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It's highly unethical like I said from what I'm seeing they are making a joke out of this and they harmed a bunch of people. I wish they realized that we are real people lol

It's really hard to be independent in this industry.. it's simply not that easy. It's like having your own business... I don't feel "helped" as an Indy that agencies are targeted. I actually feel worried.

A lot of clients of indies just can't be bothered to write reviews. I have a lot of regular and repeat clients who are on this forum who never posted a review for me... I've also had somebody tell me he didn't want too many good comments for me because he wanted me to have enough time to see...

I think it's important to remember that even if sex workers are technically viewed as "victims" in this system we are not looked at with kind eyes by these people. There are no "feminists" coming to our rescue and taking us out of the industry lol this is just simply not true. Clients are also...

Most of our clients don't really write reviews.. a lot of indies still have a ton of clients even if their review thread is old. Chances are not much has changed

That's more than just drama honestly.

Oh yeah I need to take @Julia Sky out for her birthday! Any resto suggestions?

I think decriminalization would help greatly for everyone's safety. Also realistic education about sex work.. not glamorization. I have personal ideas about what the ideal conditions would be for both agency escorts and indies. I think they are connected at the end of the day. I don't think...

It wasn't a great year for me, but at this moment I feel like I'm generally happy with the direction I'm heading towards.. things are starting to make a bit more sense. I have a trip planned to Isla Mujeres in Mexico, for the first week of December, I'm really excited about that. :) I have a...

It's more complicated than that. I think there are different ''spaces'' in this industry and different practices, different client bases.. Depending on where you work, how you work and who you are, what clients perceive you as, you will have a different experience in the industry. I think that's...

you're late to the party.. there's a whole other thread about this

Yeah I know these people exist, and I disagree with them.. My point was just that you can express that you've been victim of bad treatments in the industry without holding that viewpoint, or without implying that you are a victim because you exchanged money for sex to begin with. Saying you...

Did I say otherwise? Yes you can be a victim of violence everywhere, but this industry includes intimacy and a lot of secrecy. That's pretty easy to understand. Once again I want to mention that not all or even most clients are violent.. but some are.

You can also be a victim of violence within the industry, without being an overall victim just because you're a sex worker. Two things can be true. You can consent to certain things, and have your consent taken away by certain individuals. You can also end up doing things you didn't want to do...

It's how journalism works yes, to a degree, but that's still a bias and the way he contacted people in the industry didn't show his true intentions.. It's not just agencies that are shown in this episode, and the way they are exposing this "bad side" makes it hard for anyone involved to take it...

Yes I see what you mean but her story is still very confusing to me. It doesn't seem like she had a lot of street smarts when she began. She explains that she was a people pleaser with a hard time saying no, very naive and sheltered too.. and that she had another image of what this industry...

That's true. I think it does make people think twice, and it can also be a red flag if somebody refuses minimal screening, in my opinion.. If you don't want to screen you have other options anyways.