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It's funny because while some of these things are hurtful, some others sound like misunderstandings and weren't meant to be hurtful on purpose.. Meanwhile we get called slurs, we get insulted on our intelligence and looks all the time, etc. Some of the things my colleagues and I have been told...

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Pas nécessairement mais il y a des chances que oui ..

Happy new year :)

Sex on the beach is a nightmare with all the sand lol. I think sex outdoors could be enjoyable in a private area on a large blanket under the sun. Make sure to wear your sunscreen because you don't want a heat stroke while in action lol

I think it's nuanced. We aren't relationship substitutes precisely because we create an experience for the client and yes that involves different types of intimacy and companionship.. we do offer things you can get in a relationship but ultimately if a client starts seeing escorts because he...

I don't think you should feel embarrassed about it, you seeing escorts doesn't say anything about your worth and your desirability. :) I often have younger clients who are actually cool and attractive. They're just in a situation where they aren't interested in dating currently or they are going...

I'm talking about my experiences discussing sex work with civilians and what I've always heard people think. A lot of people actually believe clients should be humanized and that sex workers are offering a necessary service.. but yes there is this idea that clients have lower empathy and cheat...

One thing I want to add is something I heard an internationally known escort was saying on her Instagram. A lot of men don't hire escorts because they are desperate for sex usually, they hire escorts because they want an experience of intimacy and companionship that is built around their...

I have free time today but please reach out asap because I'm going to a Nye party! Tomorrow I'm free all day :)

There are guys of all ages who hire escorts but I'd say men who self identify as hobbyists are usually between 40 and 70. To see escorts on a regular basis you have to have a lot of money or at least a pretty well paid stable job and prioritize what you call the hobby over other expenses. The...

I'm not sure if it's really much more accepted here.. I think there is a culture of sex work that is part of Montreal for some reason and it's almost known as a sex tourism city. I know personally I chose to be face out because I had nothing to lose at the time and it helped me get clients. The...

True most people don't use condoms when performing oral sex with new partners.. that's fairly normal. But we're talking about a specific context. We're sex workers, we do GFE with many men for a living. The level of risk depends on how many partners the person had. It's not that common for...

That's crazy honestly... You can absolutely give or get an STI with daty. If you go to any sexual health clinic they will tell you that it's possible to get multiple STI from oral sex. Sexual education is clearly not the priority in North America or at least it wasn't until the past few...

Yes I'm aware of this now. Also often clients are going through something psychological and it's harder for them to keep going or to get turned on as easily.. I see it as part of my job to make clients who are going through this feel comfortable about themselves. :) It's not a big deal if things...

How do you know they are being honest? I've never gotten anything from BBBJ either but I know a ton of people in and out of the industry who have, and it's not because they are less clean. They were just unlucky. Nobody wants to admit they had an STI. It's super taboo. I've also see a lot of...

I think you assume that guys who seek sexual services look after themselves maybe because you do. It also has nothing to do with being ''clean''. It has to do with getting tested frequently and minimizing risks. A lot of guys told me they only get tested once or twice a year. Look in other...

I'll speak for myself.. I don't really have sex with anyone outside of this right now. Since I started being a provider almost 4 years ago, I only had 3 sexual partners outside of this. Most providers I know practice safe sex and are well aware of risks. It's not on us to prevent STI in this...

HPV vaccine is safe for people under a certain age. Otherwise it costs money. I think if you see SP it's important to get it. Different people say different things.. Maybe I'm wrong. But in any case, it's all risky for everyone.