Long term arrangements
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Great site with lots of great contributors. Great source of info on Europe and some other places. Though most guys don’t know what they are missing in Montreal.
Hands you say ? lol.... CA they`ll do much worse. Cheating wives get stoned to death. You will have something more precious than your hand chopped off.
BTW I still remember that pretty lactating Indy with the pet anaconda who we saw almost at the same time so many years ago.
the cats cookies,
While there are scammers on SA they are pretty easy to identify using reasonable measures. I have been on SA for 6 years and went on many many dates. Girls who want to meet in a public place (a fairly routine protocol, pre Covid) want to do so for safety reasons and to confirm that you aren't Jack the Ripper. The risk is mostly on them if they agree to a private meeting, and frankly I would be suspicious of someone who wants to meet privately. In the escort world drivers serve as private protection for the girls if something happens to them. Girls on SA have no such protection. All they have is themselves. This difference is or should be common sense.
You talk about "unnecessary risk." I have no idea what you are talking about. The only risk you take in meeting an SA girl is running into someone you know. This did ALMOST happen to me once at a restaurant and I walked out with the girl. However if you have a story ready you can mitigate the risk. You can also mitigate the risk by picking discreet public locations where you don't likely run into anyone. Anyways the risk is not huge and the people who don't take it probably don't have confidence in their ability to mitigate the risk.
In every single public date I had it wasn't a big deal, no strings are attached, you either decide to meet again, or not. The Girl gets to confirm you aren't Jack the Ripper and whether she might be open to private dates in the future. You get to confirm if she is worthy of pursuing. In fact most ladies on SA are open to sex, but not on the first date and usually not on the first 2 dates. They are not escorts and if you treat them like escorts your ass will be left in the dust and you will not get a second date. You start talking about meeting at a hotel and you will not likely even get a response.
There are some professional escorts on SA but they are a distinctive minority. And you can pick out their profiles. They usually have pics that look like escort pics and they use escort site language in their profiles. The arrangement girls don't have that same approach. They are easy to distinguish if you have been in the game long enough. The risks you speak of are easy to manage if you have been in the game long enough. There is also a risk of being struck by lightning but it's not a risk that's easy to manage unless you never go outdoors.
While there are scammers on SA they are pretty easy to identify using reasonable measures. I have been on SA for 6 years and went on many many dates. Girls who want to meet in a public place (a fairly routine protocol, pre Covid) want to do so for safety reasons and to confirm that you aren't Jack the Ripper. The risk is mostly on them if they agree to a private meeting, and frankly I would be suspicious of someone who wants to meet privately. In the escort world drivers serve as private protection for the girls if something happens to them. Girls on SA have no such protection. All they have is themselves. This difference is or should be common sense.
You talk about "unnecessary risk." I have no idea what you are talking about. The only risk you take in meeting an SA girl is running into someone you know. This did ALMOST happen to me once at a restaurant and I walked out with the girl. However if you have a story ready you can mitigate the risk. You can also mitigate the risk by picking discreet public locations where you don't likely run into anyone. Anyways the risk is not huge and the people who don't take it probably don't have confidence in their ability to mitigate the risk.
In every single public date I had it wasn't a big deal, no strings are attached, you either decide to meet again, or not. The Girl gets to confirm you aren't Jack the Ripper and whether she might be open to private dates in the future. You get to confirm if she is worthy of pursuing. In fact most ladies on SA are open to sex, but not on the first date and usually not on the first 2 dates. They are not escorts and if you treat them like escorts your ass will be left in the dust and you will not get a second date. You start talking about meeting at a hotel and you will not likely even get a response.
There are some professional escorts on SA but they are a distinctive minority. And you can pick out their profiles. They usually have pics that look like escort pics and they use escort site language in their profiles. The arrangement girls don't have that same approach. They are easy to distinguish if you have been in the game long enough. The risks you speak of are easy to manage if you have been in the game long enough. There is also a risk of being struck by lightning but it's not a risk that's easy to manage unless you never go outdoors.
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Attention avec ce site. J'ai mentionné un montant d'argent dans un message à une fille et j'ai été banni!! Heureusement il ne restait que quelques jours à mon abonnement.
Comment peut-on discuter d'un «arrangement» avec une fille sans parler d'argent ?!?
Comment peut-on discuter d'un «arrangement» avec une fille sans parler d'argent ?!?
Never discuss transactional details on SA. Get a phone number and take the negotiations off site, that's how you play the game. Offering money for sex will lead to an instant ban on SA. Ditto with money for nude pics. Very easy to text on Whats App or Snapchat once you get a cellphone number.
Sauf que pour obtenir un #tel, la plupart des filles veulent avoir une idée de ce que on a à offrir. Anyway, c'est comme ça à Québec
Except that to obtain a #tel, most girls want to know what you have to offer. Anyway that's how it works in Quebec city
Sorry to contradict EB,
I have been on SA for what, 4 years? Maybe 5 years?... I have almost always talked about he financials directly on the site. Never been banned.
It's an instant ban if you are being reported by a woman who didn't like you and is kinda "bitch" (sorry for the expresion), not only the fact of talking about money. But I agree with you that it's more risky.
