Recent content by talkinghead

This is kind of an odd thread. It seems like it's about having hot sex with a young SP, but it's really about a middle-aged (38 year old) guy who's having some ED issues with his partner. OP: the incredibly obvious thing to do is talk to your doctor to rule out a medical issue. The fact that one...

I think this is true. Years (okay, decades) of NOT asking specific "menu" questions is a hard practice to break. It also feels tacky. Also, I have to say that I've seen numerous providers who advertise GFE and who would never be described as "tender" or "cuddly." They did, however, do BBBJ and DFK!

I know that I'm in the minority but I'd plunk down some $$$ for a nice hotel room, especially for outcall. For a 2-3 hour date, nothing beats having a couch in a suite!

Always tip at the end. How else would you know how much and even whether to tip? For outcalls, I still do the classic envelope on the nightstand or desk, clearly visible. I think it's reassuring for SPs and it allows them to be gracious and leave the actual payment--the receipt of the...

Absolutely true. Sex workers have offered companionship for centuries (eg courtesans) and probably millennia. What's different, in interesting ways, is that they're now called "sex workers." It's a term that self-evidently centers on the professional connection between sex and work. The term...

@urquell is right, of course. GFE has traditionally meant BBBJ + DFK. If it doesn't mean that anymore, then it doesn't mean anything; there's no such thing as "safe GFE." As for it being a style, well, what's the style? How many SPs advertise that they're aloof clock watchers who are...

TER had (or has?) such a VIP model. The problem is that it encourages fake reviews.

You make it sound like a bad thing! Yes, indeed, when I see an escort, I'm paying her to make me feel good. That's exactly what I want. At the same time, I hope I'm a good client to her. I'm baffled by the extremes out here: white knights on the one hand and cynics on the other. Both seem to...

I laughed that only 84% said they would give to charity. It's play money, people. 16% can't even *imagine* giving pretend money to a good cause?

I gotta say this is all a bit much.

This was my path as well, through TBD and TER.

Not exactly an auspicious first post in a thread that no one needs resurrected.

As the comments show, it depends on what we mean by "over the years." If our point of reference is the pre-internet days, then things are vastly better. If, however, we're comparing today's Montreal scene to fifteen years ago, then things seem demonstrably worse, at least for clients. Overall...

You. Are. Awesome. I always appreciate your posts. You're always so open about your life, nonjudgmental, thoughtful, and wonderfully sincere. Also, I figured this thread would be about today's "Back to the Beginning" extravaganza. I can't say that I'm much into metal these days but I did see...

I hate to belabor this conversation but the word "pimp" is not a neutral term that describes a professional occupation, and it's not an objective description of people who manage agencies. At least in the US, the word is a pejorative; it's demeaning and critical. That's why @CaptRenault compared...