To answer the original post it's not a matter of trusting you or not, it's that one person cnnot represent the many different voices/povs/opinions on here. If you want to do it go ahead, but represent only yourself, not merb, keep merb out of it.
world events aside it's been a good year. I'm hoping for one more visit with a wonderful sp I met this year before the year ends. hope to also fit in a trip to the UK.
You have your own views on SCs but some of us really enjoy em. I hate to see them die off and it'd put a lot of cool people out of work or drive them to kinds of work they might not want to do.
Just guessing but I think a lot of guys are looking for tenderness, cuddling, caring, both givng and receiving, an exchange equally [hysical and emotional.