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As the Dude would say, "that's just like your opinion man". So let me understand this: there are only two "loving" relationships, wives and girlfriends, even if the wives and girlfriends are in it for financial reasons. And what will happen, and indeed what does mostly happen, when the...

And thats my point. What most guys are after in their hobbying is above all sex, and so that is the primary driver. And if what you are after is far and away the sex why wouldn't you look to spend your money on meeting as many beautiful women as possible. That thinking would probably even argue...

Exactly. To the extent that marriage often includes the desire/need to have and to raise children it is different in kind not only to long term arrangements but to many other interpersonal relationships so that they are not really comparable. Take that element away and I think that long term...

There is something wrong with prescription drug prices in Quebec and it does not relate simply to transparancy in pricing but to the bottom line amount charged. I moved back to Montreal a few years ago. In Toronto my precriptions were filled at Shoppers Drug Mart, in Montreal now at Pharmaprix...

I guess everybody is different. CIM is not really a habit I need to break. BBBJ with CIM is a good (and one might say guaranteed successful) ending. I like it both where the lady is showcasing her skills but sometimes even more when I am fucking her mouth. It may even be the best finish when...

True but unfortunately neither can you count on love.

Curly I am not at all surprised by your experience. I think it can be an upgrade to the basic encounters we have with other SPs where sex is by far the main reason for the time spent together. Arrangements can be attractive to clients who look for more than just sex (however good it might be)...

Well that may be the way you think but please do not ascribe your byzantine (google it) motivations to me. Generosity can be reciprocated in many ways. A smile and a happy face can be reward enuf. These ladies work hard doing a job I couldn't do. Lets be on their side a little. Most SPs I know...

Monsieur de Givenchy is my fav. A lady gave me a bottle of Allure by Chanel. Its pretty good too.

Yeah I don't get it either. Don't sweat the small numbers. A little generosity is often much appreciated and is often reciprocated. A lady friend tells me about a client who agrees on the price and then gives her a wad of small bills that always winds up $10-$20 short when she gets thru counting...

Nah, I may be pissed off but I'm really still having too much fun for now. The time may well come soon enuf when I have to move on but let me assure you that I will have no difficulty doing so if it becomes necessary.

Yeah I guess there is a problem then. JMO but I find that that many value judgements are driven by social convention and conditioning, not to mention hypocrisy. and that many of the distinctions that are drawn are in fact without a difference fundamentally. This is a broad topic about which much...

Ok right those are the benefits I want. And if I cant have those I'll settle for the benefits money can buy with her, provided that they are the same benefits enjoyed by her best clients. Now if I can't have that either I guess I'll just be on my way.

oh this lady knows that I like her alot. I thought that I knew where I stood with her - basically a client she likes alot and enjoys spending time with. But then I found out that she was ymmv and that I did not have access to the full menu, so now I'm really not sure. I will get to the bottom of...

No I do not now have nor have I recently had a "real" girlfriend. And actually I dont see much of a difference between paying for sexual services and real life. SPs want money but many real life girlfriends also evaluate their boyfriends based on what benefits they can expect. There is nothing...

Well Maria I guess I have to agree that it seems unusual to me for a client to have this reaction after only just meeting an SP for the first time. This has only happened to me once and only after seeing the lady in question regularly over about 18 months. So in my case these feelings only...

First of all Maria thanks for replying to this thread. I said when I started it that it would be good to have the views of contributing ladies because there is always two sides to every story and women are wired differently than men. You being an experienced and thoughtful person in addition can...

Not sure I understand your question. If you're saying I'd be better off pursuing a relationship with one of the excellent GFE providers I know, that might seem logical I guess. But I'm not at all interested in doing that (and neither are they). I (and they) are fine with things the way they are...

No worries. Thanks to all for their comments. Over & out.

WW, reading your post creeps me out because some of the behavior you describe is eerily familiar. My experience is from the sounds of it much less than yours. I do however think to have seen the same curious combination of a capacity for truly affectionate companionship on the one hand and a...