After a disastrous time of running into a former SP I met in Mtl...(she was by herself at least 25 feet from.anyone else. I quickly said hi and said I hoped to see her again in the future..she spazzed out at me and said "don't you know we're in public..respect my privacy and get the fuck away from me...I haven't said hi or even acknowledged they're existence, lol.
Akward moment running into an SP
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Not seeing anyone around her was not a reason to say Hi ...
That's your opinion..I've had several tell me they would be upset if I didn't say hi. Not all SP's are like this. I simply do that now cause I don't need any drama in my life. She started yelling at me (which was a bit childish) and made a scene. There is no "how to manual" in this industry that explains everything in black and white.
No rulebook but as DDM mentioned it's best to go with the less invasive way.
I've tried the nod too, lol. More often than not I don't if they're with someone else though. You would be surprised how many times you run into them especially if your walking in downtown montreal. I've probably seen at least 30-50 girls..
Good queue to never see her again
I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable. 
It's just not appropriate.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
It's just not appropriate.I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
I recall seeing you once in public about a year ago. I kept walking as you made eye contact, realizing half a minute later who you were.I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
Trying to add you without permission seems outrageous to me. I've been asked many of times but I'll never ask the sp..that's they're decision 100%I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases
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