SP asking merb to remove there reviews ?

maymay · Monday at 7:32 AM

I was looking for reviews on this SP that has been posting her add on LL for a while now, her pictures are legit she is beautiful but when I entered her number it took me to a part on Merb were it said this SP does not want to be reviewed and no more reviews or post about her.

I will not mention her name but isn't this a huge red flag not to book that SP?

LC18 · Monday at 8:16 AM

No,

Some people want privacy. They don’t want everyone to know what happens behind closed doors and it doesn’t mean it’s negative. It’s a way to protect themselves especially if they’re trying to travel to the US. Having reviews is a solid proof that you are indeed providing services.

maymay · Monday at 8:30 AM

LC18 said:
No,

Some people want privacy. They don’t want everyone to know what happens behind closed doors and it doesn’t mean it’s negative. It’s a way to protect themselves especially if they’re trying to travel to the US. Having reviews is a solid proof that you are indeed providing services.

ok thank you for the specification

bucckkoo · Monday at 9:25 AM

LC18 said:
No,

Some people want privacy. They don’t want everyone to know what happens behind closed doors and it doesn’t mean it’s negative. It’s a way to protect themselves especially if they’re trying to travel to the US. Having reviews is a solid proof that you are indeed providing services.

Do you allow reviews

lou67 · Monday at 1:34 PM

No reviews , usually means something is up in my books. I have tried 2 or 3 SP who have that NO review policy, and every time was a huge disappointment, and waste of money.
Since no reviews was allowed, wasted time and money.
If certain SP's have an issue with certain comments they can request in a private message to remove their comments, since they have met the person. and work things out.
I have been asked once only to do so, to remove a bad review which I posted, She explained why the service had been bad, she had a bad encounter just before me, and fell on me to have a bad encounter with her. Saw her a couple times after, and all was good.
MERB is a place for men to comment on service and ask questions, honestly, their are to many scams these days.
So no reviews policy , move on. End of the Story

maymay · Monday at 2:42 PM

lou67 said:
No reviews , usually means something is up in my books. I have tried 2 or 3 SP who have that NO review policy, and every time was a huge disappointment, and waste of money.
Since no reviews was allowed, wasted time and money.
If certain SP's have an issue with certain comments they can request in a private message to remove their comments, since they have met the person. and work things out.
I have been asked once only to do so, to remove a bad review which I posted, She explained why the service had been bad, she had a bad encounter just before me, and fell on me to have a bad encounter with her. Saw her a couple times after, and all was good.
MERB is a place for men to comment on service and ask questions, honestly, their are to many scams these days.
So no reviews policy , move on. End of the Story

This is what i was thinking in the first place sounds fishy and probably won't help the SP that requests this, in other word huge red flag. Its sad because the SP looks great her pics are real but guess i won't be booking her because of this.

Jaxan · Monday at 2:47 PM

Shades of grey, it could be privacy concerns or hiding from bad reviews. There are plenty of well reviewed SP's, so it depends on what your risk tolerance is.

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 6:56 PM

I used to not want reviews. The reason why a lot of SPs don't want reviews is that they don't want a certain kind of attention, they don't want private details to be revealed, etc. Reading your own reviews can be quite traumatic, specially if they are negative. A lot of SPs also feel really dehumanized by reviews. Now I understand that reviews get me clients and I learn from reading my own reviews but sometimes constructive criticism could be done privately. I haven't had a lot of bad reviews, but when something negative was said about me, the client didn't confront me about it and didn't ask clearly for what he wanted during the service. That can be really frustrating...

I also totally understand why someone would want to ''hide from bad reviews''. This isn't a way to scam people or offer bad service.. But sometimes reviews are awfully cruel.

maymay · Monday at 7:34 PM

Lunaseraphim said:
I haven't had a lot of bad reviews, but when something negative was said about me, the client didn't confront me about it and didn't ask clearly for what he wanted during the service. That can be really frustrating...

This is human nature most people are hypocrite, I understand your point on this and have a hard time myself dealing with hypocrisies, sadly we are surrounded by this all the time.

tockson · Monday at 7:37 PM

tbh, SP refusing any review is a BIG red flag.... It's not up to her or him to decide if we can review them or not. As customers, we are allowed to review everything

As long that the review is about the service provided and not the actual person.... thats my opinion

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 7:38 PM

maymay said:
This is human nature most people are hypocrite, I understand your point on this and have a hard time myself dealing with hypocrisies, sadly we are surrounded by this all the time.

