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How was your first time with a SP ?

Gsxr

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Hello everyone!

I've been reading merb for some time now and finally registered a couple of days ago, as I'm pretty close to meeting a SP for the first time. I just turned 27 and I've been curious eversince me and my work buddies talked about escorts a while ago (turns out I was the only guy at work that had never try it...). I've been single for a few months now so it's been a while since I had sex, now would be the perfect time to finally meet one :p

But anyway, back on topic. How was your first time with a SP ? Were you disappointed or did you wish you had try one earlier ? I'm also wondering whether or not it's okay to give flowers to a SP! I'm not sure about it since flowers are usually something you give to a person you love, but I'm just trying to be a gentleman here and let the lady know rightaway I'm not a scumbag.

And last question, this is gonna sound stupid and I guess I could use the Search tool but I'm wondering. When you open up the door and say hello, do you usually give her 2 greeting kisses on the cheeks, do you shake her hand (I'm a noob, don't laugh!), or does she kisses you straight on the mouth?

Thanks for the replies and sorry mods if somehow my thread happens to be a repost or something.
 

hungry101

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Hello everyone!

. How was your first time with a SP ? .Were you disappointed or did you wish you had try one earlier ? .
Disappointed - but this was not in Montreal. So far, just about everytime I spent the going rate from a reputable Montreal agencyl I have been pleased

I'm also wondering whether or not it's okay to give flowers to a SP! .
Give her the going rate and a 20$ tip if you are real pleased. bring a bottle of wine.

When you open up the door and say hello, do you usually give her 2 greeting kisses on the cheeks, do you shake her hand (I'm a noob, don't laugh!), or does she kisses you straight on the mouth? .
Try the french customary kiss on each cheek if you are comfortable with this.

Do's
Read reviews and find out who the reputable agencies are
Pick out a list of girls you would like to see
Be willing to try non-reviewed girls from reputable agencies
Select an escort friendly hotel
Shower or bath an hour prior to the date - use a wash cloth
Trim your nails
SHAVE OR TRIM YOUR PUBES Prior to Your trip to Montreal!!!!!!
gargle with mouth wash/Chew gum (do not floss or brush just prior to your meeting)
Put on a clean pair of underwear and deoderant
take a Viagra 20 minutes prior to the date (or Cialis that morning) if you need these
Clean up the room
Put on some background music - drown out the sounds of pleasure
Have drinks available - a sealed bottle of red wine with wine glasses and an opener handy
Water and soda for after the date
Invite her in and offer her a drink - I like to get to know her a little prior to the act.
If you want her to wear stockings etc bring them for her.

Don'ts
Try to find girls that will work for less on CL - pay the going rate -160$-200$
Eat a heavy meal prior to your meeting
Eat garlic or onions or anything stinky
Have more than one drink (don't be hammered waiting for your date)
Attack her before she gets in the door - let her warm up to you a little
Try to stick your tounge down a girl's throat if you dont know how to kiss



She will probably be at least 1/2 hour late or so. Be prepared to wait! Please provide us with a review and good luck!

disclaimer - I would like to add that I am by no means an expert but this is what has worked for me.
 
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Dragonatic

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I find it funny how some guys are so serious when hobbying...

I mean, if I invite a girl that I dated in a bar (or anywhere else..) its sure that I will have a nice wine bottle and all those things to have a great moment with her. Cause if you dated her you most of the time want to go deeper in the relationship. But when hobbying, well... just face it. You pay a girl to fuck. Why all those wine bottle or flowers or gift.... She just do her job and you have the service. Wine or not, you pay her to fuck so you will fuck her.

Some people think its stupid to think this way but I just face the reality. I'm not going on a date, I'm paying an SP! Just give her a tips if you really enjoyed your moment with her, be polite and nice then both will be happy. ;)
 

Gsxr

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I find it funny how some guys are so serious when hobbying...

I mean, if I invite a girl that I dated in a bar (or anywhere else..) its sure that I will have a nice wine bottle and all those things to have a great moment with her. Cause if you dated her you most of the time want to go deeper in the relationship. But when hobbying, well... just face it. You pay a girl to fuck. Why all those wine bottle or flowers or gift.... She just do her job and you have the service. Wine or not, you pay her to fuck so you will fuck her.

