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I pointed out your spelling mistake since you're bringing up intellectual consistency and all. :)I was just teasing you... I don't know if you read my comment above but I said exactly the same thing as you, any employer is technically exploitative at least to a degree because we live in a...

I don't think it's necessarily the told of the guy to initiate but for some of us it can definitely help, in a gentle way of course. :) My comment is relating to something I read elsewhere on the forum and no recent experience of mine. But it's happened that a client ended up not being ready...

You misspelled the word dictionary. There's an explanation. These words are not slurs per se but they have certain negative connotations and associations, although neutral in many ways. I told you that although I consider that technically these employers are pimps, I would never call a spa or...

When someone books a provider and nothing sexual ends up happening because there was a lot of lively conversations and fun, it's really unfair no matter how high the rates were to say that the SP scammed the client. Sometimes it's up to the client to make the first move. Consent is important...

I said ''dream date'', it's just a fantasy and I've had experiences that were pretty close to that one :) I've had champagne, cheese and chocolate at a fancy hotel followed by a lunch date and a dinner date and a show. Just saying that happens to us sometimes and it's fun, but it's definitely...

It seems like a lot of people have trouble with the concept of power dynamics. None of us would call the staff pimps if we were working for a spa or an agency, either. We are just saying that's what they are, technically. Within power dynamic there is someone who has more power and is able to...

Yes exactly just be nice to the providers you see and there won't be a problem :)

There are different ways of looking at this. I definitely feel like it could be possible for an agency or spa owner to be really good to their employees but it depends on how much profit they want to make and what rules are in place to keep the workers safe and comfortable. But let's be real...

I don't really have an issue with the word prostitute honestly. We are engaging in prostitution. Whore is a slur, prostitute is not. However think about this : I'm not taking advantage of anyone personally and my conscience is clear. If I met a young girl and taught her the ropes and became...

Oh okay I understand your point now :)

It's not about being level headed. It's just these people are by definition ''pimps'', just like the bookers. An assistant is not the same because the provider is hiring that person herself, same thing with a husband or boyfriend who is not exploiting her but just coexisting with her.. The word...

Can you explain what is the connection between what you just said and my comment that you're quoting here? :)

Dream date : arriving at a hotel with a hot tub and nice music, with snacks and champagne and rose petals on the bedsheets :)

You're 100% right, a lot of SPs prefer to work for agencies or spas for various reasons and I think their choice should be respected.. Indies who are being exploited by someone are not really indies.. However yes it's true that even if we work for ourselves as indies we don't necessarily have...

It's Pamela Anderson's birthday today. I've always loved her and particularly lately I find her very beautiful naturally. :) I saw a post about her on instagram and all these people are insulting her, calling her old, saying she should wear makeup etc. It's really unfortunate how mean some...

Yeah. Whenever I travel I find it really hard to come back, particularly in the winter

I just want to add that I know what deep loneliness feels like.. this is my personal opinion but I think the normal reaction to being lonely is sadness and desire to connect with people and being appreciative when you do get to meet amazing ppl. I've been extremely lonely but I've never felt the...

I'm glad you have a house on the beach. I live in a small apartment and I have no car or driver's license or credit and probably will never have a house. I'm glad you have your imagination and that you're able to provide magic realism to girls you see. I hope you can use your imagination to...

These things happen here too. I understand it's worse in some countries because of poverty and I sincerely care about what's going on elsewhere in the world and donate money and art and speak out about injustices.. but you should not be invalidating us... We're only complaining about texting...