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ericmathew54

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So I'm sure this has been discussed in length but ill share this anyways. After seeing a sp twice she told me she wants to see me on an unprofessional basis. I thought yea right but sure enough we have been pursuing our "relationship " outside of the hobby. I still am not sure if there are n e string s attached but I'm enjoying riding the wave;)
Eric,
 

daydreamer41

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It's all up to you. You know what she does for a living. Do you mind? Is she doing it temporarily? Or longer term. But at the moment, you shouldn't be thinking that far and enjoy the ride.
 

joebarren

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how did you manage to hookup with an sp? i'm very interested in hooking up with one, as i don't mind what they do for a living.
 

ericmathew54

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Odlly enoughI wasn,t trying to hook up with her. She is a young university student and we really hit it off. It just kind of happened. She told me her job is just temporary for now (prob. like most sp's). It's still weird meeting her and not having to give a donation. I almost feel guilty when I leave! I don't really mind that she is an sp and I'm not really thinking longterm. I also feel weird being around her in public as I am at least 10 years older. Oh well...nothing to complain about right now. I am glad I dint review her before all this happend. Then I would have to share my GF with all you pervs...lol
 

Merlot

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how did you manage to hookup with an sp? i'm very interested in hooking up with one, as i don't mind what they do for a living.

Well,

During one of my encounters in July a very hot and "giving" SP told me basically she liked older men and was looking for someone to take care of her...IE...sugar daddy. Depending on your funding, I believe it doesn't take too long to "hookup", if that is what you are looking for. If not and you are looking for something "special", it would be wiser to avoid pouring out your funds if you are looking for a sincere relationship. Otherwise there have been plenty of young beautiful ladies willing to tolerate men usually not appealing to them at all for the advantages of money.

Good luck,

Merlot
 

CS Martin

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During one of my encounters in July a very hot and "giving" SP told me basically she liked older men and was looking for someone to take care of her...IE...sugar daddy......it would be wiser to avoid pouring out your funds if you are looking for a sincere relationship.... all for the advantages of money.

Ditto. Editted ONLY to save bandwidth. Been there, done that multiple times. Good luck, keep wallet closed.

One point of information: I do know of one instance where a "relationship" between former SP & client does appear to be working. While I have no extensive knowledge of the client, the SP was a very special lady.
 

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Oh, your bad... :lol:
i was a little perplexed at the point of your original post. "does this guy have a point or is he just braggin?just cuz you dint post her name dunt mean we all havnt shared her plenty of times already, and will continue to do so whilst she aint wit you....and neither do we. :peace:
 

ericmathew54

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i was a little perplexed at the point of your original post. "does this guy have a point or is he just braggin?"just cuz you dint post her name dunt mean we all havnt shared her plenty of times already, and will continue to do so whilst she aint wit you....and neither do we. :peace:

I guess there is no point JohnMBot...It was purely posted for your viewing pleasure. I am glad it interested you enough to comment. If you are interested in seeing her let me know. But I charge a 40$ fuel fee for outcall
 

sweetwater

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Oh, your bad... :lol:
Righto, Iggy, but it's just john being john.:nod:
... But I charge a 40$ fuel fee for outcall
Not a bad sounding gig, but why stop with the fuel fee?
Dating an SP.:eyebrows:
Getting it almost whenever you want.:cool:
Extra revenue.:crazy:
Your own private agency.:thumb: Priceless
Sweetwater
 

TheDon

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Just enjoy the ride because she could just as easily "connect" with someone else later on. Definately keep wallet closed for the first 3 months if it goes that long.
 

Kingpin1

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I have been asked by 3 different sp in the past to see them outside of work. If I didn't live so far I would. I took one of them up on the offer to come back to my hotel free of charge the rest of my stay.
 

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I have been asked by 3 different sp in the past to see them outside of work. If I didn't live so far I would. I took one of them up on the offer to come back to my hotel free of charge the rest of my stay.

Damn Kingpin1, what the hell are you payin em for?:confused: Sounds like you're doing just fine flyin solo ... or did they see your Ferrari parked outside the hotel:lol:
 

CS Martin

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I have been asked by 3 different sp in the past to see them outside of work. If I didn't live so far I would. I took one of them up on the offer to come back to my hotel free of charge the rest of my stay.

Not bragging. Been there, done that. As Merlot says, (see my ditto response below). I had one as my "girlfriend" for a while. Turns out she had "one other" boyfriend as well.

Friend of mine has had at least three that I can count. One a popular "incall" SP with her own website. When are you guys ever going to learn that these SPs not only scam you, but scam themselves as well.

Sarah Bernard's recent quote of ""i am returning to my one only personnality" is probably the most telling quote and admission I've ever seen publicly.
 

Merlot

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Hmmm,

When are you guys ever going to learn that these SPs not only scam you, but scam themselves as well.

Sarah Bernard's recent quote of ""i am returning to my one only personnality" is probably the most telling quote and admission I've ever seen publicly.

Isn't it funny given the fact the female gender generally reacts so unforgivingly to cheating men and the male lothario type, except to also use as sex pals or cheap bangs, that escort clients don't see the problem of just being in the hobby. How many times have we seen the escorts say that they could never forget the guy had paid them for sex...meaning the odds of having a genuine relationship are pretty bad. As Sarah seems to indicate...the whole thing is a role...so it's hard to believe how easily some lose sight that this is a BUSINESS involving promotional tactics of all kinds for profits.

This whole sugar daddy buisness is exactly what I was afraid of. I'm not into that! But so far so good

I wouldn't want to say anyone should change their style of living or way of "courting" a woman just to uncover possible gold-digging, but I would sure pay attention to how you are valued by her...money or person and the balance of those two aspects.

Gooooood luck,

Merlot
 
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CS Martin

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Isn't it funny given the fact the female gender generally reacts so unforgivingly to cheating men and the male lothario type, except to also use as sex pals or cheap bangs, that escort clients don't see the problem of just being in the hobby. How many times have we seen the escorts say that they could never forget the guy had paid them for sex.

Not getting your exact point here. However, to clarify my comment on Sarah Bernard's quote of "i am returning to my one only personnality". I've long held that SPs don't conscientiously develop dual personalities. It's a defense mechanism to allow them to deal with being an SP. Let's not get into moralites, mores, socialogical BS here. That could take hours. Most times the SPs aren't even aware of the transformation. I actually mentioned this to Sarah once. It's interesting and a tribute to the lady that "I THINK" she realized the affect. It's the only time I've heard an SP even come close to publicly acknowledging it.

The point is that sometimes when an SP is scamming a guy in a "goods/money for sex/companionship" scenario, they don't even realize it or can't admit it to themselves. Then comes the everyday question of, "What is Pay for Play?" Do women and men understand the line, or even agree on the line, between relationship vs. prostitution? I don't want to debate this point, as I really don't have a definition or judgment on the issue. What I want to convey is the "sliding scale", if you will, of human emotions vs. sex vs. money, etc....etc... So one person's definition of relationships, prostitution, sugerdaddy, etc....etc.. could be different from another's.

How does this relate to our principal subject here? Simple, ericmathew54's definition may be different from yours. The line can become blurry even in the best of circumstances. So, the response of "enjoy the ride" might be the best response.
 
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