Some people think its stupid to think this way but I just face the reality. I'm not going on a date, I'm paying an SP! Just give her a tips if you really enjoyed your moment with her, be polite and nice then both will be happy. ;)

Good point! But on the other hand, perhaps the lady will be happy to see a bottle of wine or a gift for her and will provide better service ? (PS: maybe a member with more experience could comment on the subject)
 

hungry101

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Gsxr - This is what I do to ensure that I will have a good time and enjoy myself. I think you are on the right track with this one. If she enjoys herself than you will enjoy yourself. You can approach it like the Dragon or approach it like I do. Its up to you.
 

Dragonatic

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Good point! But on the other hand, perhaps the lady will be happy to see a bottle of wine or a gift for her and will provide better service ? (PS: maybe a member with more experience could comment on the subject)

This is what you think! ;)

Some girls will be more "open" or have a "better" service after the wine but that is just the alcool's effect. Not because you gave her some wine... :)

Well, since my sister was an SP for over 10 years she told me everytimes that like I said, since shes not in a "dating mood" the fact that the guy give her some wine or gifts will do nothing... its just a client like any other guys...

The only thing that CAN cause to have a better service from her is the way you are with her (polite, nice, not act like an old horny pervert...) and not the things you give her like wine or gifts...;)

If she enjoys herself than you will enjoy yourself. You can approach it like the Dragon or approach it like I do. Its up to you.

You will enjoy yourself even if shes not enjoying herself..... Dammit! You are not in a one night but with a girl that do her job! Its her job to make you feel good so yes, she will be happy if she enjoy herself too but even if its not the case she will not let you know and will do like she is enjoying herself! Its her job!! ;)


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metoo4

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If only I knew...
First time was in 2005 or early 2006. The girl came-in slightly drunk. She was partying when she got called-in to see me. She didn't seemed to mind and did a pretty good job but I was so nervous I couldn't perform very well.
She was blabbing non-stop and getting confused in her stories because she was so drunk. That was funny in a way. She asked me if I liked my hour and I told her I loved it even if it would have been more interesting if she was not half drunk. She pretended being offended and jumped back on me offering to stay one more hour, free of charges so she could show me she wasn't that drunk. I was so nervous, I refused... Damn.

2 comment on Hungry101's recommendations:
- Brushing your teeth: never before an encounter, or do it a few hours before. The toothbrush causes scratches that could become an entry point for STI. Same with dental floss. Use mouthwash a few minutes before she show-up and chew gum while you wait instead.
- Shaving your pube: same as the teeth for the STI risk. And if you cut yourself, even if you shave earlier in the morning, it look bad and some girls might get repulsed by a big scratch. Don't forget, not all girls like shaved pube, same as not all guys like bare pussies. Ensuring it's clean, smell-free and not looking like a jungle is going to be ok with most girls.

Dragonatic, not all guys only want a hole to put their tool in. Personally, if I can tell the girl isn't enjoying herself, I'll get turned off. Same thing if she's overdoing it to the point it's visible she's faking. Genuine pleasure is what I hope the girl is experiencing but if she can act it good enough to convince me, that's ok with me!
 
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Cruiser777

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When you open up the door and say hello, do you usually give her 2 greeting kisses on the cheeks, do you shake her hand, or does she kisses you straight on the mouth?

Hello Gsxr

My approach is very similar to Hungry101 and seems to be working very nicely,
I like to have my wine, usually I have a glass before she arrives just to have
a little buzz and 95% of the time they would join you drinking the wine.
(Or any other drink you may offer).

I have met some ladies in the past who brought some kind of alcohol with them....
and when I asked why, they said ahh the previous clients didn't have anything...

Make sure you start with the better reviewed girls to avoid disappointment.

And as for greeting, usually its the chick to chick BUT when you really like
a girl and repeat with her, prepare for some heavy DFK as soon as she
walks in and sees you remembering you treated her very nicely the first time.
 

rumpleforeskiin

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SHAVE YOUR PUBES!!!!!!
take a Viagra 20 minutes prior to the date (or Cialis that morning)
Some of hungry's advice is good, most one would hope is unnecessary, and the above is downright silly.
Why he would choose the silliest of the silly to put in all caps is beyond me. I'd love to hear his rationale for this. I've never done such a silly thing and I've made love to many dozens of women both in and out of the hobby without issue.

