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I don't have any answers for you but I don't think anyone is ''cut out'' for this field, or not cut out for it. I think even if someone doesn't regret starting at 18, that doesn't mean they had good experiences at the time. It takes a while to find your way around this industry, no matter what...

This is my personal opinion so take it with a grain of salt... I think 18-19 is too young, yeah. That doesn't mean the experiences of SP who started at that age are not valid. I think no matter how old you are, it's difficult to start in this industry particularly if you don't ave a good...

I apologize for the terrible filter on this picture, I don't usually use them but I liked the sparkles

I've been receiving requests from clients I've never even met who were asking me for free social dates under the guise of ''doing me a favor'', whether it's driving me somewhere, showing me around in a different city or taking me out to a nice restaurant ... Why would I hang out with someone...

I don't understand why "clients time is valuable" is even an argument here. A lot of clients would also not want to hang out off the clock because they have other things to do. I've hung out with clients outside of bookings too. I've even become friends with clients before. I just don't feel...

I have to protect myself, this is also what that's about. A lot could go wrong if the relationship evolves in a way that goes beyond those boundaries. It doesn't have anything to do with ''the guy being attractive and fun enough'', but maybe one day this will change. This isn't about ''viewing...

But you know.. I think maybe some clients assume that if we don't want to hang out with them for free, that means we don't like them... which is not the case. I just don't have the time for it, and it's just generally a matter of principle, just like some clients have told me ''it's a matter of...

Same! That's also why we use social media so much.

I don't really understand what you're trying to say.. I'm not really sure what you mean by mentoring, because being ''older and wiser'' doesn't mean you can mentor somebody. I'm assuming you're talking about specific skills or a specific type of knowledge.. In the case of somebody being...

I agree that we can make mistakes when expressing ourselves, particularly online, that's why it's important to converse in a respectful manner and make sure everyone understands each other before starting to call somebody names and project negative intentions onto them :) I think a lot of people...

It's not relevant to say you know a person and have seen her several times when the discussion doesn't have anything to do with her reviews... As for respectful conversations, I think it's obvious when someone is clearly being disrespectful. Pointing out any form of abuse or disrespect isn't...

They aren't following each other ''for their ego''. I like following SP from other places in the world because I'm curious about their lives and how different the industry is in other places. Some SP also travel frequently and work in other cities and other countries, it's good to have contacts...

It's true that part of our job is to have a large following so in a way yes we're kind of like influencers but if our clients come here and agree with what we're saying or disagree with a bad review these are people we have met in person, sometimes several times. Not people who admire us from...

Undoubtedly that could be true about some people, and that is also true about men who only post bad reviews or spend their time here with a really bitter and angry attitude. in which case they are not looking for validation and approval from the women, but from the other men here. This is a very...

If guys are defending a SP that you had a meeting that wasn't up to your expectations in my opinion it just means they had a different experience with her. One guy said this on my review thread and no "white knights" came to my defense. It just happens. I found out after doing research and I...

And yet, some seem to think I'm greedy because I believe I'm being paid for my time and won't hang out for free... :)

That one would have worked

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