I'm quite aware that this whole business is one big lie. If it wouldn't be for constant lying, you wouldn't have the escort business.
The girls lie to nearly everyone in their personal life in regards to being an sp. They often become a 'character' in order to 'work' and will make up stuff as they go along. Becoming a character (or at times adopting another personality) is how some are able to come with this 'profession'. They will lie to their friends & family about how they made the money they have, etc. Lies, lies, lies.
Agencies lie all the time. They lie to their girls, they lie to their drivers, they lie to their clients, they lie to the government, they lie, lie, lie.
Clients are no better. They are in fact possibly the biggest liars of the whole bunch. Most of the johns lie to their families, friends & acquaintances about what goes on when they travel to Mtl. They even lie to themselves! They'll find many excuses to justify what their doing.....to justify that they've come at a point in their lives where they must pay $$ to young women in order to get laid. They'll often tell themselves & to others that they don't really need to pay for sex. That they pay for sex because they don't have much spare time on their hands to socialize....that it's makes more sense to pay in order to get laid instead of getting involved in relationships that will likely fail....that they resort to paying prostitutes only because their wives don't put out. Or, another popular one: i also sleep with women outside the 'hobby' which i don't have to pay. Yeah.....a decade or so ago, maybe!
The 'clients' will often lie right through their teeth whenever they happen to speak with an sp or the agency. Many will make up fictional names, fictional professions & fictional details about themselves. You might have an insurance broker claiming to an sp that he's a lawyer. You might have a cop claiming to the sp he's a fireman (hey, cops are as horny or lonely as anyone else & need some tlc or to get laid too, right?). The male nurse telling the sp he's a doctor. The guy who's struggling to pay his bills telling the sp he's a multimillionaire, etc. Yes, many clients lie to themselves.....and many believe their own lies!
Speaking for myself, i treat sps with respect....like i'd expect to be treated. Considering i'm the one giving them a few hundred $$ in order for them to come & see me at my place, they've earned my respect. It's not an easy job & many of the young sps will later regret ever entering this world.....and many regret this while already being in it. The large majority of 'clients' that i have met over the years would never want, nor be able to work as an sp. Some claim they'd like doing it, but don't realize that in most cases, you don't get to 'pick and chose'. The 'boss' gives the driver an address, you get driven to that same address, and most of the time, you have no idea who's standing behind the door & how the 'encounter' will go. And an hour or so later, the whole process starts over until you're driven back home in the wee hours of morning, exhausted & feeling sore all over. Hard to believe, but that's how it goes.....
During an encounter, i'll try to make my guest feel comfortable and safe while she's in my presence. I try to be myself....easygoing, funny at times & chatty if i need to be. I will never rush my guest into getting to the 'main event'. I'll let her ask questions & listen to what she says. If she wants to volunteer some things about herself, i'll listen to what she has to say & maybe ask a question or two if she allows me to. We are both aware that this is a business transaction, after all, but it doesn't hurt to make things easier for the both of you & what i've found over the years is that treating someone with respect has its dividends.