As for the Viagra, I'd also like to ask why he'd recommend this to a 27 year old man. Certainly if you have a hard on problem, go ahead, but otherwise, why?
Personally, I'm more than twice your age and the only time I've ever used it is during a binge with a dozen or so young women over four days in a German club.

Oh, yeah, he left out the most important piece of advice: relax and have fun. And don't fall in love any quicker than you can fall out of love.
 

hungry101

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I think Metoo4 has a point about brushing and shaving...I should have said shave or trim your pubes prior to coming to Montreal and he is probablly correct about skipping brushing and chew gum and gargle prior to that knock on your door.

Rumple - I put in a disclaimer on my post that I am not an expert and this is what has worked for me. I used to look like Buckwheat from the Little Rascals down there. I started to trim my pubes after a SP gagged on a pube. I decided to shave because that it what I liked of an SP. I am getting much better BJs and enjoying myself more. This has worked for me.
 

rumpleforeskiin

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Rumple - I put in a disclaimer on my post that I am not an expert and this is what has worked for me. I used to look like Buckwheat from the Little Rascals down there. I started to trim my pubes after a SP gagged on a pube. I decided to shave because that it what I liked of an SP. I am getting much better BJs and enjoying myself more. This has worked for me.
This is, in women, a generational thing, I believe. I've never had sex with a woman born before 1970 who shaved her bush. I've never had sex with a woman born after 1970 who didn't.

I must confess that the quality of the service I get from the women I meet has been quite satisfactory. If I were to give this young man another piece of advice it would be to make sure that you're giving her a good time. The more fun she has, the more fun you will.

What I hear from SPs is that the older the client is, the more likely he is to be aware of her pleasure.
 

Jman47

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This is, in women, a generational thing, I believe. I've never had sex with a woman born before 1970 who shaved her bush. I've never had sex with a woman born after 1970 who didn't.

I must confess that the quality of the service I get from the women I meet has been quite satisfactory. If I were to give this young man another piece of advice it would be to make sure that you're giving her a good time. The more fun she has, the more fun you will.

What I hear from SPs is that the older the client is, the more likely he is to be aware of her pleasure.

My first experience - I felt kinda rushed (it was me) and little nervous. I made no real connection with the lady, but it was ok...probably a 5 on a 10 scale. Her ad (photos) was a little misleading, but like many of us I tried to make the best of the situation. She was not exactly my type but I made it work.

But since then and after the right find, oh la la :)


rumples,
Not sure I agree with your generational analysis on the shaving...;) but I would say the majority as the trend(based on your birth year observation) is probably accurate.

As Forrest Gump would say...quality is as quality does...or something like that. I remember being a young jerk and being self absorbed, but tried to never let that effect giving a good time to a lady. I always believed they should be treated well...:D

I think your advise is spot on concerning showing the lady a good time - always makes it more fun for both.
I also believe and agree with your observation about mature men. We are generally less self absorbed and more into enjoyment of the total situation.

We have to remember though...maturity and age are not always paired well...as some men never grow up and some are mature beyond their years...with the former being true more often than the later. ;)

I'm also wondering whether or not it's okay to give flowers to a SP! I'm not sure about it since flowers are usually something you give to a person you love, but I'm just trying to be a gentleman here and let the lady know rightaway I'm not a scumbag.

And last question, this is gonna sound stupid and I guess I could use the Search tool but I'm wondering. When you open up the door and say hello, do you usually give her 2 greeting kisses on the cheeks, do you shake her hand (I'm a noob, don't laugh!), or does she kisses you straight on the mouth?

Thanks for the replies and sorry mods if somehow my thread happens to be a repost or something.

Don't ever be afraid to give the lady a small gift...they usually appreciate it.
My opinion, a hug and greeting kiss is absolutely appropriate. Everyone needs to be comfortable. Offer her a drink and maybe even a snack.
Good luck, relax and have fun...it's refreshing to see someone a little younger who is concerned about the things you are...treat the ladies well.;):)


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talkinghead

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Whenever I see a thread like this I'm reminded of the days before the internet. You arrived in a hotel room and got out the yellow pages. If the city was big enough, you'd end up interpreting a series of ads, trying to intuit what each agency was like from the ad's language or even font. Needless to say it was hit or miss. Today, it's extraordinary--you can really find almost anything you're looking for, and come close to a sure thing. These are the good old days, for sure.
 

Merlot

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Hello everyone!

