Recent content by talkinghead

Have you and your agent settled on a figure for the screen rights? My people will contact your people. Seriously: that's the best story I've read out here in a long time. Turning down the hot dog and fries sounds wise. There was an atm machine? Maybe someone else can answer your question. Is...

Me too. A minimum of two hours in my hotel room; a nice bottle; good conversation; >> fun.

I'm always interested in how many men out here put their energy into making SPs happy, sexually satisfied, and emotionally connected. Whether it's through extended social time (dinner! golfing! museums!) or erotic pleasure, it sometimes seems that we take the idea of GFE pretty far. And if...

This is kind of an odd thread. It seems like it's about having hot sex with a young SP, but it's really about a middle-aged (38 year old) guy who's having some ED issues with his partner. OP: the incredibly obvious thing to do is talk to your doctor to rule out a medical issue. The fact that one...

I think this is true. Years (okay, decades) of NOT asking specific "menu" questions is a hard practice to break. It also feels tacky. Also, I have to say that I've seen numerous providers who advertise GFE and who would never be described as "tender" or "cuddly." They did, however, do BBBJ and DFK!

I know that I'm in the minority but I'd plunk down some $$$ for a nice hotel room, especially for outcall. For a 2-3 hour date, nothing beats having a couch in a suite!

Always tip at the end. How else would you know how much and even whether to tip? For outcalls, I still do the classic envelope on the nightstand or desk, clearly visible. I think it's reassuring for SPs and it allows them to be gracious and leave the actual payment--the receipt of the...

Absolutely true. Sex workers have offered companionship for centuries (eg courtesans) and probably millennia. What's different, in interesting ways, is that they're now called "sex workers." It's a term that self-evidently centers on the professional connection between sex and work. The term...

@urquell is right, of course. GFE has traditionally meant BBBJ + DFK. If it doesn't mean that anymore, then it doesn't mean anything; there's no such thing as "safe GFE." As for it being a style, well, what's the style? How many SPs advertise that they're aloof clock watchers who are...

TER had (or has?) such a VIP model. The problem is that it encourages fake reviews.

You make it sound like a bad thing! Yes, indeed, when I see an escort, I'm paying her to make me feel good. That's exactly what I want. At the same time, I hope I'm a good client to her. I'm baffled by the extremes out here: white knights on the one hand and cynics on the other. Both seem to...

I laughed that only 84% said they would give to charity. It's play money, people. 16% can't even *imagine* giving pretend money to a good cause?

I gotta say this is all a bit much.

This was my path as well, through TBD and TER.

Not exactly an auspicious first post in a thread that no one needs resurrected.