GFE or Dominatrix?

[Fradi]

Acting like nobody else did lol. You must've not read the other actual replies you got because you were too busy being a troll to actually care about the answer

I am with Julia.
Definitely a troll, nobody can be this naive about sex and not know the difference or smart enough to google it before asking these type of questions.
If nothing else most young men have looked at porn to see what a Dom is and what GFE is.
Unless this guy is borrowing his dad’s phone and is actually around 10 or less.

 

[E.B.]

That explains why i get kink and fetish-friendly” services not a serious Dom from my mistress!

If it is mixed with full service, yes it explains it

 

[Enjoying life]

If it is mixed with full service, yes it explains it

Not full service just cbj, spankings , massage, slapping, golden , prostate and massage

 

[E.B.]

Not full service just cbj, spankings , massage, slapping, golden , prostate and massage

Ask if a full surrender of power would be possible

 

[Enjoying life]

Ask if a full surrender of power would be possible

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

 

[E.B.]

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

Here’s how a conversation with a professional Domme should go:

You start by sharing your personal limits and preferences—what you’re open to and what you’re not—while keeping in mind the Domme’s own boundaries and the type of experience she offers. You should also talk about your desire outcome and the intensity of pain and surrender you’re looking to explore/experience.

Then, you should agree on a unique safeword that will immediately stop all activity if needed, and consider using traffic light codes like green, yellow, and red to help guide the flow of the session for the Domme.

Above all, ensure the conversation remains open, respectful, and judgment-free. Consent, mutual enjoyment, and safety should always be at the core—unless you’re both intentionally playing within a carefully negotiated framework of kink or fetish

Hope that helps xx

 

[Enjoying life]

Here’s how a conversation with a professional Domme should go:

You start by sharing your personal limits and preferences—what you’re open to and what you’re not—while keeping in mind the Domme’s own boundaries and the type of experience she offers. You should also talk about your desire outcome and the intensity of pain and surrender you’re looking to explore/experience.

Then, you should agree on a unique safeword that will immediately stop all activity if needed, and consider using traffic light codes like green, yellow, and red to help guide the flow of the session for the Domme.

Above all, ensure the conversation remains open, respectful, and judgment-free. Consent, mutual enjoyment, and safety should always be at the core—unless you’re both intentionally playing within a carefully negotiated framework of kink or fetish

Hope that helps xx

Thank you! It’s still a lot of fun just I like more viciousness with a dom !

 

[E.B.]

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

You could also buy her this book :

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1981145303?ref_=cb_interstitial_us_ca_mobile_unrec_location_unk_dp_dp

 

[S.S neo]

Is this GFE or Dominatrix? Is this a penis or a steak ? He’s invited to a diner and will soon find out.

 

[E.B.]

I highly suggest to anyone who wants to learn more about BDSM and tantric practices to do so, It can be life changing. There is no wrong place to start this journey

 

[Enjoying life]

I highly suggest to anyone who wants to learn more about BDSM and tantric practices to do so, It can be life changing. There is no wrong place to start this journey

It really is as exploring is great as I know of so many boring vanillas that just have boring relationships

 

[E.B.]

It really is as exploring is great as I know of so many boring vanillas that just have boring relationships

Whether someone explores their sexuality through tantra, BDSM, swinging, or good old-fashioned vanilla, to each their own, there’s no need for judgment. Just do what brings you joy and fulfillment.

 

[Enjoying life]

Whether someone explores their sexuality through tantra, BDSM, swinging, or good old-fashioned vanilla, to each their own, there’s no need for judgment. Just do what brings you joy and fulfillment.

It took awhile to get there

 

[Phil2022]

GFE

 

[sweetlivia]

I much prefer this book.
Also, this documentary was produced by a guy in Montreal (but did not find a distributor). It’s a human warming and touching documentary about the world of kink. It opens up to the concept of acceptability: https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek
As for labelling Domm, it is too narrow. To me a Dominatrix comes with a dungeon and all the ceremonies that come with it. It’s complex and not the regular starting point to just having one or two fetishes. When one does like spanking, tortuous light touches or any other fetish, it does not mean that one would go the extreme of bonding (restraints) or lust in physical pain.
As for GFE, it’s understandable and psychological or crossing one extreme to the other when reaching the aftercare (a BDSM term and steps in the play).

 

[E.B.]

I much prefer this book.

I also have this exact book, love it!

 

[h0lmes31]

I can definitely see a genuine question here. I’m a GFE provider who also deeply enjoys BDSM, kinks, and fetishes (as well as Tantric practices but this is beside the point here). These can absolutely be integrated into a GFE-style session, but it’s important to understand the distinction. In this case, the provider is offering “kink and fetish-friendly” services, not acting as a Dominatrix.

A true Domme operates within a framework of power exchange, where the submissive surrenders to the control of the Domme who holds full authority during the session. That level of dynamic is fundamentally different from a GFE provider incorporating playful elements of kink or fetish without that complete power shift.

Understanding these nuances requires a strong knowledge of both the companion and BDSM worlds. That’s why it’s common to see providers with separate profiles on platforms like T***t—one under Escorting and another under BDSM. When you’re offering genuine Domme experiences with true power exchange, compartmentalizing is absolutely necessary.

Hope this helps clarify things! Let’s keep the conversation respectful and supportive. Wishing everyone a great day.

To answer your question directly: the desire to be dominated often comes from a strong desire to surrender control.

Hi E.B., after reading your responses in this thread, I am very interested in learning more about your services and booking a session. Is there a way we could connect to talk in private?

 

[E.B.]

Hi E.B., after reading your responses in this thread, I am very interested in learning more about your services and booking a session. Is there a way we could connect to talk in private?

Hi, sent you a DM since I am not an advertising member of this board! Have a nice day xx

 

[E.B.]

Dom is way more exciting I find with as I have a blast

I've been a GFE provider incorporating aspects of BDSM and Tantra in my practice for the past 4 years, but I would lie to you if I told you the idea of doing Domme professionally never scratches my head from time to time

 

[Enjoying life]

I've been a GFE provider incorporating aspects of BDSM and Tantra in my practice for the past 4 years, but I would lie to you if I told you the idea of doing Domme professionally never scratches my head from time to time

It’s really thrilling