CA,
I have been on SA for 6 years and I did get banned once (before the Covid pandemic) for offering a lady money for sexy pics, and that same lady later told me she was also banned, albeit for the different reason of commercial solicitation (she told me in our SA messages that she had hoped to get offered a job with her SD's business or at least a referral to another company within the SA's field of business, and it is against SA rules to solicit employment opportunities). For my ban, the Moderator's message was that I had violated the rule against soliciting "online only relationship", and was not specifically for money talk. The ban lasted 24 or 48 hours and before being reinstated, I was compelled to watch a short film of about 10 minutes length or so prepared by SA which discussed decorum and rules on the website. Watching the film was the only choice to be reinstated.
Since Covid started, I am almost certain that the rule against online only relationships has been either relaxed or altogether suspended or revoked, because most women even say in their profiles, "ONLINE ONLY", prominently. I think SA was forced to change their business model because of Covid and as a matter of survival notwithstanding their recent membership fee increase to $99(USD) for one month memberships.
My point to Moliere was that these kinds of transactional discussions can earn you a ban that could be avoided. That lady and I just discussed way too much before exchanging numbers.
I do understand Moliere's point that some ladies want to hear an offer before they will give out a number. My point to Moliere is just make sure that offer is for a DATE and not sex. An offer of money for sex which is seen by a Moderator will get you a ban, I suspect, before or after Covid. If you offer a lady $100 for an "NSA date", that is a different story. However, in most cases, I have gotten phone numbers by simply telling the lady in so many words that there will be an allowance if we meet NSA, and we can discuss the details of that privately. I then get the number. This is not rocket science here, guys. Once a lady hears there will be an allowance, she will give out the phone number if there is even minimal interest on her part.
By the way- regarding that lady who got banned for soliciting employment opportunities in my messages with her- I had told her in those same SA messages that this was a futile objective with most SDs, because most guys are discreet and they do not want to shit where they eat or trade on business for either dates, sex or nude pics. All of that was in our SA messages that were snooped on by the SA Moderators. She later suspected I had reported her, but I told her I was banned as well for the same exchange. We later ended up doing a nude pics arrangement, because we had successfully exchanged numbers before the bans were handed out.
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TNB,
I just did a search on SA. About the same amount of traffic in the Dublin area (within 50 miles) in 24 hours as in the State of Connecticut. Pretty much all white girls though, unlike CT. On the first page there was actually only one girl who was not white, and she listed herself as Middle Eastern. Unless you are into strictly white caucasian females, probably not the best spot to be.
By the way you do not need a paid membership to do a search. You just need a paid membership to message.
It seems I am banned permanently:
«Due to the severity of the issue, you are banned from Seeking.»
«Due to the severity of the issue, you are banned from Seeking.»
Thanks buddy! Don’t have a problem with the Caucasian persuasion. They are all probably Trinity College students. I will have to bite the bullet and sign up then. For me it’s not the $$, def the time investment.
TNB,
My standard search criteria is 18-25 years old, all races, slim, athletic or average builds. I applied that standard search criteria and I came up with as many hits as I would get on my Connecticut search. Apart from the racial imbalance I noted, I suspect some are college students and some are not.
You can perform the same search I just mentioned using other criteria or any you choose and draw your own conclusions on the Dublin arrangement candidates before you buy a paid membership. If you want to limit your search to white girls or slim builds or 18-22, you may. I suggest you do your own search first. All you are purchasing the right to do is message the girls.
My standard search criteria is 18-25 years old, all races, slim, athletic or average builds. I applied that standard search criteria and I came up with as many hits as I would get on my Connecticut search. Apart from the racial imbalance I noted, I suspect some are college students and some are not.
You can perform the same search I just mentioned using other criteria or any you choose and draw your own conclusions on the Dublin arrangement candidates before you buy a paid membership. If you want to limit your search to white girls or slim builds or 18-22, you may. I suggest you do your own search first. All you are purchasing the right to do is message the girls.
The problem with me is work hours which are extensive. SA from what I’ve gathered is something which requires a ton of time commitment. Minimal effort and knowing exactly why they are there is what suits me better with SP’s? But if the SP scene is dismal where your gonna be for a while, then I guess u gotta bite the bullet. Also if nothings open because of pandemic, where would u meet someone for a drink?
Toutes les femmes que j'ai rencontrées sur SA depuis le début de la pandémie étaient à l'aise à venir chez moi dès le premier rendez-vous. On faisait connaissance sur mon divan en prenant un verre et au bout de 15-30 min, on passait à l'action. Dans le fond, la pandémie a fait sauter l'étape d'aller au resto ou un bar.
J'aime beaucoup cette approche en fait. Cependant, mon hypothèse était que, comme dans la vie civile, vous ne pouvez avoir qu'une idée partielle de la façon dont deux personnes s'entendent via la messagerie texte et FaceTime. La vraie idée de savoir s'il y a ou non une bonne chimie est une réunion en personne. s'il n'y a pas de chimie, les deux parties peuvent se séparer. Tout ce que vous avez perdu, c'est d'acheter à quelqu'un une tasse de café ou quelques verres. Avez-vous déjà été dans une situation où quelqu'un est venu dans votre appartement et vous n'avez simplement pas cliqué avec lui?
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