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No. This is also a response to his question. I don't think merb needs to be represented in the media. :)

Yes the anti prostitution groups are generally on the left because like I said their leaders are often misguided. They genuinely believe most sex workers are trafficking victims. They also view themselves as defending sexual exploitation in other countries where extremely abusive sex tourism is...

No. A lot of men express disgust at sex workers and their clients too. In general I've heard a lot more awful things said about prostitutes by men than women. Dead hooker jokes were quite common when I was in university. Girls didn't find that funny. What you're expressing is indeed a...

I've seen a lot of clients here victimize themselves and act as if these laws protect us yet penalize them. That's not the case. These laws are detrimental to us just as much as they are to the clients. Sure advocacy can change laws, but it's not because of very small advocacy groups that these...

Some of the advocacy is woman led, yes. Often led by women who are biased because they worked with victims of sex trafficking, or are victims themselves. This very specific advocacy doesn't make or break laws. These organizations aren't even taken seriously by most feminist and anti domestic...

I think what your story proves also is that everyone has a different story and experience to tell. I know people who absolutely experienced abuse of different kinds at XO, but you didn't which is great. I know people who had bad experiences at Euphoria, but I'm sure some have had different...

I will say it again, with a little more insistence.. nobody needs a podcast about Merb and it's users. :) Nobody needs to draw attention to this place. Also, to the idea of "good client".. that looks different depending on the person. Maybe you think you're a good client, but that doesn't mean...

I have some availability today if you hurry up and reach out fast :) Otherwise, tomorrow unless I have a cancellation I am fully booked. Between tuesday and thursday, only bbbj and massage sessions will be available. I know some of you were waiting for the bbbj session to make it's comeback, so...

That's not true. But I'm tired of arguing with people who hate women yet love having an easy way to fuck them.

It's conservative values that are held by certain civilians who have more power and represent what we consider to be the average citizen more Clients are civilians unless they also are sex workers.. I am pretty sure a lot of men who hire sex workers would not defend the industry in front of...

That's simply not true lol

The Nordic model doesn't encourage ''the indy model'' at all.. It doesn't ensure that any form of prostitution is done in a safe way. As indies we face different difficulties, our platforms getting enshittified, some getting shut down, censorship, etc. It's very hard to screen clients in this...

Yeah also basically the journalist literally shows the incalls and where these girls work, thus putting them in danger.. he mentions a bunch of escort agencies. I just feel so bad for the people who work for these agencies right now. I would be fucking terrified.

The thing is that one of the major criticism of agencies is that they do not actually properly screen clients for the safety and comfort of workers, and what is acceptable is defined by them and not by the workers themselves. I understand why, because it's a business, but when it comes to giving...

we all have these stories tho

Most men don't want to be in a situation where they don't feel desired of course.. including clients of sex workers. There are a few bad apples who enjoy seeing someone who is uncomfortable and who are a bit sadistic. Such as the Merbite who threatened to fuck me in the ass during the service...

That's what I meant, and that can be very unpleasant when it happens. We understand that we are providing a service, but then everybody is talking about how consensual sex work should be, how much the escort is supposed to be enjoying the session or at least appearing like she does, etc. I have...

I just want to highlight the fact that everyone has different experiences in this industry once again.. and that maybe she felt mistreated by all of her clients, while another escort would react differently to those clients. I don't think men who see sex workers are deviants or at least not...

When I'm touring it can happen that I see 4 clients in one day. But there is the possibility of refreshing myself between the bookings.. Not having a moment to breath can make it difficult to provide a good service.. 15 minutes is not enough to freshen up. At a MP I can take a shower with the...

I see where you're coming from, but I also understand where she is coming from, too. I remember when I was 18-19 years old. I would never been able to get through even a day at an escort agency without freaking out. Sometimes it's important to put yourself at other people's place. I think it's...