Recent content by PatHibulaire

GFE has different meanings for everybody. At first I thought the lady would complain about my poor choice in music and criticize the way I dress ;). But it turned out much more pleasant so I became addicted.

You are absolutely right. The spanish language is regularly standardized which makes it easier for a french speaking person to learn spanish than the other way around. For example, In the spanish-french dictionary that I bought 40 years ago (before internet) the LL, and the CH are considered...

I spent 30 years learning spanish (my mother tongue is french). I speak it well enough to have a decent conversation with locals. However I hate it when people say it's easy. I would admit it is easier when you already know french but definitly not easy unless you have a gift for learning new...

Yes it is a long thread. I hope clients take the time to reflect on their « hobby ». Sex work is no ordinary business. I'm not getting an haircut or having a tooth treatment. I'm engaging in what most people consider to be the most intimate interaction between 2 people. As a client, I am very...

I confess that I have been reading the XO thread for the last few days and I am appalled by the lack of empathy by some clients for the challenging working condition of SW's.

I'm not the smartest but I know 2 things. First it's not because something seems incredible that it is not true. Also young girls, especially if they were raised in a loving family, are incredibly naive.

It blows my mind. That would make for a great TV show. Can you imagine LE operating something like MERB? They would know almost every SP's and clients in the city. Not mentioning that the program would finance itself.

This whole affair comforts me on 2 levels. First I'm glad I see only independent SP's who are most likely in the business after carefully thinking it over. They get to screen their clients and they keep 100% of the money. Also, I am glad that nobody around me knows about my secret life with...

30 years ago, when I met with SP's there was no GFE, so no kissing, BBBJ, or DATY. Also, most SP's worked for agencies so you couldn't contact them directly to arrange for a date. If you had a favorite, it was not easy to see her. It was OK but not great. Today the industry is very different...

Thank you Lena, Luna and everybody who gave me their opinions. I get it now, time is time. What we are buying from S.P.'s is time, (everybody's most precious commodity) whether it is intimate, social or leisure. Asking for free leisure time is asking for a freebie. And the provider is free to do...

Merci Gisele, I always liked to read your comments during my 2 weeks of reading this thread. I certainly see your point. Let me assure you that I had very pleasing movie watching experience lol. Again judging by the answers I got it may not be a very good idea to propose a personal date like...

Thank you, excellent answer that give me food for thoughts. The funny part is that I already know that time is the most valuable thing we have but somehow I did not see that in that particular situation. Really appreciate your input on this.

Thank you, really I appreciate any reply to my question. As a client, even if I consider myself a very respectful person, I understand I need to see things from the SP's point of view. To answer your question, I am willing to pay for social time but for me social times means talking with the...

Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for...

I'm a fairly new member of MERB and I just finished reading this long, very informative and addictive thread. Thank you Lena for starting it. Often in life, there is more to be learned about the person who is asking the question than about the answer itself!. My first question for the lady's is...