Recent content by jabbee

So you could see why a client would stay 2 hours even if he knows he's going to be disappointed after... I mean a session with someone you view as average is way better than no session..

would you expect full payment?

You've made your point and I've made mine, and everyone doesn't have the same emotional intelligence/tact so both of ours seem fair, so I won't address the first part of your post but just the last one: We have too much to lose and the last thing we want is to draw unnecessary attention on us...

It's far from being like "money money" as soon as the client enters, it's just part of the rules to pay before you play and there's nothing wrong with it. You can yourself read their websites, most of them include instructions to give them the envelope as the first thing to do and not making...

Usually indies' policy is giving the envelope as soon as you step in sooo... might as well get something for what I paid (along with the lesson learned)

The last thing I want is an embarrassing situation with an SP at her door or her condo's lobby... so I just suck it up and consider I paid for a lesson on how to book and the 2 hours of playtime was just a small bonus..

It happened to me with an indy that I won't name as she herself didn't go anything wrong, on the Tryst pictures Tryst she seemed absolutely stunning although she didn't show her face. Body looked amazing and from what I could see I couldn't imagine anything else than a conventionally cute and...

How do I ask an SP to be a reference? Do they care about it, e.g. not providing it to not lose a client or not wanting to waste time with it? Clueless questions I know edit: will most of SP's (as in that's a convention) refuse if I saw them just once or twice?

Thanks for the perspective - this is actually reassuring as I was thinking more at 2 shots for a 2-3 hours session :) My main concern isn't really that I want to get my money's worth and milk the provider for every penny I paid - it's more that I really like the idea of a 2-3 hours session to be...

I see it makes sense that way, thank you for clarifying!

Hi, maybe a noob question lol, but I'm looking to book a 2-3 hours date with an indy on Tryst (haven't made up my mind yet on a specific one so asking here instead of emailing 4-5 SP's who'll most likely not bother with such a question, understandably) and wondered - for this long of a session...