But that's one thing I don't like about reviews. I understand that if somebody is scamming, or something terrifying happened, it's necessary to write about it here for people's safety. However, I can understand not wanting clients to rate your physical appearance and comment on it. It can be extremely upsetting. Sometimes I've had reviews complaining that I didn't do x or y but the client didn't ask for it, and at the time I never said I offered it, and it wasn't discussed prior to the service. I think that's really strange. It made me at least be more clear about the type of service that I offer and I think I often pleasantly surprise clients, but still... This is pretty common.

A review board like TER for example.. If you don't do certain things your rate is lower. That means the higher your boundaries are, the lower your review will be. I'm not a huge fan of that.

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 7:39 PM

tockson said:
tbh, SP refusing any review is a BIG red flag.... It's not up to her or him to decide if we can review them or not. As customers, we are allowed to review everything

As long that the review is about the service provided and not the actual person.... thats my opinion

It's interesting you say that because I know a lot of SPs with no review policies who have no problem getting clients. I understand your point about the review being about the service and not the person, and that is definitely more respectful, but sometimes people reveal a lot of details and I can understand why a SP doesn't want sexual encounters described in graphic details....

tockson · Monday at 7:43 PM

Lunaseraphim said:
It's interesting you say that because I know a lot of SPs with no review policies who have no problem getting clients. I understand your point about the review being about the service and not the person, and that is definitely more respectful, but sometimes people reveal a lot of details and I can understand why a SP doesn't want sexual encounters described in graphic details....

i do understant too, thats mostly why im not getting in any detail of my encounter, nor anything the SP told me, those thing is between her and i.... But thats me tho xD

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 7:51 PM

tockson said:
i do understant too, thats mostly why im not getting in any detail of my encounter, nor anything the SP told me, those thing is between her and i.... But thats me tho xD

It's good that you do this! Personally, when I leave reviews, it's usually to encourage someone. I think it's kinda karen type behaviour to leave really bad reviews, unless it's absolutely deserved.. for example the services that were discussed were not really offered, or fake photos... I know seeing a SP is expensive. But remember that certain types of reviews can really affect someone's business negatively.. And a lot of SP's depend on their work as a companion to pay rent.

LC18 · Monday at 7:55 PM

tockson said:
tbh, SP refusing any review is a BIG red flag.... It's not up to her or him to decide if we can review them or not. As customers, we are allowed to review everything

As long that the review is about the service provided and not the actual person.... thats my opinion

I understand but like I mentioned earlier, this could prevent them from entering the USA so I can also understand that they would want to be able to remove incriminating information off the internet.

Those people would take their ads down and deactivate their website to cross the borders but because Bigdick6969 wanted to tell strangers that they had sex with that girl, she’s gonna get refused at the border and the agents are going to show her screenshots of her reviews…

LC18 · Monday at 7:55 PM

Not everything is about clients…some of us have lives outside of this and don’t want reviews to have a negative impact on it

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 7:57 PM

LC18 said:
I understand but like I mentioned earlier, this could prevent them from entering the USA so I can also understand that they would want to be able to remove incriminating information off the internet.

Those people would take their ads down and deactivate their website to cross the borders but because Bigdick6969 wanted to tell strangers that they had sex with that girl, she’s gonna get refused at the border and the agents are going to show her screenshots of her reviews…

LC18 said:
Not everything is about clients…some of us have lives outside of this and don’t want reviews to have a negative impact on it

THIS.

cpp433 · Monday at 7:58 PM

maymay said:
ok thank you for the specification

I wouldnt risk it, privacy my ass its not like her real name and face pics will be in a review, there are MANY well reviewed girls on here, id go with one of them, but its your money

tockson · Monday at 7:58 PM

LC18 said:
I understand but like I mentioned earlier, this could prevent them from entering the USA so I can also understand that they would want to be able to remove incriminating information off the internet.

Those people would take their ads down and deactivate their website to cross the borders but because Bigdick6969 wanted to tell strangers that they had sex with that girl, she’s gonna get refused at the border and the agents are going to show her screenshots of her reviews…

but at the same time, use a Alias, and not your real name :S

Lunaseraphim · Monday at 8:04 PM

We do use aliases but it's still compromising information and another proof that could be used against us.. And like I have said many times before, often things that could lead to dangerous situations are revealed in reviews.

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