But anyway, back on topic. How was your first time with a SP ? Were you disappointed or did you wish you had try one earlier ? I'm also wondering whether or not it's okay to give flowers to a SP! I'm not sure about it since flowers are usually something you give to a person you love, but I'm just trying to be a gentleman here and let the lady know rightaway I'm not a scumbag.

Hello Gsxr,

Dragonatic's way is just one approach. It suits him and there's nothing wrong with the straight money to sex way. It does help keep things uncomplicated between client and escort. Your very sensitive approach will be appreciated by most escorts. Possibly some may feel uneasy if they feel a client is the type that wants to get too close, or seems to be looking for something deeper than an encounter. But most will like your style. Many will be more at ease, and eventually there will be fringe benefits and special offers. Don't worry about what anyone else says. Just be you. I think the person you are projecting in your posts will get along well with escorts.

When you meet her just follow her lead. In most cases I take her hand and she leans in for the traditional French-style kisses (sometimes not a real kiss at all) on each cheek. From there things will take place naturally. See is likely to see you are a newbie. When my first saw that she seemed to relax. Seeing how nervous or uncertain I was about things she knew she could take the lead and not be pounced on like some guys do. She taught me a few things about hobbying and it was a fine first encounter.

Some like Dragontic will scoff at your approach. There is a hardcore element here that feels everything should be a service business encounter only and that everything else is "delusional"...a word you have probably seen several times already when reading. In a way they are partially right. If you let yourself get carried away and start thinking it's real then you may or will get used. But the scoffers lose a lot too. If you keep your head then the sensitive way has far more benefits. So be yourself and enjoy. :D

Good luck,

Merlot
 
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UK1976

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My first time was great ; in fact it was an "indy" of last year in October. I remember going to McDonald afterwards, relishing the good moment :D

My personal idea is : if you're a gentleman, you're more likely to have a good experience with them. Tipping the girl for me is just fine ; whatever floats your boats. Some escorts don't mind gifts. Some even have a wish-list on their websites.
 

PMikey

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I remember my first time...

...it was a long, long time ago.

I was nervous...not quite sure what was and wasn't allowed and who should make the first move.

I had a bottle of wine and some strawberries waiting when she arrived and we sat and talked for about 20 minutes before she suggested we adjourn to the bedroom.

She started with a sensual massage the eventually morphed into something else. I was treated like a king and her one goal was to please me. This set the bar for my standards on all SP encounters to follow.

Unfortunately she left the agency she was with. I tried a few other girls but none of them compared.

It was only by luck I saw a picture that might or might not be her on another agency's web site. I took a chance and was pleasantly rewarded for tracking her down. After that I was pretty much exclusive to her.

For several reasons, really:
  • She knew what I liked and I knew what she liked so no time wasted;
  • I felt totally comfortable with her;
  • because she gave the best damned GFE service I'd had before or since;
and, finally,
  • by limiting my exposure to different girls I was slightly cutting down my chance of nasty complications (nothing in this hobby is 100% completely safe, after all).

Eventually she started up her own agency and I followed along happily. As someone whose opinion she trusted, she encouraged me to try out all of her new girls and give her honest feedback. And I did so, which led to many interesting encounters. :D

A kind of rhythm was set up. Try out a new girl, back to old faithful. Try out a new girl, back to old faithful. In this way I had the best of both worlds: I got to try out new and interesting partners while still have the comfortable warmth of familiarity to fall back on.

Eventually, for reasons given in another thread, I retired from the hobby and lost track of her. Her agency has long since closed its doors and it's highly likely that she's retired from the business (it's hard for a 40-something to compete with the 20-somethings in the hard-body department).

But the memory of her still sets the standards for my sexual encounters, both in the hobby world and in the real world. ;)

God bless her and thanks for all of the memories.
 

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My first experience with a SP - read it all, it's funny, sad and pathetic

My first experience with an escort was this spring in Montreal. I’m from Toronto so I thought this would be a great chance to try something new. I booked a really cool downtown hotel that has at least a 4 star rating. I planned a four hour date – dinner and dessert.

I’m a middle-aged man, married for a long time. I’m social by nature, reasonably successful, and I present pretty well. I am comfortable around women as friends, socially, and professionally. I am pretty confident in myself and I don’t try too hard. All in all a pretty good package, imho.

