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kirankumar

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Yep. That's not surprising to me at all. I've heard similar stories. That's why last year when the topic came up, I told people to be careful who you're listening to because sometimes it's gossip and hearsay.. Some people will say a girl offers it just to hurt her reputation. I also agree that some guys write fake reviews when they don't get what they want, I've had multiple colleagues tell me that kind of story...

Yeah I don't doubt that some girls offer it, but if a SP is going straight for bareback without asking the client in my opinion she's probably not in the right mental state to see clients... If you see what I mean.
Yes I heard from a provider that someone else tried to lure her by stating he knows that I have had bbfs with that provider. I do not understand why people do that and even even they do they take random names like in this case mine

I think there should be a moderator governed list of providers and clients who request/ provide bbfs and ban them from Merb to avoid risk to others in this forum. Just my view to avoid some risk from this already risky pleasure meetings
 
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LeafsSuck

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I have heard a Lo stories where clients try to remove protection like said , or push boundaries on new girls and then come to review board to say it’s the girl that is offering it while in reality they were the ones who pushed it. Tried to remove condoms, or try to force kissing , certain positions when the girl doesn’t want it .
They sometimes use it as an excuse to write down fake reviews of the girls and try to destroy their reputation when they refuse. Unless they go to the board and defend themselves.
I also agree with the statement that some are bringing the topic to find the girls and harass them.
It’s very nasty and not good .
Yes, and the opposite also true. There has been several SP's that have slid my cock inside them or tried to slide my cock inside them. I had to ask for a condom.
 

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I think there should be a moderator governed list of providers and clients who request/ provide bbfs and ban them from Merb to avoid risk to others in this forum. Just my view to avoid some risk from this already risky pleasure meetings
Don't worry, they know who the girls are (maybe not all, but still). It wouldn't do any good to expose them. As for the clients, you can look at the suspension list (https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/merb-suspensions-check-here-for-why.12682/page-55#post-1800568), many were banned for asking for BBFS.
 

LeDodo

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Yes I heard from a provider that someone else tried to lure her by stating he knows that I have had bbfs with that provider. I do not understand why people do that and even even they do they take random names like in this case mine
Well it's gaslighting and coercion.

As for the name it's deception. They will assume that any name or vocal user on the forum is safe to be mentioned.
 

AnthonyAnderson

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Yes, and the opposite also true. There has been several SP's that have slid my cock inside them or tried to slide my cock inside them. I had to ask for a condom.
I don't know which establishments you are patronizing and which providers you are seeing, but in ten years in two different cities, nothing like this has ever happened to me.
 

LeafsSuck

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I don't know which establishments you are patronizing and which providers you are seeing, but in ten years in two different cities, nothing like this has ever happened to me.
I have been around to salons and indy's. Some other friends in the hobby have had many more experiences than myself with this so I guess it is just a matter of time before you come across this.
 

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I have been around to salons and indy's. Some other friends in the hobby have had many more experiences than myself with this so I guess it is just a matter of time before you come across this.
I don't visit salons (MP).
 

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Doesn’t matter where he posts, it will be locked as discussing this is against the rules
Maybe you did not notice but the thread has been moved to the LOUNGE.
The rules are not that BBFS can not be discussed. It is that there is a ban for promoting or looking to get BBFS.
In my opinion, it is healthy to discuss those things so it is easier to make the right choice.
 
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Maybe you did not notice but the thread has been moved to the LOUNGE.
The rules are not that BBFS can not be discussed. It is that there is a ban for promoting or looking to get BBFS.
In my opinion, it is healthy to discuss those things so it is easier to make the right choice.

It will remain open until someone crosses the line and someone will because it’s happened the 50 other times before
 

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The rules are not that BBFS can not be discussed. It is that there is a ban for promoting or looking to get BBFS.

I'm almost 100% sure this is a recent change though, as I vividly remember the rules or a moderator saying that no mentions of BBFS and no discussion surrounding it would be tolerated.
 

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Cap'tain Fantastic

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I suspect some of the people who post about this and comment on these threads are trying to find out which SPs offer it even if they act outraged over it lol .
It always been like that and that is why "flagging" a provider in a thread(with name) for offering bbfs is forbiden and automaticaly leads to erasing the threads and forbid any new threads about the provider.
 

Like_It_Hot

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I'm almost 100% sure this is a recent change though, as I vividly remember the rules or a moderator saying that no mentions of BBFS and no discussion surrounding it would be tolerated.
xiv) The promotion or publicizing of any provider who offers BBFS is forbidden. This is a practice which not only is dangerous for yourself but for everyone in the hobby community. Advertising such a practice or promoting it in the context of a review is grounds for an immediate and permanent suspension of your account.
 

Julia Sky

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xiv) The promotion or publicizing of any provider who offers BBFS is forbidden. This is a practice which not only is dangerous for yourself but for everyone in the hobby community. Advertising such a practice or promoting it in the context of a review is grounds for an immediate and permanent suspension of your account.

Yes, but I'm saying it was worded differently before. As illustrated in these mod posts from the past decade :

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