Exactly especially when you find a kinky sp you click with, the thrill of that endorphin rush is so out of this world as it’s soooo refreshing not to keep things inside of you!
I just find it so hot doing kinky stuff with no involvement as i feel so un inhibited free and have the best orgasms ! So many great kinky sps out there!
It’s the experience of being involved vs not involved as I’ve been with 2 kinky partners but I did not feel comfortable doing some fetishes with them but with a sp it’s an open book and it’s way more exciting!