Booked with an indy, who has since retired after about a 5-6 month stint as a sp. Beautiful girl, around 28 years old, educated, auburn hair, pretty face, awesome ass, and 36D breasts! I’d say she was about 5’7”. There were no reviews or even a mention of her on MERB. That did not concern me. I read a couple of glowing reviews from CERB, the board that only provides recommendations not reviews. I thought things were set. Emails back and forth with her seemed fine.

We meet for our date in the funky bar of my hotel. She’s dressed pretty plainly. Sweater and slim, maybe stretchy black pants tucked into average boots, somewhat scuffed. She mentioned that she dresses discretely on her website, so I guess this is what she meant. I could tell within 20 seconds that she was not into this “date” at all. No smiles, no flirting, no laughter. Ok I thought I’ll just charm her over dinner.

At a nice restaurant within walking distance of the hotel, we dined. Good food, even better wine. A nice California white because she preferred white rather than red. We talked, it was dull. More like a dinner with a colleague whom you didn’t have much in common with. She was educated and a mature student in a field sort of related to my profession. We talked about movies, music, that sort of stuff. I like arts and culture, so I’m not out of my element here. She was very interested in Japanese movies and directors. Pretty interesting stuff and not something I know much about. I was happy to listen. There was no chemistry whatsoever. Her body language was that of an uncomfortable person, leaning back. She spoke softly and was hard to hear.

Walking back to the hotel for the final two hours of our evening we simply walked side-by-side. The vibe I got was that she did not want to be seen on the street, at all. She seemed a little nervous. Up in the room, which she liked, things did not improve. She disrobed, kick-ass body. I moved in for a light kiss. No tongue or anything. What? No kissing? Oh, and stay away from those breasts. I asked about DATY. She said “Why would you want to do that?” I remained calm. She did a CBJ, for a while. It was fine, but my wife, who is an amateur btw, is much better. On to CG. What, we have to switch condoms I thought? It’s not like I came. I kept this comment to myself because I wanted to see where this was going. The next while, it could have been 45 minutes, we switched positions, changed condoms, and I did not come. Wow. It’s not hard to make me come. My dick had figured this girl out and knew the evening was a waste of time for both of us. Oh, and at one point I asked about DATO – just as a joke. I got a stern look.

Later, after I gave up and we laid on the bed, killing time and having some pillow talk, she loosened up a bit and laughed some. She was actually warmer then than at any other point during the evening. Warmer, but not really warm if you know what I mean.

Our time ended, she dressed and left. My balls were blue. I felt frustrated and upset. I didn’t sleep for hours. For whatever reason I may not have been her type, but she should have been more of a professional. I was never rude, unkind, or negative even as the evening was in its death spiral. I guess it was doomed from the beginning for reasons known only to her. Perhaps she just had a fight with boyfriend who didn’t know about her part-time job (she told me about the bf during our pillow talk). Maybe she didn’t like what she was doing with her life. It could be that she distrusts middle-aged men in Italian suits. Who knows?

She sent me an email a couple of days later with some recommendations on movies and Japanese cinema. I suppose that was kind of her. No mention of our evening and how it went. Wow.

I suppose I could have trashed her on MERB that evening. I wasn’t sleeping anyways. But, I just can’t do stuff like that. I’ll either tell her directly what I think, or I’ll keep it to myself. She was not evil, mean, or dangerous. She was, in my opinion, just not good at her job.

I moved on and have seen a number of sp’s since then, with much better success. There’s one in particular that I have an awesome time with and I see often and is very friendly, within the confines of our relationship. I’ve made a few mistakes along the way, but nowhere near like the one I made the first time.

So ladies and gentlemen, that’s the story of my first time. I hope you enjoyed it. Oh, and did I mention, I paid $1000 for the pleasure? You can stop laughing now.
 
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hungry101

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My first experience with an escort was this spring in Montreal. I’m from Toronto so I thought this would be a great chance to try something new. I booked a really cool downtown hotel that has at least a 4 star rating. I planned a four hour date – dinner and dessert.

So ladies and gentlemen, that’s the story of my first time. I hope you enjoyed it. Oh, and did I mention, I paid $1000 for the pleasure? You can stop laughing now.

Ouch! This is a horrer story! You could have seen 5 agency girls and shared a bottle of wine with each one of them. And you would of had a much better time! Thanks for the story though.
 
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