Recent content by Blackitlightning

We all won't agree on this point because we all have different things that we value and are willing to spend money on, no matter how rich or poor we are. I have never bought a super expensive phone or watch but I absolutely have bought expensive laptops, expensive sneakers and a high end car...

Also since two persons have now Dm'ed me, let me say that I am aware I am being too gracious in this situation. I have even said so myself in this thread. And as I have also said, I am no White Knight. I have given her until the end of this week. If not, I will simply leave a bad review with the...

Yeah I would agree with you. Just like trading stocks or other forms of investing, I dont put up money I cant afford to lose. But to clarify I dont see any and any SP who require a deposit. I do extensive research and only choose from those I see with strong online presence, a reputation and...

The reason why I havent posted on her thread is because I am still trying to be lenient/graceful in this situation, despite me probably being a massive idiot for that. It's always been an personal issue for me where I give people more grace than they clearly deserve.

An And you are a top tier person for this, honestly. And I hope things are well with you, despite your situation.

Exactly, I fully agree with this. Let me add more to the story then. When we initially booked, I told her that my area is RURAL, meaning NO ONE comes here. Hence the DMTY. She said she still accepts and will treat it as a sort of vacation. But she ended up postponing because she said no one is...

Lol I gotta let off some steam and bitch a little. I dont live in Montreal and my area is quite rural. I contacted a well established SP for a DMTY (Drive me to you). We worked out an agreement and I paid her ON TIME as per our agreement. Not once had she had to remind me of any payment...

I am fairly new to this and have been lucky to have mostly good encounters so far with the very few ladies I have seen. I left them all glowing reviews on their respective boards. But I absolutely would give a bad review if the session warranted it. While I wouldnt be derogatory and spiteful, I...

Wow thats a tough break. Sorry to hear

Lmao, I wish I could tell you

Fair point on the most part, although I did specify at the end that its according to my own experience. I cannot recall booking an independent who held genuine conversation with me outside of booking details. And personalizing a booking is still a booking conversation. And as I alluded to in my...

I love reading your responses on this board. You are so intelligent as well as realistic in how you bring across your points.

I kinda disagree with the rapport part. While the middleman is cut out, there is no real connection from Indys generally. Most independent SPs charge for any conversation that is not strictly surrounding booking so when I see an independent vs an agency lady, there is almost no difference in...

I agree, except my deposit was a far greater sum since it was a fmty/dmty. I live in a really rural area so I dont have much of a choice. While I can afford it, I am not in the business of donating money like a charity.

My issue with deposits is SP integrity. While rarer, SPs do cancel and the deposit is to be returned to the client. The problem I is when you have to be practically begging or pestering the SP to return the deposit and they take days or even weeks to return it. That should be handed to the...