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I'm not that into clubs but I've had dates like this with clients before, and I loved it! One client took me to his favorite Montreal club, and at first I was anxious because I don't like crowds, but we had a lot of fun. I've also been taken to a strip club with a client, and that was super fun.

I don't see why a SP would be bothered by that? Over the course of 4 years I have seen a few guys who had what is medically considered a micro penis.. I would never make someone like this feel bad. My job isn't to judge people's bodies and physical appearance, unless they are doing something on...

They are an escort agency. ''benefiting from sexual services'' is what they do. And they do recruit girls. I've had agencies try to recruit me before. Not XO, but I have text messages to prove it lol

I've never heard of a SP refusing clients like that.. Maybe you'll see that on some sketchy leolist ad. Who knows. I think for the SP it's important to know that in a case like this the condom will not slip off and that the client understands his own body

They are not bullshit charges. And it's not because those are the charges that this is the reason this agency was specifically targeted, otherwise many others would be. If you don't understand that, this means you don't understand how the justice system works. Lawyers know what is most likely to...

They aren't the same thing. Just go back in the thread. https://www.nswp.org/sites/default/files/guide_to_legal_models_english_prf04.pdf Please note that in this guide, they say that sex workers are forced to get STI screenings. the guide frames this as a negative thing, which I understand...

I agree. I used to charge agency rates and lower so I know what you mean. It's not everyone for sure... But that's kinda what I wanted to point out last night. Clients do have some power over our experiences, and they absolutely can change the demand. It's easy to blame the pimp/employer as the...

Maybe you're right, but it feels like a lot of people continue wanting to believe what they want to believe. I think it's good that this is creating a discussion... But a lot of the same comments and complaints that I usually see on this board seem to constantly resurface through the thread and...

Thank you. I want to repeat that I don't believe all agencies are exploitative in the same way XO was proven to be after multiple testimonies. Maybe some of which aren't here on this forum. One colleague confirmed what I suspected. The bosses don't do it to all girls, they only do it to the ones...

Yes, and from what I've read and from what I've heard it's a common recruiting tactic.. or a common tactic to lower somebody's defenses in a new work place. Maxwell was also not at the top of the scheme here. This is about sex trafficking which is much different.. But I've had friends told me...

I'm trying to find Lea Rose's comment in which she talks about her poor experiences at agencies which she graciously does not name, to remind people what the subject of the thread is. You would think if a highly reviewed and serious provider says her experiences, she will be taken seriously. All...

I'm saying that because I have heard people imply this and even say it out right many times. I had to stop talking to a friend of mine because of it. But other than that, I don't disagree, it's true that in some cases the power dynamic evens itself out, and sometimes turns in the favor of the...

I'm not sharing my body.. first of all. Second of all, I think it's really a stereotype to say that the power imbalance works in our favor ''because men are depressed and lonely''. A lot of the time, men are resentful that they have to pay for a service they believe should be free. I don't...

What does your statement have anything to do with what I said? I was talking about decriminalization, not legalization. Which polls are you even referring to? Statistics don't mean much and they are often biased. It's true that there are a lot of civilian women who have preconceived notions...

Mainstream porn definitely has to do with the problem.. Rough porn, barely legal stuff, BDSM practices being normalized without it being actually acknowledged.. I also think the ''manosphere'' and other such things are influencing the way people about women and about these types of interactions...

It's not just clients who are criminalized.. We could be as well, for ''soliciting''. Also, like I said, the law allows a lot of different people to be considered pimps. According to the law, I am not allowed to work with another provider. A landlord could also kick me out if I hosted from home...

Decrim has a lot of advantages, including the one you named. One thing I've noticed is that not everyone who has bad behavior as a client is truly a horrible person, often bad behavior is enabled by peers. Certain types of behavior and certain expectations are normalized. I'll give a personal...

There's nothing you can do as a client aside from advocating for decrim and for sex worker's rights. What you can do is change the way you treat sex workers, and the way you perceive us and our services. You can realize that you're paying us for our time (not for the number of minutes you're...

A lot of pimps are women.. and it doesn't have anything to do with "high end" or "low end". These terms don't even mean anything. There are women who pose as "assistants" but are taking a cut from the escorts they "manage" and exploit them in various ways. I think we're running around in circles...

At the same time, I want people here to know that we DO have moments we enjoy with our clients, and that we're grateful for.. and I think very often it was reciprocal. It's just that most of the time these moments will not be written about in reviews, or not in detail. And yes, interestingly...