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Mainstream porn definitely has to do with the problem.. Rough porn, barely legal stuff, BDSM practices being normalized without it being actually acknowledged.. I also think the ''manosphere'' and other such things are influencing the way people about women and about these types of interactions...

It's not just clients who are criminalized.. We could be as well, for ''soliciting''. Also, like I said, the law allows a lot of different people to be considered pimps. According to the law, I am not allowed to work with another provider. A landlord could also kick me out if I hosted from home...

Decrim has a lot of advantages, including the one you named. One thing I've noticed is that not everyone who has bad behavior as a client is truly a horrible person, often bad behavior is enabled by peers. Certain types of behavior and certain expectations are normalized. I'll give a personal...

There's nothing you can do as a client aside from advocating for decrim and for sex worker's rights. What you can do is change the way you treat sex workers, and the way you perceive us and our services. You can realize that you're paying us for our time (not for the number of minutes you're...

A lot of pimps are women.. and it doesn't have anything to do with "high end" or "low end". These terms don't even mean anything. There are women who pose as "assistants" but are taking a cut from the escorts they "manage" and exploit them in various ways. I think we're running around in circles...

At the same time, I want people here to know that we DO have moments we enjoy with our clients, and that we're grateful for.. and I think very often it was reciprocal. It's just that most of the time these moments will not be written about in reviews, or not in detail. And yes, interestingly...

I don't like saying this but from what I've seen on this forum and what I've heard elsewhere, often it's on the client side that there is misinformation about STI's or there is some type of carelessness.. It's good to know that at a parlour girls are getting STI screenings. When I worked at...

Chemistry isn't some form of currency, too. It's not something we can control or that is created by us.. It's both people. What I like about this client isn't just the physical chemistry we have, it's also the mental connection and our jokes together and our conversations. I also like that we do...

From what I've been told, at legal brothels, STI screening is mandatory.. FOR THE PROVIDERS. Not for the clients. And logistically it makes no sense to give every client a STI screening every time they want to visit the brothel. To me that doesn't change much from how things are now lol...

Decrim is good for everyone involved including clients.. And we know that clients are criminalized. I just find it strange that some clients here want it legalized and don't support us in wanting decrim, when in fact they would have a lot more options as clients if it was decriminalized vs...

I know I am adding some right now. Weekend ruined lol

Have you read my very long comment about decriminalization versus legalization? People are not pushing for decrim because they don't want to pay taxes lol I'm not going to repeat all of this.

It's not just people who are as wealthy as Epstein. When I was in university I knew a girl who was groomed and abused by her teacher in high school over the course of a year.. Not a wealthy man but someone who was well liked in her town and who was popular with students. She came from a poor...

It was an extreme example, I agree.. But that doesn't mean it doesn't reflect reality. Abuse is always about power dynamics. You are still missing my point. If a victim is not seen as credible and not respected as a person, LE won't care and most people won't believe them. If the abuser is well...

Just look at the Epstein files.. It took decades until this came to light, and a lot of victims had reported to LE. They were not taken seriously. A lot of the victims of Epstein were girls who were from abusive homes, they needed money and they were often seen as juvenile delinquents, which...

I agree with you, but a lot of people don't agree on the definition of abuse, and a lot of people don't understand nuances when these situations are discussed. It's also very hard to prove it in front of a judge, and it's hard to prove to and by LE. Personally I wish people would just learn more...

It's not controversial to support a victim of assault or abuse.

What are you saying because I don't get it lol There's a difference between paying for someone's services & treating them well, VS exploiting or abusing them due to a class difference. This can be seen in other industries as well.

Would I do what if I were a millionaire? Would I be a sex worker? No. But I also wouldn't do a lot of other things. If I was a millionaire I would just focus on my art and on helping others, I wouldn't have any type of job. Most clients of sex workers aren't so rich that they aren't working for...

I disagree with that personally. I see what you mean, but in a lot of cases it isn't true. If I put up an ad and a respectful client who is nice to me books me, I don't think he is abusing his power. What is an abuse of power is when a client sees that a provider is desperate for money and...