate with me in my native tongue.

    Halloween Mike, how do you say wham bam thank you Ma'am in French? Is there such an expression? How about "trick or treat"? Is that an expression in French?
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    i speak French and haven't had many problems. only one girl I met was giving me a hard time. but that was it.
    I've met a few French girls from miss sexy chicks and they were pretty nice.
    some French girls try really hard to understand what you want when you speak English to them. that's from experience.

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    French is my first language, but i have had some very good times with english speaking girls. When i'm well rested i'm rather fluent but i may look for my words when i'm tired, even though i understand everything. Meeting french speaking girls is somewhat different, maybe more natural for me, but i can't say it's better. Both can be great...or bad.

    I had my share of experience in China, where the girls are not speaking english at all (or in very rare occasion). Considering i can't speak chinese, it was sometimes awkward, but always ended in great sex.

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    My experience is that most Quebecoise girls speak a little English. Once or twice I have come across a gal with a total bitch attitude but that was her attitude and not something I attribute to the language barrier. Majority of Quebec women kick ass and those gals with marginal or piss poor attitudes I just toss up to the risk of mongering which is by far better in Montreal any where that I have found.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver View Post

    Halloween Mike, how do you say wham bam thank you Ma'am in French? Is there such an expression? How about "trick or treat"? Is that an expression in French?
    I don't think there an expression for the first one literaly, but wham bam can be said in french then Merci M'dame (wich is ma'am in french) and it keep the rhyme... For the other one its "des bonbons ou un sort" thats what i heard in american movies translated in french, wich means candis or a spell... but in quebec we don't say "tick or threat" really... at least when i was young and did the halloween run there was no such thing, that was more "candies please" in french.
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    I master both french and english, I can switch back and forth with ease. Now the language barrier I have is with female Asians in MP's but I can still a fun experience even the language barrier is there. If it's a bad experience, it's not because of the language, it is because of tact and attitude and limited service, but I have to admit sometimes I wish there was no language barrier because I enjoy Asian women.

    I have fun with all type of women coming from different ethnic background.

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    Nice to see the replies.. i never tried any asians or other countries much... Actually the only really foreign girl i had was from ireland, we talked a bit about her country but i felt she was not interested in sharing much.... so i didn't push... her english was top notch and it felt more or less like she was english canadian... I supose my experiences are too limited to make a real feedback on non-quebec girls... only 2 so far so well... im not closed to see an asian girl sometime, actually im just waiting for the right opportunity... same thing for a black girl. I would love to see a foreign girl too, but it seem there not that much real foreign, for exemple russians are very rare, germans too. I think maybe the chemistry would be better if we where both not speaking our main language and just do our best... oposed to what i experienced so far(girls speaking perfect english when i am not)

    In any case when it comes to french quebecoise, its just so easy to talk to them... hell sometimes i even realize i talk too much when i see there already 15 min spent and no action has started lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Halloween Mike View Post
    In any case when it comes to french quebecoise, its just so easy to talk to them... hell sometimes i even realize i talk too much when i see there already 15 min spent and no action has started lol
    Book longer dates, so that you are not squeezed for time and don't feel the pressure to get the action started. 2 hours, or 1.5.

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    Nah... first its too expensive, and second if im to pay 400$ i rather see 2 different girls, have a break between them to rejuice up lol. I always have time to SOG at least once, i was just saying i wish sometimes i wouldn't chat that much, been a while since i was able to SOG twice in an hour, but i know i could do it. Its just i chat and chat and damn sometimes its even the girl initiating the action, i think i should shut it up more lol but i guess it would be impolite to start to soon with an unknown girl. For a repeat i guess it would be easier.
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